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Your Ceremony, Your Way! is an officiant service located in Saint Louis, Missouri that is owned and operated by Lamira Martin. Wedding ceremonies can be performed by Lamira in Saint Louis, Missouri and southern Illinois. Lamira is dedicated to providing personalized, unique ceremonies for each couple that she works with. She is a graduate and faculty member of the Celebrant Foundation and Institute. Fully certified to perform weddings, Lamira is an ordained Universal Brotherhood minister.

Services Offered
After filling out a questionnaire that is designed to help Lamira get to you and your love story, you will then work with her to explore options for readings, ring and wedding vows, and any unity ritual preferences. A unique ceremony will be crafted for you based on all this input. Lamira can act as officiant for a large variety of wedding types, including civil union, interfaith ceremonies, non-religious, rehearsal, single religion and vow renewals. Contact Your Ceremony, Your Way! today for your wedding officiant needs!

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Frequently asked questions

Which of the following are included in the price of your wedding officiant services?

Ceremony Rehearsal

Does starting price include the ceremony rehearsal?

No

What is the starting price for ceremony rehearsals?

$25

What types of weddings and events do you provide services for?

Non-religious
Interfaith
Ceremony Rehearsal
Vow Renewal
Civil Union

What religious affiliations do you serve?

Agnostic
Anglican
Baptist
Buddhist
Catholic
Earth-Based
Episcopalian
Evangelical
Hindu
Jewish
Lutheran
Methodist
No Denomination
Pagan
Presbyterian
Quaker
Unitarian

On average, how long are wedding ceremonies you officiate?

30-60 mins.

In which states are you licensed?

IL
MO

What languages do you speak?

English

Reviews of Your Ceremony, Your Way!

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Helen Sent on 10/13/2020
5 out of 5 rating

Wonderful!

Mila is wonderful to work with. Very beautiful ceremony!
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Teresa Sent on 11/04/2019
5 out of 5 rating

She was awesome!

Mila was fabulous and took the time to make our ceremony very personalized. Many of our guests commented on how wonderful she was as well. Would recommend to everyone!
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Elise Sent on 10/31/2019
5 out of 5 rating

Wonderful Officiant!

Mila was the absolute best to work with! She was so kind and professional. We met a few months out and she discussed what the ceremony involved and then gave us tons of suggestions on how to make it personal! My husband and I didn't want to even do a public ceremony at first but we are so happy we did! She listened to my requests to make it very simple and it turned out beautiful. We are so happy we found Mila and she was able to give us the perfect ceremony that represented us as a couple.
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Jennifer Sent on 10/06/2019
5 out of 5 rating

Our Wedding!

Mila was a pleasure to work with. She helped us created a ceremony that was perfect for our family. The wedding was exactly what we hoped it would be. Friends and family have told us how much they loved how personal and emotional it was. It is a day we will never forget.
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Lizzie Sent on 08/26/2019
5 out of 5 rating

Would definitely recommend Your Ceremony, Your Way to everyone!!

Mila is so wonderful to work with and I would recommend her to anyone I know getting married!! She truly takes the time to get to know you and we got so many compliments on how special our ceremony was!
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Tammy Sent on 08/11/2019
5 out of 5 rating

Wanger-Sanders Wedding

Mila was so wonderful for our intimate ceremony. Our guests really enjoyed her personality and attention she gave to our special day. Thank you for everything and for making that day so beautiful!
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Chandra Sent on 07/14/2019
5 out of 5 rating

An excellent officiant

Mila could not have been more of a joy to work with. From our first meeting we could tell that she was dedicated to providing exactly what we wanted. In the beginning, we knew what we DIDN'T want in a ceremony, but we were a little lost beyond that. The questionnaires Mila used to learn about me, my husband, and our love story really helped us figure out what we wanted to communicate to one another and to our guests. We didn't want our ceremony to be religious at all, but we have religious family members and Mila had a brilliant solution to make them feel included by adding a silent ring blessing. She was also extremely flexible and understanding as we requested changes basically all the way up to the day of our wedding. I get incredibly nervous speaking in front of people, but during the ceremony, Mila made us both feel confident and comfortable. I was told by countless - seriously, so many - guests that our ceremony was one of the most beautiful they could remember and we have Mila to thank for that!
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Kelly Sent on 07/08/2019
5 out of 5 rating

Five stars

Having Mila as our officiant was one of the best wedding decisions we made! The ceremony she crafted for us was personal, beautiful, and meaningful. I dont think there was a dry eye in the house. She captured the story of us wonderfully, and she has a lot of ideas for some very sweet "extras" to add to your ceremony to make it even more personal. We had multiple guests compliment Mila and how beautiful the ceremony was. She lead the ceremony with grace and was extremely helpful at the rehersal we had a few days before. We wanted a very personal, non traditional wedding ceremony and Mila gave us exactly that and more!
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Lindsay Sent on 10/17/2018
5 out of 5 rating

Lovely Ceremony

She was very flexible and made the ceremony exactly what we wanted. It was beautiful and everyone was impressed with the words she chose to celebrate Kris and I’s relationship. Would recommend her!
Amanda
Amanda Sent on 10/17/2018
5 out of 5 rating

Couldn't Ask For Someone Better

Mila was amazing! From our first meeting, I was completely comfortable and knew I wanted her to be our officiant. She completely customized our ceremony to fit my husband and me and was quick to respond to every email of mine. My husband and I were very busy, so emails worked better for us than in-person meetings, though I'm sure if we would have asked to meet she would have been happy to do so. She was extremely helpful in making sure our ceremony was perfect. My husband and I didn't know what we wanted as a ceremony and she crafted one that was as beautiful as it was meaningful. She is very professional but still somehow makes you feel like you've known her your entire life. I don't have the words to explain just how grateful we were to have Mila as our officiant.
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Awards

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WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2020 Winner
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2011 Winner
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2010 Winner

Professional Network & Endorsements

1 Endorsement
Wonder Weddings Wonder Weddings Wedding Officiants

Lamira is a wonderful, intuitive Celebrant and will make any occasion more special by adding her personal touch. She is open to any kind of ceremony, celebration or wedding. She even performed a "pirate" themed wedding. ARRRRGhhh-uably one of the top Celebrants around.

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