Discussions by Puddles

We've been having terrible and unjustified trouble with my FILs. They've stolen all joy from my wedding. I desperately want to cancel and just go to the courthouse with just us and his BM and my MOH....

So, our officiant has had something come up and most likely will not be able to perform our ceremony now. We obviously appreciate that she let as know as soon as she could. Now, my FSILs want their...

And my mom forgot! Thankfully, FH has rushed off to get her since she let me dad take the car to work.

Remember that time the typist made a typo on my invite and I didn't catch it? They graciously reprinted them at no charge. But, they can't find the reprints and think they got pitched during...

I'm located in Indiana about an hour south of Indy. We are not religious. After some boundaries issues have come up with his parents, we talked and are now wanting to do counseling. We're less than 90...

FH's uncle had an affair and is now going through a divorce after being married for 34 years. The family is devastated and so is his aunt. Obviously we intended to invite them together on one invite...

One of my bridesmaids who is also my hairstylist is doing my hair and makeup as well as her hair, my MOH hair, my mom, and FMIL. I know the general consensus is that friendors are bad but I can't...

I'm so blind. We ordered our invites in store from Paper Source. Their customer service and selection is amazing! However, when they sent me my proofs I didn't notice they spelled my last name wrong....

FH and I are going to Disney in January. I'm a bigger girl and have trouble wearing shorts as my thighs rub. Will FL be too hot for jeans? Maybe a silly question? Also, suggestions for comfortable but...

FH has been struggling to find a ring he actually liked. We finally found one a few days before Black Friday so we stopped back in on Black Friday to see if they'd have a deal on it. They did. We...

I'm so blessed to have so many of my nearest and dearest have selfless occupations like fire, ems, police, and dispatch. A curse because it means that quite a few of them will be serving their...

I'm unsure of what to get my MOH for a gift as she is hosting my shower in January. She is definitely going way above and beyond. I know the venue she booked alone was almost $300. We are the...

I want to have an unplugged ceremony. My reasoning is I've seen a lot of professional pictures lately with a cellphone in every single professional shot. My FMIL is upset because she wants to take...

I knew from the time I was a small child that I never wanted to have kids. I had a pretty traumatic childhood and as I got older, I had this crazy fear that if I had kids I wouldn't be a good parent....

FH and I planned a trip to Disney with his brother and his gf in January. Since booking, they have broken up and his brother has gotten reclassed so he can't go anymore. We are thinking about...