Discussions by OregonGirl

I have mixed feelings. Some people got some amazing candids I'm so glad I have and some people posted some bad photos of me I had to untag and/or ask to be deleted. It was a little out of control with...

Oh man it says 50% chance of rain on our wedding day and it's been amazing sunny fall weather all week!! I'm trying not to be bummed, because our wedding is indoors and at least our outside rehearsal...

Our photographer and ceremony musician will be eating dinner at the venue. My wedding planner says she likes to eat on the fly, but where can I seat the others?

It says 79 and partly sunny in Portland this Sat, the day of our wedding! Perfect for me! Yesterday it said rain and two days ago it said 90 degrees and sunny!!! Who else is looking at the weather??

We probably slightly overestimated the amount of cake we will need for our guest count. I hate to see this amazing cake go to waste! What is everyone doing with their leftovers? I thought about...

I forgot to order a meal for the guy that is playing for our ceremony. I got one for the DJ and all the other vendors. This guys is playing prior to and during the ceremony (so all before dinner)...

The only thing I've asked of my bridesmaids is to show up in a navy dress of their choosing in any price range. One of them complained about the cost of hair (it was an option only and all wanted to...

My dad sent me some songs a while back and asked if there was a parent of the bride dance and if so he'd like "Still the One" for he and my mom. We are already doing first dance, father/daughter and...

Omg I ordered the Spanx undies for under my dress and they arrived today. I feel like it looks like I'm wearing diapers! Maybe I should have got the black ones! I am not convinced that shape wear is...

I need my passport for our honeymoon in December, but I'm changing my name as of our wedding in September. I bought the plane ticket in my maiden name. Should I change the name on my passport yet or...

I am considering something with a light control top for under my wedding dress. Anyone find anything they like? I'm on the thin side, but my dress is very fitted and want to avoid a tummy bulge since...

I haven't liked wedding planning from the start. I try, really I do and I try hard to be positive, but really I cannot stand attending to all of these details all of the time and I feel like I've...

Can someone else say/ask something else to me please? Pleeeeease stop asking if I'm excited and telling me it's getting close. Omg this makes me crazy.

FH and I plowed through the seating chart last night and it wasn't as hard as I thought thank god. Now to put it in a spread sheet and send it off to the print shop for the place cards! Finalizing...

I'm giving the final beer and wine numbers this week. We are thinking 40-50 bottles of wine for 110 guests (we have 2 kegs of beer too). Is that too much? Also what about white to red ratio for Mid...

My dad has let me know he wants to do a toast at the wedding but no one else has. My planner said to ask people, but this feels weird to me, like hey do you want to give a toast for me? Since it seems...

I mean I know you don't HAVE to do anything, but I'm thinking about bagging a photo display at the wedding. Maybe just one small one of me and FH by the guest book. Reason why? They are just getting...

Place cards! At the print shop: Do you want matte or shiny? What font would you like? Do you want legs on the letters (what are legs?) Would you like icons on them? What icons? How big do you want...