Activity for Kimberly

I am doing an outdoor tent wedding buffet with food stations for 60-100 people. There will also be a food truck. I think I’m going to use disposable plates (clear plastic with gold trim) but I’m debating whether to use real gold charger plates...

I've got a few issues, and the solutions my friends proposed are not viable. Any advice on whether to say anything, and if so, what? I've been engaged for a few months. Honestly, I feel like I'm ready to "speak my mind" which probably won't end...