Discussions by kahlcara

Has anyone done this? how did it go over? how would you feel about it as a guest? my mom thinks they don't need to pay for soft drinks (my parents are paying) and I don't think it's a financial issue...

I've been looking at this on and off for several days. I can't decide between the silver and the black... love the silver but it's SOOO glittery. if it wasn't glittery, I'd probably just do the...

FH and I want to do just the wedding party, immediate families and grandparents. that's about 30 people. I just got an email from FMIL saying she's looking at a place that will seat 30-50 and talking...

So, we are having a videographer. My mom said something about her coming to the house while we are getting ready, and I feel like that would be really weird.. I dont think we need video of us getting...

So it looks like FH and I will get to go to Maine for about a week as our HM, but since we can't bring our cats, that means we need to find petsitters. We don't live near our families, and the friends...

It's my half-sister, have met her several times, been to her baby shower, want to get to know her better. My mom hates her (for as far as I can find out no reason, my brother and I think my mom...

We had 3 invites that had to go to FH's family members in Canada. I remembered to take them to the post office and get the right postage put on, but I didn't think about the RSVP cards, so they have...

For favors, we're doing these little boxes filled with custom M & M's. We're also using them as placecards (writing names in different colors so the caterer knows which entree they're having)....

I mailed invitations out on Monday, today one of FH's friends called to tell us he got it already! (He's in the wedding party so we knew he was coming, but still!!) And there's new views of our...

I keep changing my mind about this. My mom has specifically asked me not to invite her and said she almost caused the breakup of my parents' marriage. I think my mom is being crazy. my brother and I...

Because it's Friday, and thinking about Amy V's hidden cat, what is the craziest thing your fur baby/ fur babies do? One of my cats loves to eat lettuce and avocado. He gets super excited whenever I...

We need to have a talk with FH's parents today about their number of guests. The reception venue has a limit of 152 (counting FH and I) and currently we have around 180 on the list. FH and I would...

We're having a 5 hour reception including cocktail hour. plan is to do a cash bar (I know some people don't like this, but I'm fine with it). Now my mom tells me she's planning on having everyone...

I started swigging from a bottle of margarita stuff while FH was on the phone with his mom earlier. they invited tons of people, we called to get them to trim some, it turned into a screaming match....

Hey, I'm thinking about premarital counseling.. there's just a LOT going on right now and I feel like it might help to talk through it with a referee. but we're not really religious so would probably...

I've been trying to lose a little weight, get more toned and eat better before the wedding. I've been having salads for lunch and trying to cut carbs and eat like chicken or an omelet or osmething for...

Lately I just haven't been able to make up my mind about wedding-related stuff. I ordered blue shoes because I didn't want white, then decided they were too blue and returned them for ivory, bought a...

I ordered flipflops for my BMs and myself for the reception and need to change some of the sizes. do I have to do it online or can I just take them in the store?

We're looking for a new place (not cause we're getting married, just really far from work and concerned about some issues with the building). Does anyone have a website to recommend? I have been...

Reception is at the same address as the ceremony, ceremony is outside, reception is indoors but there is a specific time we HAVE to be out of there by. should I put reception cards in with this...