Discussions by Syd D. S.

Calling all brides who had 20 or less guests! FH and I are contemplating having a super small wedding in order to have everything we want--dream location, really good food, etc--all without going over...

I just really don't enjoy dancing, and I don't love to be the center of attention. So dancing at my wedding? Yikes. I know it's my day and my decision, but I also want to be a good host for my guests...

First, let me preface this and say that FH and I have discussed premarital counseling, and will hopefully be setting it up soon. I also go to therapy myself, so that's taken care of. But I wanted to...

Title says it all. Some of you might remember my last post where I asked if any of you have doubted if your FH was the one you want to be with. I was having so many nagging doubts, and I kept tucking...

FH and I have been having a lot of heart-to-heart conversations lately, about us and our future. We've decided to go to premarital counseling, which I know will be so helpful for us. While we've been...

Long story short: FH and I are talking about taking a break. Maybe even a permanent one. We rushed into the engagement, and I'm not sure if this is what I want anymore. I don't always know if we're...

We just went through these tonight and it was so good! Obviously most of these topics we've discussed prior to getting engaged, but it was fun to talk through and to see how we would handle...

I'm trying my first yoga class tomorrow and I'm so excited! It's a hot yoga studio. I'm also a bit nervous as I have no clue what to expect, and I'm the opposite of flexible... like I can't even touch...

This might be the stupidest question ever! I know that ETA means you edited your comment, but am I expected to explain why? I see people posting "ETA: ___", but I always just edit it and save. Just...

I've posted before that we bought my engagement ring online, and it really does not look like what I was expecting. (We picked it out together.) But, my FH was really excited about it, and I didn't...

Thinking about trying to go back to school after the wedding. I've always wanted to go into the medical field, and there are so many different areas to choose from. I'm particularly interested in the...

I am against friendors, and quite honestly I'm not a huge fan of his uncle anyways. He's a pastor and FH says he does all the family weddings and will be "hurt" if we don't ask him to officiate. I...

Who here has had or is planning a brunch wedding? I love the idea, but I'd love to hear more pros and cons. My FH and I aren't the party-all-night kind of people, and we love the laid-back feel of a...

I doubt anyone actually remembers things that I post, given that doesn't happen often, but our wedding plans have changed a few times now. We have gone through what each type of wedding would look...

When it came time to get the ring (a few months ago), I asked my FH if he would let me pick a few rings to choose from. I'm too picky to let him have free reign. He agreed and I chose a few from Etsy....

I don't have many girlfriends in my life to ask about their experience, so here I am! I'm going to a lady doctor for the first time this week. Also getting a birth control prescription for the first...

If you've reached out to several venues, photographers, etc., and have decided to go with someone else, do reach out & let them know you won't be using them, or just leave it?

We are doing a DW in Florida. At first I was going to get a beach permit, get all the rentals, and basically do everything from scratch. Considering that it's also 6 hours away, we just decided that...

My FH and I have decided on a DW in St. Simons Island, GA! We're so freaking excited. We'll probably end up inviting 50 people, though we're expecting less. My parents have kindly offered to foot the...

There have probably been many posts about this subject, but we're really having a hard time figuring exactly what kind of wedding we want! On one hand, we think it would be so awesome to be surrounded...