Activity for Mrs. RATR

So I'm wondering if it's totally shunned to do pictures before the ceremony. We are older an have been together for years and already have children. Because of our youngest needed a nap we will be having an early evening ceremony. I'm think if we do...

So I know talking about finances on here can be a little tricky, but I wanted to help those who are newly engaged see what REAL budgets look like. So, if you feel like it, post your budget breakdown below. Try to include your general location...

Looking to do a rose or candle ceremony along with the traditional "I do'S" and ring ceremony? Anyone done something similar or a different ceremony? What were your thoughts?

Who else is wearing a cathedral veil? I bought a gorgeous cathedral veil with lace accents that matches my wedding dress, along with a fingertip veil that goes with it. I am pretty much set on wearing my hair half up half down but am wondering if...

My photographer is a superhuman and had 1500 edited photos back to me within a week of our wedding! I’ll start with a couple bits of advice, because I always enjoy that part of a BAM the most: -This was not my day. Yes, I was one of the people...

Hey! I've been trying to research different honeymoon registry websites. Does anyone have one they use or feedback on any?

Hello there everyone. After lurking and reading numerous threads I have come to the conclusion that this site is ran mostly by a few members. These ladies claim to hate bridezillas and yada yada yada, but lets be real. There are some huge bitches on...

We picked a florist this weekend and she seemed to really understand my desire for a big beautiful cascading bouquet. My mom had really only seen the traditional round bouquets before, I'd love to see your beautiful cascading bouquets or inspiration....

Hey all! FH and I are flying in from CA next week to do our engagement shoot and take care of other wedding business. FH knows the area a little better than I do, but neither of us are sure where we want to do our engagement shoot. We asked our...

OK so you all look like a helpful bunch. I need help. Back story::: I got engaged in 2013, my exhusband refused sign the last of my divorce papers until this june. (1st marriage was over in 2010, he just refused to sign) So my future new husband and...

Tacky ? Or acceptable??

I am in need of some inspiration. What are you ladies wearing to your rehearsal dinner? Pics please!

I have been searching high and low for my table numbers when I stumbled across these on Craigslist. I absolutely love them and cannot wait to use them!

Just because I am bored, show me your three stone engagement rings! I don't see many that aren't single stone! Here is mine.

So, last night I was on the phone with FSIL and she asked me what we were putting cards in. A couple questions: 1. Is that necessary? It almost seems weird to be like, hey here's where you put the money you are giving me. 2. If it IS necessary, or if...

For all of those still stuck on doing a cash bar... Go to a party or a wedding as a guest with a cash bar and see how you feel. Just went to my cousins sweet 16 last night and my notoriously cheap aunt had a cash bar. It shouldn't have been a shock,...