Activity for Wedding Planner

So I am I’m need of some advice. My grandmother is planning my fiancée and I a wedding shower in Texas (we live in PA) and were trying to set a date for it. I know most places I’m looking say that having a party more than 5 months before the wedding...

I really need some pointers when it comes to planning the pre-wedding events. I know most are required really but I would like to have a bachelorette/bachelor party as well as a bridal shower, my about half of our guest list and our wedding party...