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what does the mother of the groom do the day of the wedding?
spunkybutterva in Etiquette and Advice, on August 18, 2015 at 8:05 AM

My MIL has early dementia. She is also in a in a wheelchair and can barely walk. My mom made planning hell in the beginning. I’m paying for the wedding. I’m only paying for myself and my bridesmaids...

Midwest May, Aug 18, 2015 16 790
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FMIL has dementia. Advice for handing her at the wedding
spunkybutterva in Etiquette and Advice, on July 27, 2015 at 3:50 PM

FMIL is a polio survivor, disabled, and has some sort of dementia. FFIL hasn't tested her. This weekend was my shower. She got upset a few times over the weekend because my FH took my dad out but not...

spunkybutterva, Jul 27, 2015 6 12
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Bridesmaid Help
spunkybutterva in Etiquette and Advice, on July 7, 2015 at 9:29 AM

My MOH has had a rough couple of months. She is having some wedding burnout (been in a couple already this year) and her very beloved pet is having health issues. Some non-bridesmaid people have...

OriginalRandi, Jul 7, 2015 13 14
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make up artists in the DC area
spunkybutterva in Wedding Attire, on June 11, 2015 at 10:30 AM

Hey DC Brides, Do you have an makeup artists recommendations? Thanks

Mandi, Jun 11, 2015 2 15
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Wedding Day of Coordinators
spunkybutterva in Planning, on June 10, 2015 at 3:04 PM

Are they worth it? Can they calm down mothers and MILs who love to meddle and fuss? What is the average going rate? Would it be worth it even if the wedding is 35 people?

CMH to CML, Jun 10, 2015 14 27
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Rehearsal Dinner Invitations
spunkybutterva in Planning, on June 10, 2015 at 3:42 PM

Is it necessary to send out Rehearsal Dinner invitations?

Christina, Jun 10, 2015 1 11
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Ideas for a Cajun Theme Wedding
spunkybutterva in Style and Décor, on May 27, 2015 at 12:31 PM

We are having Cajun food, so I would like to make my wedding Cajun/NOLA style if possible. The ceremony will be held in the backyard of a winery; reception is in the basement of the tasting room. 1....

spunkybutterva, May 27, 2015 2 333
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Can you invite more than the venue size?
spunkybutterva in Planning, on May 7, 2015 at 1:19 PM

We signed on a venue that seated 90. We told our parents to only invite people who we knew would come because we dont have a lot of seats. Fiance's parents complied. My fiance and I complied. When I...

MrsPope, May 7, 2015 16 3,193
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Small New Orleans Destination wedding
spunkybutterva in Planning, on February 4, 2015 at 1:40 PM

Hello, we were thinking of having a small New Orleans Destination wedding. It would be under 20 people. Any ideas for a restaurant that has a private room? French Quarter or Garden District...

Angel, May 5, 2015 1 21
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Dont want to be given away. What to do about a processional?
spunkybutterva in Planning, on April 8, 2015 at 10:26 AM

I haven't really had a good relationship with my dad. Even if the relationship was good, I wouldn't want to be given away. I'm too independent and too old (36). I already told my dad. He is a little...

LadyMonk, Apr 8, 2015 10 685
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Karaoke
spunkybutterva in Planning, on April 2, 2015 at 9:41 AM

Any pros and cons of having Karoake at a wedding? We were going to do it...but here is the other thing. I'm having big issues with my parents. Such as Mom let's not invite Mean Aunt. Mom insists on...

Victoria, Apr 2, 2015 15 44
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DJs that also do Karaoke
spunkybutterva in Planning, on March 25, 2015 at 4:49 PM

Does anyone know any DJs that specialize in Karaoke in the Northern Virginia area of DC? Thanks!

spunkybutterva, Mar 25, 2015 15
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Bridesmaid dress....girls are different heights and like different thigns
spunkybutterva in Wedding Attire, on March 17, 2015 at 1:27 PM

I'm just starting to pick out brides maid dresses. I have 3 BMs. One is tall. One is petite. One is medium height. One likes halter necklines. One likes spaghetti straps. I want them to be royal blue...

jenna_, Mar 17, 2015 9 6
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Did anyone not invite their family?
spunkybutterva in Etiquette and Advice, on February 25, 2015 at 11:02 PM

My really having difficulty with my parents...there is no respect for boundaries. I feel pretty bullied and may not invite them. I have been on and off estranged from them for 10 years. My Fiances...

Monica SC, Feb 25, 2015 5 15
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Elopement Questions
spunkybutterva in Planning, on February 11, 2015 at 9:58 AM

For anyone planning to elope...did you tell your parents? What did they say when they found out? Did you have a good relationship with your parents beforehand? Any ideas on how to make an elopement...

spunkybutterva, Feb 11, 2015 29
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guest list trouble: parents were paying for the wedding and now they are not.
spunkybutterva in Etiquette and Advice, on February 3, 2015 at 2:46 PM

My parents were paying for the wedding. They wanted to invite an aunt who has been very mean to me over the years (they dont do anything about this). I said that if you invite her, we need to have...

OGSue, Feb 4, 2015 11 21
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Harpers Ferry National Park Wedding Looking for Reception Ideas
spunkybutterva in Planning, on January 30, 2015 at 3:15 PM

Has anyone ever gotten married at Harper's Ferry Wirth Hall? What did you do for a reception afterwards?

annakay511, Jan 31, 2015 4 30
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