Activity for bPm 2015

I know some of you may be turned off by this idea, but FH and I have a unique situation so I'm really excited about this and I think he is too. (I've dropped a hint that I have a surprise for him). He is going on a 5 day ski trip/bachelor party....

Should our groomsman wear periwinkle bow ties with to match the bridesmaids dresses or should they stick to black?? FH is wearing a black bow tie and white pocket square. FH really likes the idea of peri bow ties. Another option is everyone in black...

When are you all having your bridesmaids dresses altered? How long does that take? My wedding is this June, and I feel like even February is still a little too early. Thanks!

I think it's cute to see the "Mr. and Mrs" personalized items such as mugs, wall decor, throw pillows, etc but how old is too old to display those kinds of things in your home? Am I weird for avoiding this kind of decoration in my home? LOL