Activity for Lakeshia

Okay, everytime I say, I wanna do black bridesmaid dresses everyone looks at me funny & say why you wanna do that, is something wrong with black bridesmaid dresses?

Me & FH plan to RSVP as well, what I'm confused about is how will we be able to keep up with people that RSVP & that didn't, I mean anyone who didn't RSVP could come up & get a plate how do we control this or do I just leave this to the caterer?

I just decided to do a candy buffet table at my wedding, but need some ideas on candy that is gold. Can you guys give me some ideas?

Do you guys happen to know some creative ways to get your guests to RSVP?