Discussions by bPm 2015

Weddings cost A LOT, it is definitely an investment and cost can get out of hand FAST If you're not careful. It seems that a lot of couples are cutting back on the cost of invitations (doing a DIY or...

Wedding planning requires lots of emails to LOTS of vendors. I always feel so bad for occasionally canceling appointments! I know the vendors are busy and they probably don't think anything of it but...

Should our groomsman wear periwinkle bow ties with to match the bridesmaids dresses or should they stick to black?? FH is wearing a black bow tie and white pocket square. FH really likes the idea of...

Has anyone else noticed that dress sillouettes on models sometimes look completely different when you went to try them on? Even the dress I ended up purchasing looks nothing like it did on the model...

I know some of you may be turned off by this idea, but FH and I have a unique situation so I'm really excited about this and I think he is too. (I've dropped a hint that I have a surprise for him). He...

First, where are you going for your honeymoon? Second, when are you leaving? We are going to the Grand Cayman Islands and we are leaving MONDAY morning... We are having a brunch Sunday, the morning...

When are you all having your bridesmaids dresses altered? How long does that take? My wedding is this June, and I feel like even February is still a little too early. Thanks!

I think it's cute to see the "Mr. and Mrs" personalized items such as mugs, wall decor, throw pillows, etc but how old is too old to display those kinds of things in your home? Am I weird for avoiding...

I know a lot of registries give the option to donate to a charity, but I'm pretty sure all registries are open for viewing / purchasing to anyone. Has anyone ever "paid it forward" and bought a couple...

I ordered a custom unity candle with our monogram on it, and put his initial first!! It will read BPM, NOT MPB...like it should. The woman always comes first, do you think this will be noticeable?...

I'm having a very traditional wedding. My wedding colors are periwinkle, coral and white, my BM's are wearing long satin periwinkle dresses and my guest book attendants / greeters are wearing short...

Can anyone tell me the order of a 3 initial monogram? I thought the man's initial comes first however I've heard that it's polite to put the woman first. I've also heard the woman comes first BEFORE...

I am curious as to what you all are doing for your out of town guests if anything at all. While I don't think favors or gifts are necessary they are certainly nice. However, it would cost a lot to...

Hi ladies! I need your help! I am planning a wine tasting bridal shower for a friend and I imagine the cake being a square sheet cake with a fondant wine bottle on it. I have searched google/pinterest...

Hi everyone! I just thought I'd start a fun thread about themed bridal showers. Are any of your friends or future family members throwing you a unique bridal shower? I'm having a wine tasting at a...

I got my girls measured in a store for their dresses and then ordered them online through WeddingShoppeInc.com. I'm nervous! They have great reviews from WeddingWire, TheKnot, wedding bee, and the...

Hi ladies, I was baptized and confirmed in the Catholic church. My FH was baptized in the Presbyterian church and we are getting married in a Christian church, not having a Catholic mass. However, I...

UGH! I'm looking online and love this dress but want to see it in the color I want... does anyone have suggestions? I loved the Dessy site because you can see each swatch color on the model but on...

I am skeptical of ordering BM dresses online but I came across some great online retailers for BM dresses. They are all legit, with real stores here in the US. I have done my research, they have been...

I am trying to come up with a creative way to honor my mother at my wedding. She is the most important person in my life and I really want to honor her by doing something special at the wedding. I...