Discussions by OceanDreamin

I just need to vent! Why do people (especially family) complain about every detail about OUR wedding!? A. You aren't paying. B. You aren't getting married. C. Don't come! I feel terrible because my...

So FH and I sat down this week to discuss finances and budgeting. We noticed we were spending WAY too much money eating out! And other places. Ugh. What are your favorite budgeting apps or techniques?...

Turning 34 today and am 5.5 years older than my FH. Never dated anyone younger than me. Honestly can say there is not as big of difference as I would have thought!

Where have you had the most luck shopping for MOB/MOG dresses? We are going for a vintage garden wedding feel. Everything seems too casual or too dressy. Hoping for some advice or insider scoop! We...

For those that had a handfasting ceremony or plan to- how do you narrow down the vision? We weren't sure what to do for a unity ceremony but met with an officiant and she suggested that one. Would...

So I have been bored and have been reading lots of wedding articles and have seen some articles about having an A/B/C list. I know etiquette on here says no way and thats rude. I am curious if you...

I'm at home on bed rest and BORED!!! What are some hobbies you have started because of your SO? Or new things you have tried because of your SO? My hobby would be building things. FH is very into...

As I am working on the itinerary my mother asked if we are doing a gift opening the day after the wedding. I know my brother did one but I am wondering if this is something that is common? Is it rude...

So I am not having a bridal party but still have some amazing friends who want to host a shower. Obviously I am thankful. I tried to decline and suggested a nice dinner together instead but they are...

Well...when ya'll said you were having them I didn't believe it would happen to me! But sure enough a VIP cancelled on us because they didn't check their work schedule. FMIL works with a lady who...

We are wanting to have a gathering of friends and family to celebrate our nuptials. We want it to feel very grad party open house. Has anyone done this before? We want board games, crafts, mini golf...

Hello everyone! Just about to start dress shopping and thinking of doing a moss green tea length lace dress. Curious if others did non traditional dresses AND could I see pics!?