Discussions by Allie

FH and I are currently discussing what to do about our finances after marriage...fully combine vs. partially combine vs. completely separate...what do you all do/plan to do and how does it work for...

How much are you spending per person for your reception? Where are you located and what is included in the total meal and beverage cost?

How long is your wedding day from start to finish (getting ready to end of reception) and how many hours of photography are you getting to cover your day?

I am thinking about hiring a trolley to transport my guests from my ceremony site to my reception venue and provide an hour tour of NYC along the way. Are any of you hiring a trolley for your wedding?...

For those of you who did first looks - how did you feel walking down the aisle? Did you feel the first look took away the excitement and emotion of walking down the aisle? How did your first look and...

I am so on the fence about whether or not to do a first look...for those of you who did/planning on doing one - why did you choose to do one? Also, for those of you who did one...did you regret it at...

NYC Brides! I am having my wedding ceremony and reception in Manhattan at locations about 25 minutes away via car. I'm actually thinking to hire Gray Line double-decker bus for an hour to transport my...

I’m super on the fence about doing a first look or not...did any of you regret the desicion you made?

Hi ladies! For those of you who are already married - what was your favorite part of your big day? Is there anything you would change?

I’m planning to have a five course family style dinner (and cake) reception meal, but without dancing. Do you think 3 hours is enough time? We have around 45 guests. What other things would you...

I’m debating whether to have 3 or 4 courses + cake for my reception. What did you all do and how did you feel it about it?

Hi! I am planning a reception that is primarily dry (sodas and teas) and just some champagne for toasts (most of our guests don't drink). We also aren't doing dancing (maybe just a first dance at...

How many hours of photos did y'all get alone with your spouse on your wedding day (just the two of you)? This includes first look, cocktail hour, etc...did you feel you had enough hours worth of...

Hi ladies! When will you suggest to start getting ready (make-up and hair) for a 12pm first look? I don't have a bridal party, so it will just be myself getting ready! Thanks!

Hi! FH and I live in NYC, but 75%+ of our guests are flying in from other parts of the country. We aren't sending save the dates, so do you think sending our invites out around 4 months in advance is...

I am soooo on the fence about the first look! I would love FH to see me down at the aisle for the first time, but I also would love to get all the pics out of the way beforehand. For those of you who...

Hi lovelies! I’m planning to get married in NYC’s Central Park followed by a dinner reception. FH and I would really love to get photos across the city between our ceremony and reception, so we are...

I am getting married in Manhattan and am planning to have my ceremony and reception at two different venues (about 30 mins away from each other). How long would you say is the longest acceptable time...

Is anyone planning/planned a picnic reception? I’m on a budget and think a picnic reception could be a lovely idea. How did you plan and organize your picnic reception? Any advice would be great!

How are you all planning on keeping finances as husband and wife? Combined or separate accounts? Somewhere in between? Are you getting a prenup?