Discussions by Monica

So initially my parents were paying for food and my inlaws were cutting us a check that was supposed to cover alcohol and the venue (but they underestimated and we didn't say anything because what...

Does anyone else just boil their blood when people don't read their envelope labels or when people say "maybe" as an RSVP? My mom is throwing a fancy shower that's 35-40$ per plate (her choice...

In your opinion: when you see that their a shuttle offered from the hotel to the wedding do you think it encourages people not to drive drunk and they actually use it, or encourages people to get...

What were some of your key shots, family-wise, for your photographer? Not talking about like "shot of my shoes and jewlery" more like "shot of me, FH, and both parents" Did you have a lot of shots...

My mom asked me to find her games for her shower so I found some printables online: bridal emoji pictionary, a love quote matching game, bridal bingo, and what's in your purse. Simple and quick games...

So FH and I booked a dinner at our favorite restaurant in aroom that holds 40 people, we have large immediate family and we assumed we would have 35 people. FMIL has insisted I include Godparents in...

So I know I don't have to worry about RSVPs quite yet, but they're coming up, and my mom insisted I invited a few of my cousins who I KNOW wont RSVP, and if someone forces them to they might just say...

My MOH is asking me who I want to invite for the bachelorette and is asking if I want to invite my FSIL. I really don't want to because our relationship is tense and she acts like I don't exist and...

We are having 2 bridal showers since our families are from areas hours away from each other, and then rehearsal dinner at a pretty casual dinner place. I found a white dress that I really like for my...

The awkward moment when someone sends you an invite for their wedding that is 2 weeks after yours and you aren't inviting them to your wedding. Anyone else have that happen to them recently? I don't...

I was so excited about hiring a DOC last night, I didn't realize she could drop off food for the bridesmaids, set up my florals (saving me 300$ from paying the florist to do it), clean up, take...

So all of the men (brothers, dads, groomsmen, husband) don't care what I pick for suits but they are expecting them all to coordinate. We are going to Men's warehouse this week to pick suits. I guess...

So I was thinking of getting all of the BP cool Yeti mugs (most of us are very outdoorsy or have jobs that require a coffee everyday so it will be a hit), and then makeup bags for the girls and some...

We are having an outdoor 20 min ceremony followed by cocktail hour and we will be taking family photos and a few portraits during that hour and I want to have all the time that we can have because I...

FH and I are doing the "chord of 3 strands" unity sign for our ceremony. Anyone know where to buy a nice looking easel/stand for this? Thank you in advance!

So about 8 months out I had everyone booked: the baker, the venue, photos, DJ, coordinator, florist, etc etc and found my dress, found the girls dresses, all good. Then the holidays hit and I got busy...

So let me know if these sound like enough time and a good order. We are having a buffet so we are trying to order some things based on that like cake-cutting and first dance have to be when they are...