Skip to main content
Babz-n-Bre
Babz-n-Bre

Happily married 🎉

October 9, 2015

3852days 9hrs

Discussions

20
Babz-n-Bre
Hand-me-down engagement ring from my mom :)
Babz-n-Bre in Wedding Attire, on February 1, 2015 at 7:25 PM

My mom surprised me with this beautiful ring set of hers... It's "on loan until we upgrade", she says. I feel like this is a huge thing. My step dad was bothered by me announcing it as a hand-me-down,...

Heather, Feb 24, 2018 16 2,052
Babz-n-Bre
Noom Weight Loss Coach?
Babz-n-Bre in Fitness and Health, on December 25, 2014 at 2:57 AM

Anyone else use it? I did before (like 2012-early 2013), was able to get from 240 to 165. Then I stopped and got back to 190 and feel like a total failure :-/ BUT I just restarted my weight loss...

Kay, Jun 9, 2016 1 46
Babz-n-Bre
NWR rant: People who complain about being poor
Babz-n-Bre in Fitness and Health, on May 16, 2015 at 1:44 PM

...and then come up with any excuse not to go to work. I personally am currently struggling with a bladder infection, a cold, and a stomach bug (potentially brought on by the bladder infection). I...

MMaru, Jun 19, 2015 19 36
Babz-n-Bre
Anxiety = Elopement?
Babz-n-Bre in Planning, on May 16, 2015 at 3:47 PM

So, this Monday was my 25th birthday. (No HBD's necessary, I'm not that kind of person.) I spent it with my future in-laws (after work) and was already struggling with my anxiety and the other things...

Private User, May 16, 2015 6 74
Babz-n-Bre
Possible reception venue... $5 for parking per car
Babz-n-Bre in Etiquette and Advice, on April 29, 2015 at 6:39 PM

So, FW and I passed a park yesterday that I think would be a BEAUTIFUL location for our "zombie after party", and we can totally afford to rent the outdoor amphitheater area for a 6 hour block. (Which...

OMW, Apr 29, 2015 29 41
Babz-n-Bre
Engagement pictures + Anxiety update
Babz-n-Bre in Community Conversations, on April 29, 2015 at 5:13 PM

Well, some of you may know that I have taken a hiatus due to anxiety problems. Well, I'm still going through them, but they have calmed down a little bit, partially due to the fact that I finally got...

Fiorella, Apr 29, 2015 12 31
Babz-n-Bre
Is it normal to question things?
Babz-n-Bre in Etiquette and Advice, on February 21, 2015 at 6:03 AM

OK, so, I've been discussing the wedding more with my FW and my mother, although less with anyone else. (Which, idk, probably not a bad thing, all things considered). But lately I've started to...

JHazel, Feb 26, 2015 27 14
Babz-n-Bre
NWR: FW's gynecologist is homophobic.
Babz-n-Bre in Fitness and Health, on February 6, 2015 at 3:08 PM

Pretty sure it reeks of discrimination... At FW's last gyno appointment, the doctor was adamant about having "in a lesbian relationship" added to her file. Initially I thought, hey, maybe they're...

Ariella, Feb 8, 2015 37 98
Babz-n-Bre
Wedding plans have changed drastically, and I love it!
Babz-n-Bre in Community Conversations, on January 28, 2015 at 5:46 PM

So, I'm out of town visiting my mom and step dad (well, it's a surprise for my stepdad's birthday tomorrow). My mom and I have been talking a lot about the wedding, and we ended up agreeing to...

Babz-n-Bre, Feb 1, 2015 22 25
Babz-n-Bre
MyFitnessPal (kwr?)
Babz-n-Bre in Fitness and Health, on January 18, 2015 at 5:26 PM

I was referred to MyFitnessPal by a cousin of mine, to help each other stay accountable. Is anyone else using this app? And would you like to be friends? My username there is dwagginfly if you want to...

BreeCheez, Jan 20, 2015 9 11
Babz-n-Bre
Is a rehearsal dinner mandatory?
Babz-n-Bre in Planning, on January 18, 2015 at 4:10 PM

I'm having some trouble understanding the purpose of the rehearsal dinner, and right now in my mind it seems like cutting it out would help the budget. Is this something I NEED to do, and if so why?...

Jess, Jan 18, 2015 18 85
Babz-n-Bre
She invited her ex to the wedding. U_U
Babz-n-Bre in Etiquette and Advice, on January 17, 2015 at 7:05 PM

FW's ex called FMIL's phone today, to talk to FW. That's fine, I know she's not a threat to me, but I was slightly peeved that FMIL just called her out of the room for the talk and didn't say...

ValZtoB, Jan 17, 2015 18 14
Babz-n-Bre
NWR: FW picked my new hair color. oops. lol.
Babz-n-Bre in Wedding Attire, on January 17, 2015 at 2:12 AM

I'm naturally super blonde, but usually dye my hair red - strawberry blonde to auburn. Well I decided to let FW pick my hair dye last week, and she went with a deep burgundy... Which everyone says...

Sisi, Jan 17, 2015 1 20
Babz-n-Bre
Best friend getting divorced :(
Babz-n-Bre in Planning, on January 13, 2015 at 12:20 PM

One of my best friends got married last year, I was at her wedding but not IN her wedding, but that's fine with me because I know she has a lot of other friends and famiy members. Well, fast forward,...

Babz-n-Bre, Jan 13, 2015 11 230
Babz-n-Bre
KWR: My mom called today
Babz-n-Bre in Planning, on January 11, 2015 at 4:20 AM

...mostly to talk about wedding stuff. "KWR" because I don't plan on detailing what we discussed. But she is still trying to change where it will be, which basically means we have to talk to FMIL...

Annie & Javi, Jan 11, 2015 2 38
Babz-n-Bre
KWR: Depression getting in my way.
Babz-n-Bre in Planning, on January 6, 2015 at 4:37 PM

So, it's still really early in the planning process, but lately (the last couple of weeks) I've been having some problems with my depression. FW knows about these problems and is doing what she can to...

Rachel DellaPorte, Jan 6, 2015 7 12
Babz-n-Bre
Well, my mom is on board with the planning now... rant
Babz-n-Bre in Planning, on December 27, 2014 at 12:14 PM

...which mostly has been her second guessing the decisions I've made so far. "Those invitations are just OK," she says after I send her some pictures of samples I've received, "but maybe you could get...

Michy, Dec 27, 2014 3 6
Babz-n-Bre
FW's family less than supportive. :( (just venting)
Babz-n-Bre in Planning, on December 18, 2014 at 4:41 PM

Well, in trying to build our guest list, I was discussing with my FW about the family members of hers who would be invited. I was almost broken hearted when she told me "We can't invite my...

jo-division, Dec 20, 2014 11 25
Babz-n-Bre
Coflicted about photography
Babz-n-Bre in Planning, on December 18, 2014 at 4:56 AM

I work for a small photography company that I love, and I've considered how nice it would be to ask them to photograph my wedding. Our normal area of business is marathons and golf tournaments, and my...

Briggitte Dix, Dec 19, 2014 16 18
Babz-n-Bre
Newly engaged... Hello!
Babz-n-Bre in Planning, on December 17, 2014 at 3:06 AM

Hi there! Just wanted to briefly introduce myself. I am a newly engaged lesbian in the San Joaquin valley, working on planning a zombie-themed wedding with probably a tight budget. FW and I agreed...

Mrs. Owens, Dec 18, 2014 14 22
WeddingWire celebrates love ...and so does everyone on our site! Explore how we embrace diversity

Groups

WeddingWire article topics