Discussions by Gen

We often talk about why we chose the venue that we did, but let's talk about the process behind how we all found the venues that we ended up choosing for the most important day of our lives! Was it an...

Ok this is super ridiculous and there is a context to it but it’s CRAZY. Surprise bachelor party was supposed to be tonight and tomorrow. Best man and 1 groomsman were flying in from across the...

When you all insured your engagement rings, did you insure it for the amount that was paid for it, or for the amount that the appraisal said it was “valued”? Last week insured my ring for the price my...

Just wanted to share something really simple that I did last weekend that made me significantly less anxious and less worried that I’d forget things...... I got 3 of those plastic storage container, 1...

No Mom, they’re not! I have 3 full tables of her friends (for context, only 2 tables are my friends, and 2 are FH’s) and she keeps claiming that her friends are “our friends” and that since I’ve known...

Officially under 60 days, I seriously can’t believe it. I feel like suddenly my anxiety has multiplied. Both excited-anxiety and nervous-anxiety. I also feel like crying all the time lol. Both happy...

Ok so I've always wanted to give some sort of a toast/mini-speech at the rehearsal dinner, just to thank our close friends and family and maybe say some nice things about FH lol. But now that it's...

Just a rant because UGH why do people make simple things soooo complicated??? Since groomsman are scattered across the country, we wanted to use a tux rental place like men’s warehouse or the black...

I’ve always gotten amusement out of scoffing at guests’ lame excuses for bailing on here so figured I’d just share what happened to me. Not my wedding, but a friend (let’s call her M) is getting...

So my FH literally never does anything to his hair, he kind of just lets it do what it's going to do, and sometimes it looks really nice on its own but sometimes he gets pieces sticking up where they...

My mom and grandma are both having trouble finding something to wear... they both say everything they find is either not dressy enough, or “too young” for them lol. Please share some of your MOB and...

We’re having a child-free wedding, so we were (1) very clear to only address our invitations to those who were invited (2) listed on our details/rsvp information card how many people were invited and...

So my mom has had this friend for over 20 years, who I have also known my whole life but I’m not super close with. Anyway, she is invited to the wedding and to my “surprise” shower (that’s still kind...

So we picked out our cake and did our tasting a couple months ago... vanilla cake with vanilla icing on the outside, and then for the inside fillings we did a layer of mocha and a layer of dark...

This is partly just a rant and partly like "how do you cope with things like this" lol, but my venue just keeps driving me crazy with their little errors. Originally when we booked it was big things...

So my FH and I are both Jewish, though not super religious. We’ll be signing a ketubah, I’ll be standing on FH’s right, he’ll be stepping on a glass, and he’ll be wearing a yarmulke and talit. But we...

I started thinking about this a few days ago when one of FH's friend's invitations was returned to us by the post office almost 2 weeks after we sent it. Luckily this one came back to us so we know...

Our best man, MOH, and my brother will be giving toasts at our reception, and my FH and I would also like to give a mini-speech/toast. We met with our coordinator last night and she was saying we...