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Now that we’re 4.5 months away from the big day (!!!) it’s finally time to start all the wedding planning things I’ve been just itching to start for the past year! Lol. I've realized suddenly how...

I know there’s all these threads about when people send invitations and when RSVP deadlines are in relation to the wedding, but when is your RSVP deadline in relation to when you sent invitations? Our...

So my brother is officiating our wedding, and I can't believe this hadn't occurred to me before. What does the officiant read off of, especially if it's a friend or relative who isn't a real...

Ok, so this is a follow-up on my earlier post about my FH’s grandma not being up to flying across the country to our wedding... I had a really great idea in the past couple hours and now I’m trying to...

So my FH’s grandpa was saying that he wants to book his flights to our wedding soon and was asking what hotel he should stay at (we have a room block at our hotel) so I ended up explaining everything...

As the wedding gets closer I feel like literally every emotion I’ve had about it just gets amplified. More excited, and more stressed. I’m feeling actually like a downside of being so excited is that...

Last night FH’s aunt (grandma’s daughter) reaches out to tell us that his grandma has been having more health issues than she lets on, and she’s definitely is in no shape to travel to our wedding (she...

So about 6 months before I met my FH, one of my closest guy friends at the time (lets call him P) and I *kind of* dated, but didn’t tell anyone about it because it was really casual and we didn’t know...

Does anyone else feel like they genuinely do not care about a lot of the little details that everyone seems to care about? For me, we’re spending about 75% of our budget on the venue, food, and...

Did anyone feel, a few months before your wedding, that the things you are arguing about aren’t necessarily worse but just that your reactions to them are stronger? I’ve found that we’re having the...

So my FH and I are still in a daily debate over which room we want to use for our reception, the smaller room with a small dance floor that better suits our wedding style (Sunday lunch, 3 hour...

Well, we just passed our 1 year anniversary of being engaged with just over 5 months to go until the wedding! I am starting to get to the point where the things on my checklist that I wrote months ago...

So my FH and I booked our honeymoon at a resort in Hilton Head, SC. We live in NJ and are planning on driving down because we both actually enjoy long road trips, and I get so stressed out by planes...

I know of course everyone’s various situations are different so different timing of certain things would make sense and the checklist is just a guideline, but does anyone else start to panic at things...

We live 15ish mins from our venue, which is a hotel. We have booked the bridal suite for our whole wedding weekend (wedding is a Sunday, and we have the bridal suite for Friday night, Saturday night,...

Did anyone decide to not bustle their dress, and how did it go over? I have always been planning to bustle mine because I thought it’s a necessity, but seeing how we’ll be indoors and I don’t plan to...

My MOH has been my best friend since I was 11. We went to middle school, high school, and college together (and were roommates for a year in college too). She is the type of person who very much likes...

I’ve been thinking about how annoying it would be to have to create a new email address with my married name instead of my maiden name, to have to change the email that’s used on all my accounts, to...