Activity for Stacy

So my sister is my maid of honor and cousin is my matron of honor. My cousin hasn't helped with anything for my shower, left it all to my sister. Hasn't been involved with anything for wedding, she said she wanted to help make invitations, shopping...

I don't want to the typical "here comes the bride song" (idk the actual name) would it be tacky to do something else? We asked our neighbor to play his acoustic guitar for us, now we just have to figure out what song(s) we want

Fh wants to have a dance with his stepmom, but we are at a loss for the song. He wants to surprise her, so he can't ask her for her opinion. Any suggestions will be appreciated.

I am going crazy trying to figure out what would be a good idea for wedding favors. We are hoping to do something rustic, or related to deer hunting or camo. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated!