Bridesmaids complaining

It sounds like you had your expectations in check. So I don't know why they are complaining. Some people just like to complain for the sake of complaining. Brush it off.

Sorry they are complaining. Planning will be over soon You are almost married!

It's attention-seeking. It doesn't sound like you're giving them a hard time so just ignore everything that really didn't matter. They'll eventually realize they're not getting your attention from their bullcrap and hopefully will move on.

Some people just have to complain about something - some like to hear themselves talk.

Being this close to your day I would suggest ignore it all.

You have more important things to worry about.

Can you refer them to your MOH or your mom and tell them to complain to them and that you have too much on your plate already??

Yeah it's really only two of them that have been like this the whole time. They complain about each other or tell me the other is complaining about something wedding related! I was almost snappy back, but instead I complained on here, so thank you!! Instead I said, "well the silver shoes are just an option. People should feel free to wear what they like!" Seriously having bridesmaids has been one of the most stressful parts for me and they are close friends! My maid of honor and my friend from from growing up have been awesome but the three that are local have been more a stress than a help for sure. I'm just blowing it off and choosing to focus on my friends that aren't causing stress you are right!

Sounds like you're being a very reasonable and patient bride. I wouldn't pay them any attention. I agree with @O&L see if MOH or mom will run interference for you and handle their BS.

It sounds like you're being reasonable. Just ignore all of the fussing. You couldn't have been less demanding.

I'm sorry, Oregongirl-- I wish your friends could just be happy for you!

I'm sorry, Oregongirl-- I wish your friends could just be happy for you!

That's like the most laid back you could be with the BMs, just brush it off and don't let it get to you.

You are almost married!! Dont let them get you down. They just need to shut up and be happy for you.

Don't worry so much. They should be happy to be standing by your side on your wedding day. Every bridesmaid should know what's involved when you are chosen and accept the responsibilities of being a part of someone else's wedding!

Some people are just not meant to be BMs and will complain about everything no

Matter what you do

I would ignore and refuse to respond to the chattering. Sounds like they could be lying about each other to cause strife.

Why can't people be adults? Oy