Discussions by Monique

So ladies my fh and I set a date for oct 27, 2012 then some family thought it was crazy that we planned n marry in 3 months. Fine, my fh and I then set a date 03/30/13. Now he wants to move the date...

I'm in my living room doing laundry and I see a UPS truck pull up. The driver gets out with 2 boxes. Seconds later there's a knock at my door and its a pay it forward from Mrs Linda. Mrs Linda thank...

This time it was our decision n it was mutual. My fh have been having issues this whole month. Constantly arguring, being in separate rooms n sometimes not talking to eachother. We know our...

My fh and I have 49 days to go and we cant wait until our wedding night. We made our decision bc of religious beliefs. Are you ladies doing this, if so hows it going? Are if you done this n now...

I wear my already purchased wedding dress to our civil ceremony? LOL. I spoke with my aunt today and she asked why dont I wear my already brought dress for the big day. Ummmmm not sure. She lives in...

I'm so freakin' happy right now. Yesterday I called the Truman Memorial Building where they have civil weddings and I'm so excited to say we are scheduled to be wed 102712. Its not long before I marry...

So doing some research on civil ceremonies here I found out you can have 14 people there. Oh n thats including my fh n I. Him, our daughters and myself is 6. So now we have 8 spots to fill. Hmmmmmm...

We have changed our plans so many times to please everyone else and to not have support from family is even worse. Im so stressed its ridiculous. We just spent $450 to get the car fixed and it...

OMGosh I want anotha baby! Crazy i know! I have 4 beautiful daughters already. What am i thinking? This feeling need to go away. My fh n I have decided to not have sex until after were married n have...

As some ladies may know my fh and I decided to have a civil wedding at the courthouse and a party afterwards. My question is can I still have a bachelorette party? Now that we are doing this not sure...

With all this drama n not so much support from my family my fh n I decided on a courthouse marriage with a party afterwards. It hurts that we get little support from family but enough is enough. We...

So I have a step dad who was there for me like 6 years my mom n him split when I was like 20. He is still involved n my kids know him as grandpa. My moms current boyfriend is wonderful. He's been...

Its been crazy this past couple of weeks. My fh n I are so fed up like seriously. My step dad, friends, n my dads sister got our back. But we had to push our date back yet again. When you have little...

So a couple of weeks ago my moh(bf) n another friend of mine(bridesmaid) who is my moh boyfriends sister went dress shopping for my gown. My bridesmaid is getting married as well butbon june 4. As we...

My fh are on a really tight budget and can't afford a caterer. We are cooking for our reception. Our menu consist of baked chicken, spahgetti, bbq ckicken, roasted potatoes, green beans and salad....

Things have changed although my mom wishes that we would wait until next year, she is starting to come around. She has decided to throw me a bridal shower. The date is 09/29/2012. So ladies when do we...

So I'm going to take the initiative and plan my own shower. Not sure if its a duty of the moh. Whether it is or it isn't. I'm going to have to plan my own shower. The way things are going n people...

He wanted us to push the date back one week. He has a business meeting on the 19th and wouldn't be able to make it until sat morning the 20th. He is walking me down the aisle and is very important to...

For my bachelorette party my bf wants to have a pure romance party as my bachelorette party. I told her I don't want strippers. She doesn't go out much so coming to a common ground is going to be...

I love my dress just as I thought I would and guess what it actually zips. My bf had to do some tugging n I had to do some sucking in but it fit. I'm still going to lose some weight. But now I have to...