Discussions by Willbewilkins

The weddings I've been invited to ranged from super casual weddings with no formal RSVPs to formal weddings with fancy RSVP cards and others in between. I have no idea how people make it work with no...

Have any of you done (or do you plan to do) a popcorn bar? How did it go? How did you set it up? Do you recommend it or not?

We've already received a couple gifts, and we are getting ready to write the thank you notes. The only problem is we aren't sure how we should address grandparents. It seems a little odd to me to...

I just found out from FH that his BM doesn't approve of us getting married. I had never gotten any indication of this from him. He has always said that I am one of the best things that ever happened...

FH and I were talking about doing pie and ice cream instead of cake. Those of you who have done this/plan to do this, should we plan for two slices of pie per person? Or maybe one slice of pie and...

I was looking at BM dresses and showed FH some of the ones I liked and some of the ones I didn't, mostly so that he can get a better idea of what my taste is for these things, since most of what I own...

Random question for you, with no judgment toward parents who do this, I just don't get it. Why do parents give their kids names that 1) are spelled in a unique way or 2) are very similar? If it's...

How do I invite SOs? As in, do they get a separate invite or do they get invited together? Married couples obviously get one invitation, and I assume engaged couples do, but what about dating couples?...

I want my cousin in my wedding and I think she would be excited to be a part of it. The thing is, she will be 13. That's definitely too old for a traditional flower girl. I know that jr. bridesmaid is...

FH and I are both neutral on the whole "first slice of cake" thing. Have any of you thought they didn't care about that then after the wedding wished you had done it? Since neither of us cares about...

My FH doesn't want to do a first look. There are pros and cons to a first look and I don't have a strong opinion about it, so we won't see each other until the altar. He's not going to see my dress...

Hi there! I've been lurking on the forums for a few days and thought I'd introduce myself. I said 'yes' on May 7th, and it's still sinking in that I get to marry my best friend in December! We are...