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Whist Weddings

From 75 to 130 guests
Ceremony/Reception
Outdoor/Indoor
Get Ready Rooms

Why couples loved this venue

  • Quality catering
  • Guests comfort
  • Amenities
Dorothy
Maria
Pam
Scott
Kelsey

Recommended by 100% of couples

About this venue

Nestled in Wilmington, Delaware, Whist Weddings is a stunning historic wedding venue perfect for couples dreaming of fairytale "I dos." This exclusive celebration setting is secluded within the Tilton Mansion, home to the University and Whist Club of Wilmington, and vows to make you and your beloved feel as special as you deserve. With a one-event-per-day approach, only your nearest and dearest will be with you on this milestone occasion, so you can expect nothing short of exceptional service.

Facilities and Capacity

Experience this beautifully designed mansion and its grounds as you exchange your vows and celebrate your union with family and friends. Whist Weddings can accommodate every moment of your big day across their indoor and outdoor spaces. You can walk up the aisle under the shade of mature verdant trees and a pergola, creating an intimate and romantic ambiance as you tie the knot. As your loved ones mingle and enjoy a celebratory drink, your photographer can lead you around the lush lawns to capture those magical newlywed moments. Afterward, the grand ballroom can host your reception. Tall ceilings, wooden beams, sparkling chandeliers, and a neutral color palette allow for a bright and airy event that can be adorned to match your vision. The venue can hold up to 130 guests for a seated meal with dancing and requires a minimum of 75 people. There are two private dressing rooms on-site so both wedding parties can prepare in comfort and style.

Services Offered

Whist Weddings provides a variety of services to ensure your big day runs smoothly and is as memorable as can be. The culinary team takes care of the catering, which includes hors d'oeuvres, a choice of two entrées for your plated feast, and wedding cake from a trusted vendor. You will be invited for a private menu tasting with two guests in advance, so you can rest assured every bite will be simply delicious. A five-hour open bar is also available, with a special sparkling wine toast to accompany your grand entrance or the speeches. The venue offers off-street parking and is wheelchair accessible, so all your invitees can enjoy your occasion. Take a 360° Virtual Tour and enjoy an exclusive sneak peek today!

Features

Just me

Experience

  • 36 years in business

  • We speak English and Spanish

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Weddings at this venue

Ruth & Taylor's wedding
Ruth & Taylor
12 photos
Kimberly & William's wedding
Kimberly & William
49 photos
Casey & Kathlyn's wedding
Casey & Kathlyn
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FAQ

Do you have a site fee for wedding receptions at your venue?

Yes

What is the starting site fee for wedding receptions during peak season?

$1,500

What is the starting site fee for wedding receptions during off-peak season?

$1,500

Do you have a site fee for wedding ceremonies at your venue?

Yes

What is the starting site fee for wedding ceremonies during peak season?

$1,000

What is the starting site fee for wedding ceremonies during off-peak season?

$1,000

Which of the following are included in the starting site fee?

Bridal Suite
Chairs
China
Clean Up
Flatware
Glassware
Linens
Parking
Set Up
Tables

Which of the following are included in the cost of wedding catering?

Cake Cutting
Dessert
Server(s)
Wedding Cake

Which of the following are included in the starting price for bar service?

Bartender(s)
Champagne Toast
House Beer
House Liquor
House Wine
Open Bar

What is the minimum number of guests required to book your venue?

75

How many event spaces or rooms does your venue offer?

2

Describe your venue:

Ballroom
Garden
Historic Building
Mansion

What kind of settings are available?

Indoor
Uncovered Outdoor

Which of the following wedding events does your venue service?

Ceremony
Reception
Bridal Shower
Engagement Party
Rehearsal Dinner

What event services do you offer?

Bar Services
Catering Services
Event Planner
Get Ready Rooms
Wifi

What catering services do you offer?

Buffet
Cocktail Reception
Dessert
Family Style
French Service
Hors d'oeuvres
Outside Cake
Plated
Server(s)
Stations
Tastings

What bar services do you provide?

Bartender(s)
Cash Bar
Champagne Toast
House Beer
House Liquor
House Wine
Limited Bar
Liquor License
Open Bar
Premium Liquor
Signature Drink
Specialty Beer
Specialty Wine

What event items are available?

Centerpieces
Chairs
Dance Floor
Tables

What food and beverage items are available?

Barware
China
Flatware
Glassware
Linens

What transportation and access is available?

Parking
Wheelchair Access

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Reviews of Whist Weddings

Weddingwire
5.0/5 53 reviews
Google
4.7/5 196 reviews
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Liz Sent on 11/18/2023
5 out of 5 rating

Helped make our dream wedding happen!

We got married on the Whist grounds and has our reception at the Carriage House bar on the property. It was absolutely beautiful and Margaret was amazing to work with and helped us care for the details and provided excellent vendor recommendations. It was exactly what we wanted and we were so happy with the day. We appreciate Margaret and the Whist club so much!
S
Shirley Sent on 11/14/2023
5 out of 5 rating

Fabulous experience.

Words can not express the fabulous experience that I had at University and Whist Club on my wedding day. The coordinator Margaret was absolutely wonderful. My guests loved the look and feel of the mansion. They thought it was very charming and intimate. I would definitely recommend the Whist Club for any event.
Dorothy
Dorothy Sent on 11/20/2022
5 out of 5 rating

Loved University and Whist

Margaret was extremely supportive and responsive to our needs. Everything worked out perfectly on our wedding day thanks to the team at U and Whist. All of our guests were very happy with the venue, food and drinks. I highly recommend the venue if you are marrying in Wilmington.
C
Carmen Sent on 09/28/2022
5 out of 5 rating

Absolutely wonderful

The Whist was the perfect venue for our wedding! Margaret was really responsive and helpful throughout the process. Margaret was not able to be at the wedding, but Sara made sure the reception was running smoothly. The food was delicious, the service was great, and the venue and grounds are beautiful!
J
Jenna Sent on 09/03/2022
5 out of 5 rating

Hidden Gem

We got married at the Whist Club April 2023 and we couldn’t be happier with our choice. We had to postpone from our original date in 2022 due to pandemic restrictions. Margaret and the Whist Club were so accommodating around that whole situation. Margaret was a pleasure to work with every step of the way and really does everything she can to make the day run smooth. The outdoor ceremony site is beautiful. We were lucky yo have gorgeous weather. But knowing we had the carriage house as a backup space took away any stress about potential bad weather. The getting ready suites were both fantastic. We had no complaints and couldn’t have asked for anything better. The food was amazing and we’re still getting compliments on it from our guests. I feel like the Whist Club is the hidden gem of wedding venues. I don’t hesitate to recommend them to anyone.
Maria
Maria Sent on 08/13/2022
5 out of 5 rating

Excellent Wedding Experience

Getting married at the Whist Club was a great decision on our part. Margaret was very attentive and was with us every step of the way. Leading up to the big day, she was able to give me advice as well as vendors that worked with the venue often, saving me a lot of time online looking at reviews. The day of the wedding itself went off without a hitch. The weather was perfect and having the ceremony outdoors was beautiful in the garden. The food was delicious and we heard many compliments from our guests. (Side note, we also had our rehearsal dinner here; highly recommend having it all in one place for simplicity's sake. Their food for that was amazing as well. Try the crab cakes! Overall, most of our guests were impressed with the wedding and reception, which is exactly what we were going for. I highly recommend Whist if you're looking for a reasonably priced venue that looks outstanding. Service here was top notch!
Pam
Pam M. Sent on 08/08/2022
5 out of 5 rating

Wonderful Whist Wedding!

After spending a long time looking for venues, touring several, and not feeling like we found the one, that quickly changed when we first visited the University and Whist Club. When driving up, seeing the beautiful gardens gave us the first clue that we found our venue. The Tilton Mansion is not only historical, but looks like a castle from the outside. As an added bonus, The Carriage House is a great alternative location for a ceremony if your guest count allows for it. We lucked out in being able to have our ceremony there since it rained on our wedding day. The fact that the venue includes so much, such as floral centerpieces, cake, open bar, a wedding coordinator, and more is very helpful. I knew I did not want to have to rent tables and chairs and I was glad to have chosen a venue that not only includes so much but is also very reasonably priced. Margaret, the wedding coordinator, was great to work with. She suggested we visit the venue on a day that it was set up for a wedding, which was a great idea. She was wonderful to work with from start to finish. Everyone at the Whist Club was very friendly and helpful. The food was delicious and everyone told us what a great wedding it was. We would highly recommend this venue to other couples!
Scott
Scott Sent on 02/10/2022
5 out of 5 rating

A Stress-Free, All-Inclusive Venue to Remember

We highly recommend The University and Whist Club for your wedding venue! We wanted an all-inclusive venue to cut down on some of the planning effort for our special day. When we came across the Whist we were floored, there were great spots for pictures, areas for bride/groom + wedding party to get ready, distinct areas for different parts of the wedding, spacious reception area, and a delicious variety of food that can accommodate different diets. Margaret was instrumental in helping us plan for wedding. She’s planned numerous weddings and she guided us through various ideas to find what was best for our wedding.

The Whist provided all the tables, chairs, linens, flatware, food, beverages, and staff for our event. They work with multiple vendors in the area to augment what they provide. For example, we hired the following vendors: DJ (District DJ), Photographer/Videographer (Frederick and Reid Photography), Alpacas with handlers (Illusion Ranch Alpacas), Baker (Deserts by Dana), and a Florist (M. Coty). With those few vendors, in addition to the venue, planning was much smoother - you can choose from their rolodex or find your own.

As it pertained to the venue, we heard from all of our guests about how much they loved the venue and the quality + warmth (where appropriate) of the food. As for the people behind the scenes, we talked to plenty of staffers and everyone was incredibly nice. The bartender, chefs, and wait staff did a great job.

Not having to jump from location to location for the ceremony and reception offers great peace of mind. Not needing to coordinate with rental companies and caterers for the reception is another weight off your shoulders. You may hear the cliché, “There was so much going on that we didn’t enjoy our wedding.” Through planning and coordination with Margaret, we got to enjoy every minute of our wedding with all our guests. It was an experience we’ll always remember!
J
Janice Sent on 10/27/2021
5 out of 5 rating

The Mermaid & The Fishermen got Married

The University & Whist Club was the perfect venue for our wedding! On a beautiful September afternoon we were married under the outside pergola surrounded by our friends and family. Without delay, we marched to the beat from our bagpiper to enjoy cocktails and delicious appetizers in the beautiful Hunt and Delaware rooms. The staff hand delivered appetizers making sure the busy bride and groom were taken care of. We progressed to the dinning room where dinner was served with a smile. But our favorite was the dancing in the beautiful ballroom! We performed our wedding dance under the sparkle of the crystal chandeliers then were greeted with champagne to celebrate. Working with the Whist Staff was so fun and easy throughout the whole process We liked them so much we even had our rehearsal dinner their the night before our wedding. It was perfect. Thank you University & Whist Club!
Kelsey
Kelsey Sent on 10/22/2021
5 out of 5 rating

A Dream Come True

The University and Whist Club made my wedding day dreams come true! The food was phenomenal, the venue was breathtaking, and the staff was excellent! Margaret was so lovely. She was so accommodating to any of my requests and just a pleasure to work with. Even with unexpected events, Margaret and her staff handled everything without skipping a beat. I still have guests telling me it was the best wedding they have ever been to!
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Whist Weddings frequently asked questions

Whist Weddings includes the following items and services for wedding events in its starting site fee:
  • Bridal Suite
  • Chairs
  • China
  • Clean Up
  • Flatware
  • Glassware
  • Linens
  • Parking
  • Set Up
  • Tables
Whist Weddings includes the following items and services in its wedding catering costs:
  • Cake Cutting
  • Dessert
  • Server(s)
  • Wedding Cake
The bar service starting price at Whist Weddings includes:
  • Bartender(s)
  • Champagne Toast
  • House Beer
  • House Liquor
  • House Wine
  • Open Bar
The space offered by Whist Weddings for wedding events is known for:
  • Ballroom
  • Garden
  • Historic Building
  • Mansion
Whist Weddings offers the following indoor/outdoor options for weddings:
  • Indoor
  • Uncovered Outdoor
Whist Weddings offers the following types of wedding events:
  • Ceremony
  • Reception
  • Bridal Shower
  • Engagement Party
  • Rehearsal Dinner
Whist Weddings offers the following services for wedding events:
  • Bar Services
  • Catering Services
  • Event Planner
  • Get Ready Rooms
  • Wifi
Whist Weddings offers the following furniture and decor items for weddings:
  • Centerpieces
  • Chairs
  • Dance Floor
  • Tables
Whist Weddings is recommended by 100% of couples who have used their services. Their overall rating is 5.0, with the same score awarded for quality of service, flexibility, value, professionalism and average response time.
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