Activity for Monica

I've never been to a wedding with late night snacks, but I know that's a thing now. We are doing a 5 hour open bar, a 2 entree buffet, cupcakes for dessert, and o'derves during cocktail hour. Do we really need late night snacks? It will be an extra...

So FH and I leave from the wedding for the hotel at the airport to fly out for our honeymoon the next day, then we have a week long honeymoon, fly back Sat night and go back to work Monday. We aren't living together until after the wedding so I plan...

So initially my parents were paying for food and my inlaws were cutting us a check that was supposed to cover alcohol and the venue (but they underestimated and we didn't say anything because what they did was still generous), and FH and I paid for...

Does anyone else just boil their blood when people don't read their envelope labels or when people say "maybe" as an RSVP? My mom is throwing a fancy shower that's 35-40$ per plate (her choice not mine but still I want to be helpful with...

In your opinion: when you see that their a shuttle offered from the hotel to the wedding do you think it encourages people not to drive drunk and they actually use it, or encourages people to get wasted? We have mostly in-town guests that live within...

My mom asked me to find her games for her shower so I found some printables online: bridal emoji pictionary, a love quote matching game, bridal bingo, and what's in your purse. Simple and quick games that are easy to see who wins. FMIL is having a...

What were some of your key shots, family-wise, for your photographer? Not talking about like "shot of my shoes and jewlery" more like "shot of me, FH, and both parents" Did you have a lot of shots listed without FH? I have been to a few weddings...

So FH and I booked a dinner at our favorite restaurant in aroom that holds 40 people, we have large immediate family and we assumed we would have 35 people. FMIL has insisted I include Godparents in like ALL of the wedding activities even though FH...

So I know I don't have to worry about RSVPs quite yet, but they're coming up, and my mom insisted I invited a few of my cousins who I KNOW wont RSVP, and if someone forces them to they might just say "yeah sure" and then not show up, because that's...

My MOH is asking me who I want to invite for the bachelorette and is asking if I want to invite my FSIL. I really don't want to because our relationship is tense and she acts like I don't exist and pretends we aren't getting married... or always asks...

We are having 2 bridal showers since our families are from areas hours away from each other, and then rehearsal dinner at a pretty casual dinner place. I found a white dress that I really like for my mom's shower and I found a purple dress (my...

The awkward moment when someone sends you an invite for their wedding that is 2 weeks after yours and you aren't inviting them to your wedding. Anyone else have that happen to them recently? I don't feel too terrible because she's having 400 people...

I was so excited about hiring a DOC last night, I didn't realize she could drop off food for the bridesmaids, set up my florals (saving me 300$ from paying the florist to do it), clean up, take care of grandparents, put gifts in cars, return...

So I was thinking of getting all of the BP cool Yeti mugs (most of us are very outdoorsy or have jobs that require a coffee everyday so it will be a hit), and then makeup bags for the girls and some outdoorsy stuff for the guys. And we got our...