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September 20, 2015
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HEAR ME OUT!! My venue is small, in an enclosed garden. We have 170 guests. I'm not sure if we can fit that many chairs in there. Also, I am a very "get to the point" kind of person, and do not want...
Honest question. Somebody asked me when I was having my bridal shower, and I hadn't really thought about it. I made a registry because TK told me to on my wedding checklist, but honestly I forgot...
Topic. I don't understand the purpose of cake stands-- does the baker really not provide something to display the cake on? Like, obviously not a fancy dish, but is it crucial to buy one? wedding noob....
I SWEAR TO GOD. August 31st was my RSVP deadline, and today was the deadline to let the caterer know my "final" head count. Good thing I waited until after the mail came today, cause I got more late...
Less than half of my guests RSVP'd. It is a plated dinner, and they were made aware of the importance. So now I have 11 days to make absolutely certain 100 people are not interested in coming. I...
This has been such a crazy journey. When I first tried my dress on, I hated how I looked in it. You can tell by my face; my demeanor. I was not happy with my appearance. It's been ten months since I...
I have an ex from about 4 years ago. We only dated for 4 months, and he always makes us out to be more than we were. He was a sociopath, knocking me down to make me insecure so he could take advantage...
RANT TIME. FH's stepmother's aunt (work that out for a minute) seemed intent on ruining my wedding/being a bitch. First, she cried about not every step-great-aunt/uncle being invited. She wanted us to...
Currently, I'm going through music for my wedding. The big thing I want to avoid is picking something that has been done to death. When I showed one of my friends a song I was considering walking down...
We invited the absolute maximum number of guests our venue could accommodate, and the RSVPs are now flooding in. So far 63 yes's, only 2 no's, and a couple bonus guests that I did not account for....
...and now I'm back, with 45 days til my wedding. OMG. I also realized I should have met with my caterer to confirm things, like yesterday. Considering I was supposed to have 50% of my quote at 60...
I have five bridesmaids. We went dress shopping about a month ago. One of them couldn't make it... that's fine, I fully did not expect everyone to be available that day. However, the dress was within...
...which is on The Knot. But I just can't with that site anymore. All of it is just pissing me off. So I am emailing them to delete my account. I'm now making a WW website! Yay! To me it's worth the...
So I was talking to a girl at work today, and her wedding is next month. We were chit chatting about planning, and she not-so-casually mentions that she's kicking out her bridesmaid because she missed...
Bridal jewelry. I need some inspiration... my style is kind of vintage; pearls and opals are my favorite, and my dress is ivory with moderate bling. But I am at a standstill!
I'm throwing around the idea, but the quote I got was $700 (midwest)...and that seems like a lot for setting up some chairs, and decor at the reception. Which is all I need because I have a DJ...
My reception is having a plated dinner... what is the "cut off" age of a child getting their own plate of food, vs them grazing off mom's plate? Also, how do I convey this information to my guests, in...
I keep attempting to get him involved in the planning process. But he simply doesn't respond, acts like he didn't even hear me. Maybe I shouldn't bring it up while he's watching NBA Playoffs lol. But...
I am ridiculous. I was so excited about getting engaged last September that I went out and bought a dress immediately. Well, I had just had a baby 3 months prior, and I have lost 24 lbs since then...
My dad is a pastor, and I am the youngest. Neither of the older two children asked him to be a part in their respective weddings, and I know this hurt him. So I asked him to be our officiant. However,...
