Discussions by SoontoBeMrsBatdorf

I know this is a very touchy subject on here but this isn't the same old rehash of cash bar blah blah rant. My FH and I decided right off the bat we are going to have an open bar. The problem is...

Trying to figure out what kind of cake we want. Originally I wanted cupcakes but I'm thinking a cake now. My FH and my ideas of what it should look like are very different. He wants a more traditional...

I would like my BMs to be able to go with me but it is proving to be hard to get them together or even go with me at separate times. I'm not sure if I should just go alone or with my mom or FMIL and...

Has or is anyone doing this? My MOH thought it would be a good idea but one of my other friends had one at her wedding and I'm the only one that filled one out. I was thinking maybe it'd be better to...

First off what's something you and your fiancé put on your registry that you really wanted but thought you wouldn't receive and ended up getting it? What's your favorite item? What's the coolest/most...

Has anyone done this? Did you wear your wedding dress or another type of white dress or just regular clothes? My FH has joined the air force and is leaving for basic training in March. Since we don't...

I can't make up my mind. My one friend and I are close but we fight on and off a lot. And in the past few years our friendship has been more of a we don't talk unless we needed the other one but we've...

So my FH is insistent on having an open bar at our wedding. I agree it is much nicer to atleast have some alcohol guests do not have to pay for so we settled on the idea to provide a certain amount...

Did you have all your bridesmaids together to go shopping for their dresses? I only have one that lives near me and the other two are 2 or more hours away. It's proving difficult to get all 3 or even...

I really do not want just a regular book that everyone signs in and after the wedding just gets stored somewhere and not really ever seen again. I know there's a lot of options out there but I haven't...

What are you and your FH using as your first dance song? Are you doing a special type of dance? I have to admit I've been watching a lot of those YouTube videos recently where the bride and groom do a...

Trying to figure out what would look the best. All white/ivory table linens and skirts or white with color overlays or color table cloths. What'd you do or are you doing?

I was talking to a bride I work with today and she mentioned that she's not going to have all the centerpieces be the same for every table. I hadn't even thought of this possibility. What are you...

My dress is ivory so it has just enough of an off white hue to it that my mother's veil goes perfectly with it without me having to oxyclean it. My bridesmaids are in jade dresses and I'm planning for...

So FH and I always go out to the bars for halloween and so far have always went as a cop (me) and prisoner (him) for halloween. We are looking forward to this year changing but aren't sure what to do?...

Orginally my FH and I decided to have burnt orange and teal as our colors. Since those are his and my favorite colors. But we are on a pretty tight budget constraint and I'm having a rough time...

FH goes away tomorrow for his physical at MEPS for the airforce and I'm a little worried and can't sleep so I thought it would be fun to hear how everyone came up with their date?