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Beginner July 2021

Early Wedding Shower?

Wedding Planner, on May 17, 2019 at 6:22 PM Posted in Parties and Events 0 4
So I am I’m need of some advice. My grandmother is planning my fiancée and I a wedding shower in Texas (we live in PA) and were trying to set a date for it. I know most places I’m looking say that having a party more than 5 months before the wedding is a bad idea but all the reasons don’t really apply in our situation.

We’re thinking October of this year but that’s 8 months before our wedding. Most of the reasoning is because some people will be in town then and our wedding requires travel for most of our guest list anyway. I feel like having a buffer before the wedding is more practical.

We are about to send our Save the Dates our (about 10 months before the wedding) because most of our guest list are coming in from out of state and they all wanted more time to get plans situated. So guest list isn’t an issue. And we’re already registered as well.
We don’t have many friends on our guest list so I’m not worried about some not being our friends later either.

I don't know what to do, I’m not sure if having it that early is bad or not.

Share your options with me please!!

4 Comments

Latest activity by Alyssa, on May 17, 2019 at 8:40 PM
  • Cristy
    Master May 2021
    Cristy ·
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    I can't think of any reason not to have it then. You seem to have covered all the bases. If your guest list is already set, then go for it!! The timing of it sounds good too, since you pointed out you'll have others in town at that time.

    Try not to get too caught up in what articles say is the "best" time to do anything wedding related. I see those more as guidelines, but I've learned that what works for one couple, doesn't always work for another. So, do what works for you and FH and your family.

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  • Wedding Planner
    Beginner July 2021
    Wedding Planner ·
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    👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 Thank you! I agree with that as well. It’s hard not to compare our wedding to others.
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  • Mandi
    Master October 2020
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    It seems early to me. But if it works, it works. Do what's best for you.
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  • Alyssa
    Super September 2019
    Alyssa ·
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    If that is what works best for you, I can't think of any reason as to why you wouldn't do this. It is so hard to get wrapped up in what others or articles say is the "right time" or what is "right or wrong", but honestly, you have to do what is best for you!

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