Activity for Lakeshia

Okay so me & FH have decided to hire a bartender for the wedding. To keep from trying to spend so much, should we just buy our own liquor and let the bartender serve it out or have an open bar? I heard open bars can be expensive though.

Okay, so my idea for the decorations for my reception is going to be beautiful. So I kind of want to purchase my own plates and forks. I want my plates to resemble the first photo you guys see, and my napkins to be burgundy with the gold silver...

Can someone help me figure out where to find personalized burgundy napkins like the one in the photo?