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Pirate & 60s Bride

I'm an offbeat 40+ bride! My hubby & I designed an upscale DIY Pirates of the Caribbean inspired wedding in a Napa wine cave (then a 1960s "Rat Pack"... View More

I'm an offbeat 40+ bride! My hubby & I designed an upscale DIY Pirates of the Caribbean inspired wedding in a Napa wine cave (then a 1960s "Rat Pack" reception in Temecula two months later). Amazing. Worth the wait to meet the right match; our wedding was way more creative than I could have ever dreamed. Happy newlyweds.

Happily married 🎉

March 20, 2017

3324days 13hrs

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Pirate & 60s Bride
Fun/funny E-pics: Show 'em
Pirate & 60s Bride in Planning, on June 6, 2018 at 3:19 PM

Did you take any fun or silly engagement pics? Or capture any funny bloopers on film? Show 'em! I adore Save The Dates with funny pics because it really shows a couple's personality (and it makes me...

Pirate & 60s Bride, Jun 8, 2018 36 643
Pirate & 60s Bride
Your Cake/dessert Table: Show & Tell!
Pirate & 60s Bride in Wedding Reception, on June 4, 2018 at 5:47 PM

Time to show off your wedding pics or some inspiration pics! What will (or did) your dessert table look like? We had a swanky 50/60’s themed local reception using black/white and a dash of polka dots....

Raquel, Jun 4, 2018 12 413
Pirate & 60s Bride
Bam: 1950s/60s Themed Wedding (pic heavy)
Pirate & 60s Bride in Married Life, on May 1, 2018 at 8:39 PM

Our local DIY reception was last summer but finally time to share pics… Theme: Late 50s/early 60s swanky Rat Pack nightclub. Guests were required to dress era appropriate (adorable pics but don’t want...

Tee, May 31, 2018 29 1,029
Pirate & 60s Bride
Your Honeymoon Hotel: Where and Why?
Pirate & 60s Bride in Honeymoon, on May 26, 2018 at 7:40 PM

Where are you staying for your honeymoon: hotel, cruise ship, B&B? Why did you choose that location and that venue? Post some pics! One reason we got married at Calistoga Ranch in Napa was...

Ally, May 30, 2018 12 253
Pirate & 60s Bride
Reception Entrance: What's Yours?
Pirate & 60s Bride in Wedding Reception, on May 24, 2018 at 4:54 PM

What's your style: quietly walking in, a formal announcement and entrance, or a playful march in as a couple or with your wedding party? Share some details! Post pics too, if you're already married....

Pirate & 60s Bride, May 26, 2018 26 452
Pirate & 60s Bride
Wedding Photography Tip: Landscape Photos
Pirate & 60s Bride in Planning, on May 25, 2018 at 2:16 PM

TIP: Remember your wedding venue! Whether in your home town, or in a far away land, you’ll want a few gorgeous landscape photos to remember details like…the look of your venue, the weather,...

Mrs.Sanok, May 25, 2018 13 235
Pirate & 60s Bride
The Guest Perspective: Best Weddings?
Pirate & 60s Bride in Planning, on May 22, 2018 at 4:48 PM

Hey…since most of us have been a wedding guest, which were your favorites (or most memorable) and why? Over the years, here are a few I loved: Intimate DWs: I’ve loved destination weddings with fewer...

Amy, May 23, 2018 21 772
Pirate & 60s Bride
Vote: Your Favorite Pink Wedding Linens?
Pirate & 60s Bride in Style and Décor, on May 18, 2018 at 7:23 PM

There are many linen options that can transform a wedding! For funsies, let’s say you’re having a pink wedding. Of these options, which design (not color) is your cup of tea? 1) plain satin? 2)...

Pegs, May 21, 2018 61 611
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Show & Tell: Your Bridal Bouquet!
Pirate & 60s Bride in Style and Décor, on May 9, 2018 at 8:08 PM

I LOVE bridal bouquets! Show off yours, or an inspiration photo. How does it tie into your wedding? Our wedding colors were golds, browns and oranges—I wanted orange roses with some white freesia and...

Teresa, May 20, 2018 50 1,085
Pirate & 60s Bride
Wedding Reception: The Food!
Pirate & 60s Bride in Wedding Reception, on May 16, 2018 at 5:11 PM

Arguably, one of the best parts about a wedding (especially for guests)! Did you opt for brunch or dinner? Buffet, sit-down, multi-course food & wine pairing, or something else? Share your wedding...

SB, May 18, 2018 42 672
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Wedding Ceremony Musicians: Who Are Yours?
Pirate & 60s Bride in Wedding Ceremony, on May 16, 2018 at 1:10 PM

Are you hiring any ceremony musicians—violinist, guitarist, string quartet, or your cousin who’s a famous opera singer? Inquiring minds want to know! Newlyweds…any tips for choosing musicians? Here’s...

A.Magill.Since.May, May 16, 2018 8 108
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Wedding Reception Musicians: Dj, Band, Other?
Pirate & 60s Bride in Wedding Reception, on May 16, 2018 at 1:43 PM

Will you hire a DJ, band or other musicians for your wedding reception? If you already got married, do you have any tips for reception entertainment that’ll rock the house? TIP: I lost it when my...

OnCloudRawls, May 16, 2018 12 372
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Reception Rentals: Show & Tell!
Pirate & 60s Bride in Style and Décor, on May 13, 2018 at 6:00 PM

What items did/will you rent for your décor? Which are you most excited about? Luckily for us, the venue provided cross-back chairs, farm tables, glassware, linens, and best of all—wine barrels!!! We...

DC Wife 10.27.18, May 14, 2018 15 385
Pirate & 60s Bride
Wedding Planning Help: Your Top 3 Tips?
Pirate & 60s Bride in Planning, on April 26, 2018 at 2:15 PM

Let’s help couples who are embarking on their very exciting journey! As a newlywed, what are your “Top 3” recommendations and regrets for planning your big day? Here are mine… Nailed It: 1) Kept our...

ThePeoplesBride, May 1, 2018 23 571
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Before/after Wedding Reception Photos
Pirate & 60s Bride in Wedding Reception, on May 1, 2018 at 2:52 PM

I love seeing how couples transform their venue into their dream wedding! Can you share a "before" photo of your venue (pic may be in their profile page here or in Google Images/Pinterest), and then...

NVV2B, May 1, 2018 12 377
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Show & Tell Your #1 Engagement Photo
Pirate & 60s Bride in Planning, on April 25, 2018 at 2:25 PM

To help the newly engaged, WHY did you take engagement photos and WHAT did you use them for? Worth the cost? We didn't plan to do this. But hubby found a great Groupon deal so we dressed up in the...

Megan, Apr 28, 2018 69 1,131
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Cheap Rope-wrapped Decor
Pirate & 60s Bride in Do It Yourself, on April 9, 2018 at 6:45 PM

Rope/twine décor fits soooo many wedding styles: rustic, boho, nautical, beach, country. Our pirate wedding had a lot of DIY—here’s a wine jug and unity candle I decorated (note: glue gun is freakin’...

Pirate & 60s Bride, Apr 24, 2018 14 268
Pirate & 60s Bride
diy vs. Pro Photo Albums?
Pirate & 60s Bride in Married Life, on April 14, 2018 at 8:01 PM

I've used Shutterfly for many hard-cover albums. Their DIY tool is so easy & fun! Buuut...for my reception album I'll try their Premium Album with better paper upgrades. Anyone else use it?...

Pirate & 60s Bride, Apr 15, 2018 8 408
Pirate & 60s Bride
Bridezilla moment anyone???
Pirate & 60s Bride in Planning, on April 14, 2018 at 2:12 PM

Uuuuugh, wedding planning is stressful. I mostly kept my cool. But I lost it with the venue over a tiny but important detail to us...the meaning of "family-style" dinner. It fit our theme perfectly...

Pirate & 60s Bride, Apr 15, 2018 38 1,324
Pirate & 60s Bride
Show Your Inspiration Boards!
Pirate & 60s Bride in Planning, on April 11, 2018 at 6:57 PM

Anyone make one? Please share! And link to your wedding photos if avail. During our planning, I cut & paste images of our venue's wine cave, items we bought, and rented decor into a Microsoft...

Pirate & 60s Bride, Apr 11, 2018 2 115
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