Discussions by kahlcara

My brother and FH's brother are FH's GMs (his 2 best friends are Best Men). FH's brother is really into sports, so I think we're going to get him a jersey or a poster or something sports-related. I...

My mom keeps saying that we need monogrammed cake bags for people to take home extra wedding cake in. I've found cake bags, but not monogrammed ones, and I'm starting to worry about time. does anyone...

FH has mentioned a couple times that he wishes his best men (there's 2) would do something. he doesn't want anything big or crazy, just dinner and maybe a movie and drinks or something with his 2 best...

He's not a friend or family member, we've never met before. my mom seems to think he should be. we're not inviting him to the reception but are extending an invitation to stick around for hors...

I've been hiding the pictures from him for months. then today I went to show him pics of my wedding hairstyle, and accidentally flipped through too many photos to a dress pic. can't believe I kept it...

I'm looking for a song for our father/daughter dance.. my dad is really into country music and I know there are several good songs for this.. ideas? I'm not comfortable with super religious songs..

We weren't sure whether FH's grandmother (his one living grandparent) would be coming to the wedding because she has made an issue of me not being Jewish. FH & I have talked about it, & I would...

How are you doing a seating chart (the kind you set up at the reception so people can see it)? I'm thinking I need to list everyone alphabetically with the table number. Does anyone have a template...

So out of 153, 63 have RSVP'd. this means that 90 still need to RSVP, our RSVP date is 8/1. a few have told me or FH that they can or can't make it, but I have told all of them to also send in their...

We invited everyone's significant others (that we knew of) but did not give plus ones to single people as most of our friends are single and know each other, and doing plus ones would essentially...

I'm thinking about doing these for my WP, myself and my mom, the ones my mom is finding are like $13 a pair. Has anyone had good experiences with a particular brand/shape, etc and is there...

I'm doing this on Friday, does anyone have any advice or tips?

I'm just wondering at what point can I write that I'm married for insurance purposes? I know insurance companies sometimes have lower rates for married couples. Our renters' insurance starts a new...

I'm SO sick of it. I wish we were getting married tomorrow so it would be over. FH's grandma may or may not be coming to the wedding bc I'm not Jewish. FH & his dad are upset about this. FH also has...

What are you getting your parents? They will be getting albums but that was included in our photo package, which my parents are paying for as part of the wedding. I was thinking about writing each set...

Today on my lunch hour, I called one of my BMs' mom. They own and run vacation cabins in Maine with a couple other families, and we want to go there for our HM. My BM told me they would give us a...

My mom is insistent that we need monogrammed paper napkins for cake (caterer has cloth ones for dinner). She's paying for them, so while I think it's a little unnecessary, it's ok. how many napkins...

We decided to do customized M & M's. I just spent $320 on M & M's which is a lot, but it works out to a little over $2/person based on 150 people, plus $20 for the boxes. just...

He's been very little help in planning this whole thing, which is hugely frustrating to me because we're 300 miles from our families and wedding location. he did send out a FB request to a lot of...

Hey guys, I went to pick up my ring from the jewelers today where it had been to get engraved. They handed it to me and I looked at it, and they got FH's initials wrong! It was supposed to say "Mine."...