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October 9, 2015
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My mom surprised me with this beautiful ring set of hers... It's "on loan until we upgrade", she says. I feel like this is a huge thing. My step dad was bothered by me announcing it as a hand-me-down,...
Anyone else use it? I did before (like 2012-early 2013), was able to get from 240 to 165. Then I stopped and got back to 190 and feel like a total failure :-/ BUT I just restarted my weight loss...
...and then come up with any excuse not to go to work. I personally am currently struggling with a bladder infection, a cold, and a stomach bug (potentially brought on by the bladder infection). I...
So, this Monday was my 25th birthday. (No HBD's necessary, I'm not that kind of person.) I spent it with my future in-laws (after work) and was already struggling with my anxiety and the other things...
So, FW and I passed a park yesterday that I think would be a BEAUTIFUL location for our "zombie after party", and we can totally afford to rent the outdoor amphitheater area for a 6 hour block. (Which...
Well, some of you may know that I have taken a hiatus due to anxiety problems. Well, I'm still going through them, but they have calmed down a little bit, partially due to the fact that I finally got...
OK, so, I've been discussing the wedding more with my FW and my mother, although less with anyone else. (Which, idk, probably not a bad thing, all things considered). But lately I've started to...
Pretty sure it reeks of discrimination... At FW's last gyno appointment, the doctor was adamant about having "in a lesbian relationship" added to her file. Initially I thought, hey, maybe they're...
So, I'm out of town visiting my mom and step dad (well, it's a surprise for my stepdad's birthday tomorrow). My mom and I have been talking a lot about the wedding, and we ended up agreeing to...
I was referred to MyFitnessPal by a cousin of mine, to help each other stay accountable. Is anyone else using this app? And would you like to be friends? My username there is dwagginfly if you want to...
I'm having some trouble understanding the purpose of the rehearsal dinner, and right now in my mind it seems like cutting it out would help the budget. Is this something I NEED to do, and if so why?...
FW's ex called FMIL's phone today, to talk to FW. That's fine, I know she's not a threat to me, but I was slightly peeved that FMIL just called her out of the room for the talk and didn't say...
I'm naturally super blonde, but usually dye my hair red - strawberry blonde to auburn. Well I decided to let FW pick my hair dye last week, and she went with a deep burgundy... Which everyone says...
One of my best friends got married last year, I was at her wedding but not IN her wedding, but that's fine with me because I know she has a lot of other friends and famiy members. Well, fast forward,...
...mostly to talk about wedding stuff. "KWR" because I don't plan on detailing what we discussed. But she is still trying to change where it will be, which basically means we have to talk to FMIL...
So, it's still really early in the planning process, but lately (the last couple of weeks) I've been having some problems with my depression. FW knows about these problems and is doing what she can to...
...which mostly has been her second guessing the decisions I've made so far. "Those invitations are just OK," she says after I send her some pictures of samples I've received, "but maybe you could get...
Well, in trying to build our guest list, I was discussing with my FW about the family members of hers who would be invited. I was almost broken hearted when she told me "We can't invite my...
I work for a small photography company that I love, and I've considered how nice it would be to ask them to photograph my wedding. Our normal area of business is marathons and golf tournaments, and my...
Hi there! Just wanted to briefly introduce myself. I am a newly engaged lesbian in the San Joaquin valley, working on planning a zombie-themed wedding with probably a tight budget. FW and I agreed...