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Groomsmen frustrations
Silverlava in Wedding Attire, on June 30, 2017 at 9:19 AM

So I put my FH in charge of the groomsmen (getting their rentals ordered & buying their gifts) and completely went hands-off. Today (80ish days out) I ask my FH if the groomsmen have rented their...

Nicole, Jun 30, 2017 22 1,167
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How much are you spending on BM/GM gifts?
Silverlava in Etiquette and Advice, on June 30, 2017 at 1:50 PM

I'd love to hear some numbers. My plan was $40 each for the gift, but Im also paying for the girl's dresses & makeup(~200 each), and the guy's ties (~20 each, but i couponed it down from 50...

lyla, Jun 30, 2017 5 20
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Watered down bar service?
Silverlava in Etiquette and Advice, on June 26, 2017 at 1:00 AM

Is this normal at weddings? At the last one i attended, Id order a screwdriver. The bartender would fill the cup with ice, then fill half the cup with orange juice, add a splash of vodka, then water...

Trang, Jun 26, 2017 21 1,738
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Pulling together the details
Silverlava in Style and Décor, on June 19, 2017 at 11:27 PM

I'm so lost right now. My family kinda nuked my original decor design, so I'm trying to start from scratch. However, I am at a loss trying to find a place to rent these items! Any idea where to...

Sandra, Jun 20, 2017 6 21
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Registry info for non invited guests?
Silverlava in Etiquette and Advice, on June 17, 2017 at 12:14 PM

A coworker of mine who I'm not terribly close with asked if I was registered any where. I said no, not yet (a lie), because I felt super awkward giving my registry info to someone I won't be inviting...

MrsMitch, Jun 17, 2017 11 24
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Silly little dramas
Silverlava in Etiquette and Advice, on May 31, 2017 at 1:56 PM

Anyone else have silly little dramas that stir up way more trouble than you were expecting? I just had my share of a surprising backlash yesterday, but thanks to Weddingwire I was able to handle it...

Silverlava, May 31, 2017 12 5
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Gift Question
Silverlava in Etiquette and Advice, on May 8, 2017 at 11:27 AM

So FH and I have a wedding to go to this weekend. Being so busy planning my wedding, I forgot about basic details for this wedding like what FH and I need to wear to this (very formal) affair. So last...

Lulu, May 10, 2017 44 20
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How to book a rehearsal dinner?
Silverlava in Planning, on April 14, 2017 at 9:56 AM

Is there a specific way to book a rehearsal dinner or is it just calling and making a reservation for 30-odd people? I feel like with that volume the restaurant wouldn't be able to seat you all...

A. L., Apr 14, 2017 5 711
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ISO: Makeup Artist
Silverlava in Wedding Attire, on March 30, 2017 at 10:44 AM

So evidently in my area, makeup artists who advertise their services on WeddingWire are few and far between. After an exhaustive search, I found one who met the 3 req's I had (airbrush, on-site, and...

Britteny, Mar 30, 2017 4 601
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Wedding Shoes
Silverlava in Wedding Attire, on March 23, 2017 at 9:46 AM

So, my original plan was to do some awesome platform heels like this. However, after trying on my dress with borrowed small heels, I had enough trouble walking. (plus my mom offered to let me borrow...

Silverlava, Mar 23, 2017 6 23
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Busy weekend! (veil & dress updates!)
Silverlava in Wedding Attire, on March 20, 2017 at 3:32 PM

So some of you may recall I decided to sew my own veil! Well, this weekend I finally finished it. So I went for a hair trial, picked up my dress, and tried everything all on together at once. Im so...

FutureMrsPrescott, Mar 21, 2017 45 57
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Choosing a Dress Code
Silverlava in Wedding Attire, on March 17, 2017 at 10:49 AM

Many guests have asked me what the dress code will be for the wedding and I am completely confused as to what I should pick. I always just wear a nice cocktail dress to weddings and I haven't been...

HappilyEverAfter329, Mar 17, 2017 22 231
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Wedding guest awkwardness
Silverlava in Wedding Attire, on March 10, 2017 at 8:53 AM

Two of my friends had a huge falling out over a stupid misunderstanding, but both of them are too stubborn to fix it, so I doubt anything will be changed prior to the wedding. STD's have already gone...

Jennifer VR, Mar 10, 2017 17 38
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Makeup first or hair first?
Silverlava in Wedding Attire, on March 10, 2017 at 8:45 AM

I'm looking to do a hair and makeup trial on the same day, and the makeup will be airbrush. Which one should I shedule first?

AshMar, Mar 10, 2017 8 7,391
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WW Shirt! Show me yours!
Silverlava in Wedding Attire, on February 14, 2017 at 4:52 PM

Yesss, just in time for my birthday too! Today's a great day.

TimeLadyErika, Feb 15, 2017 56 56
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Not-a-bachelor/ette party
Silverlava in Etiquette and Advice, on February 10, 2017 at 3:01 AM

All of our wedding party is from out of town, and all are young adults. I want to spend time with them just hanging out (especially since we haven't seen most of them in a year), but itd be in a more...

Sarah, Feb 10, 2017 1 2
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Ring sent for resizing
Silverlava in Etiquette and Advice, on February 7, 2017 at 1:53 AM

I dropped my ring off for resizing today--unfortunately with the cold weather and my weight loss, it is a full size, almost a size and a half, too big. Now, even more unfortunately, I won't be getting...

samantha, Feb 7, 2017 26 1,320
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How do boudoir photos work?
Silverlava in Etiquette and Advice, on January 25, 2017 at 10:13 AM

Does the photographer come to your house and you just wear whatever lingerie outfits you have? Or do you go into a studio and they have a set for you? The only reason I ask is because I hate our...

Mckayla, Jan 25, 2017 14 19
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Where did you shop for shoes?
Silverlava in Wedding Attire, on January 22, 2017 at 1:18 AM

I'm not the greatest at being able to tell quality and walk-ability of a shoe from a picture, so I prefer to try them on in person. Without spending $800 on a designer boutique shop, or dealing...

NikNak, Jan 23, 2017 28 56
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Thinking about DIYing your veil?
Silverlava in Wedding Attire, on January 22, 2017 at 12:00 AM

Be prepared for it to be a process! I kind of see why these things cost so much now! Ive only just finished pinning everything in place, and I'm 6 hrs into this project! But honestly, looking at it I...

Mrs.G, Jan 22, 2017 35 34
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