Discussions by Jenna

We had a few people RSVP yes and no-show, no-call. One I was a little annoyed about because my mom had pushed for him to be on the guest list despite some reasons I thought he would no show, but two...

Yes it's Wednesday and I am drunk af.....between this and the wedding and the honeymoon I won't be sober til November and I'm totally ok with that.

Dumb question of the day - when it's ceremony time and I'm ready to go, how is that communicated between me and FH? Do I send someone out to tell everyone to get this show on the road? My hair/mua...

Ugh. I know, show up, look handsome, can't demand more. But a BM speech is a pretty standard expectation, and 6 days before the wedding, he doesn't want to, and wants to know exactly how long the...

I don't have a printer, and I feel like this amount of color ink crosses some ethical boundaries in using the office printer, lol, but I want to print my 7 table number cards as 4x6 images on card...

(who you rarely hang out with outside of work) FH is second in command at a big hotel in our city. When he got this promotion his old job was offered to another guy who's been kind of a giant mess for...

I'm still debating exactly what I want to wear, since my job doesn't lend itself to me having a lot of nice dresses and I really can't justify buying a new one. Our dinner after will be fun, but not...

My ceremony is at 3 pm but I need to be at my venue at 10 to start hair and makeup. I'm happy to have my mom and two aunts come in and see me before the ceremony, but I do not want them (ok my mom)...

Is anyone else doing an uptempo song for their first dance? Our song has always been "Life's A Happy Song" from the 2011 Muppets Movie so we always planned that would be our wedding song (until 2 days...

Our honeymoon is finally booked! We decided not to do an international trip because it's way too much stress and money on top of the stress and money of the wedding. We were going to do a road trip,...

I know there's different ways of doing it, the most sensible being by consumption. But there's no way to know how much will be consumed until it actually is! I have an estimate written into my...

If you have free family childcare available, and you're local to them as well as the venue, why in the sweet hell would you bring a 1 year old to a wedding that goes until 9 pm? Especially if they'll...

FH's friend RSVPed "for two" but she didn't respond to my question about who the guest is, nor has she she responded to another message today. I'm making a formal seating chart for guests to find...

I had a weird experience at the florist this morning - it drives me crazy when someone says what I must certainly be doing or not doing, and she said "only 44 guests, you're not doing table numbers."...

I am at this moment playing Savage Garden's I Knew I Loved You for my musically oblivious FH, to get his opinion on this song that he has somehow never heard, but I'm also trying to convince myself...

Only 4 weekend days left until my wedding! Today I made seating cards, firmed up details with a friend who's making a decoration for me, and chased down the one remaining RSVP. I should be working on...

My deadline is Saturday. Of the four remaining RSVPs, I'm certain one won't come, I know one is just bad at social conventions, I know one is coming but need to know if she's bringing a date, and the...

We took our engagement pictures 2 weeks ago. I haven't heard anything from the photographer yet, though of course I'm sure he's busy every weekend. How long is reasonable before getting antsy? We took...

Uggggggh. As you can see, it's now less than a month (!) until my wedding. My FH has always had ridiculous, nonsensical health problems whenever he gets sick, and he's been miserable all Summer, with...