Discussions by jessie

Are your parents inviting guests to your wedding? if so, are they contributing financially? are your future inlaws inviting guests to your wedding? if so, are they contributing financially?

For those of you who provided shuttles to/from the hotel, when did you start the shuttles back following the reception? Reception is set to end at 10pm. Does this sound right?: 9:30 p.m. 10:30 p.m....

I'm having a bit of a tough time figuring out how much alcohol I need for the wedding. Sorry, I know this question has been asked a thousand times but I feel like this situation is a bit tricky...

For those of you who are doing your own rentals -- are you ordering extras of any tables/chairs/etc? for example: we have 99 people RSVP'd, and i'm wondering if I should have extra chairs for the...

For those of you who are doing a brunch the morning after the wedding -- how are you letting people know? are you inviting everyone who's invited to the wedding? just out of town folks?

Tell me what you've been up to -- projects you're working on? tasks you're checking off of your list? i feel like i have a million things to do and yet nothing to do at the same time? i'm getting...

1. Wording suggestions for when the couple are paying for the rehearsal dinner? It'll be more on the casual side. 2. Is it totally against etiquette to send the invite electronically via paperless...

We're getting married on my aunt and uncle's property in the Catskills. As such, we're bringing everything to the site -- and that includes alcohol. I feel confident about getting the wine and beer....

We weren't going to have a formal rehearsal dinner because everyone is out of town and it felt like too much of a hassle (especially since FH's family can't contribute). we do plan to do a...

Hello! FH and I are getting married at my aunt and uncle's summer home in the Catskills. I'm not sure of how to put that on the invitation. It's in a small town where most houses don't really have...

Which vendors did/will you tip and if so, how much? i was reading online that if it's the business owner then you shouldn't tip (unless the service was exceptional) but that you would for employees...

I just received an invitation to my future sil's (she's marrying my fh's brother) shower. i won't talk about how my name was spelled incorrectly (for the second time - was also wrong on the save the...

My FH and i recently did a cake tasting and didn't come to a clear decision. he loved the yellow sponge with lemon buttercream (and i didn't). i really liked the german chocolate with chocolate...

Background: My full name is Jessica but I've been called Jessie pretty much since the day I was born. My MOH wants to put Jessica on my shower invite and my mother was asking if I planned to do Jessie...

EDIT: I'm a big jerk, I get it. Going to let FMIL stay at the inn. I appreciate the reality check! EDIT 2: FMIL can stay at the inn IF THAT'S WHAT SHE WANTS. does that work? lol, i'm trying here!!...

I am only having a MOH (no bridesmaids) and she's amazing. She's planned my whole bridal shower on her own (I asked if she wanted help and she declined). I'm so looking forward to it, even if it is a...

Did you add anything unique or different on your invite? for example, on one invite a friend asked for a song choice, another said "zombies or vampires" (or something like that? lol). if so, what did...

Save the dates are just hitting and one person has let us know that they are not able to attend. do i still send them an invitation? i wasn't expecting declinations until the invites went out this...