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Artist at Heart • Lover of Nature • Evolving Human

Mary Ellen Deckelmann, MA – is an Officiant, Minister, Celebrant – who will add a contemporary, inspiring, and fun feel to your Wedding Ceremony since 1995.

Being a “Love” and or Relationship Happiness Coach makes it easy for her to connect with you and to find out what is truly important for you in the life you are creating together in Love.

Mary Ellen is dedicated to the magic and the spirit of deep-human-connections and because of this she is able to evoke a feeling of sacredness – love and ritual that is joyful, light-hearted, and friendly.

She brings fresh ideas to communicating your Love-Story in your ceremony – as she is whimsical, soulful, wise, and highly professional.

She honors all paths that lead to love and commitment. She has performed over 1600 plus Weddings throughout the Northwest & Maine which add to her relaxed, creative, kind, and meaningful style.

Mary Ellen grew up in Tanzania, Spain, Turkey, Sri Lanka, and Oregon.

She is a student of human potential, consciousness, and mindfulness – which adds to her expanded world-view and capacity to work graciously with her diverse clientel who are from all-over-the-world.

She loves nature and beauty – and knows so many spectacular locations in nature for your Ceremony or an exquisite venue.

Mary Ellen is so much more than your classic Officiant – she is more of a choreographer of ceremony - a day-of-coordinator – who loves to ensure your ceremony is well organized – flows effortlessly, and touches the hearts of everyone present.

She orchestrates beautiful ceremonies of Love with grace and ease – as the ceremony she creates will be a unique expression of your love and who you are.

www.weddingwithheart.com

maryellen@weddingwithheart.com

Services Offered
Mary Ellen is licensed to practice in the states of California, Hawaii, Maine, Oregon, and Washington. She has experience creating non-religious ceremonies, interfaith ceremonies, vow renewals, civil unions, same-sex unions. ceremonies, , Buddhist, Earth-Based, Non-Denominational, Boho and Pagan ceremonies.

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Frequently asked questions

What is the typical price for your wedding services?

$395

What is the starting price for your wedding services?

$200

Does starting price include the ceremony rehearsal?

No

What is the starting price for ceremony rehearsals?

$150

What is the starting price for pre-marital counseling (per session)?

$150

What types of weddings and events do you provide services for?

Non-religious
Interfaith
Ceremony Rehearsal
Vow Renewal
Civil Union

What services do you provide?

Premarital Counseling

What religious affiliations do you serve?

Agnostic
Buddhist
Earth-Based
No Denomination
Pagan

On average, how long are wedding ceremonies you officiate?

Less than 30 mins.

In which states are you licensed?

CA
HI
ME
OR
WA

What languages do you speak?

English

Reviews of Weddings with Heart & Elope Bend

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4.9 out of 5 rating
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2025 Winner
4.9 out of 5 rating
158 reviews
99% recommend it
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Mary Ellen is highly praised as an exceptional and caring officiant for weddings. Many couples experienced her dedication in creating personalized ceremonies, providing guidance on vows, and ensuring a meaningful and intimate day, even with short notice. She is described as professional, compassionate, thorough, and accommodating, with a talent for capturing the unique essence of each couple's relationship. Reviewers commend her for turning simple ceremonies into magical and memorable experiences, making couples feel at ease on their special day, and going above and beyond expectations to deliver beautiful and touching ceremonies. Overall, Mary Ellen comes highly recommended for her warmth, professionalism, and ability to create personalized ceremonies that reflect each couple's love and uniqueness.

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This AI-generated summary gives you a snapshot of the overall ratings and feedback from the reviews this vendor has received.

Mary Ellen is highly praised as an exceptional and caring officiant for weddings. Many couples experienced her dedication in creating personalized ceremonies, providing guidance on vows, and ensuring a meaningful and intimate day, even with short notice. She is described as professional, compassionate, thorough, and accommodating, with a talent for capturing the unique essence of each couple's relationship. Reviewers commend her for turning simple ceremonies into magical and memorable experiences, making couples feel at ease on their special day, and going above and beyond expectations to deliver beautiful and touching ceremonies. Overall, Mary Ellen comes highly recommended for her warmth, professionalism, and ability to create personalized ceremonies that reflect each couple's love and uniqueness.

Shelly
Shelly Sent on 12/27/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Hands down the best officiant!!!

Mary Ellen is absolutely wonderful!! She made our small elopement ceremony the most intimate perfect evening we ever could have dreamed of. We got married at Sparks Lake-one of her recommendations since we just moved to the area-and it was stunning. The ceremony & vows exceeded our expectations & we felt 100% at ease. Her joyful& bright spirit radiates through her delivery & she is dedicated to making sure your day is exactly what you want. Mary Ellen is the person you want as part of your special day…trust me!!
Dustin
Dustin Sent on 12/18/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Being in the Moment

We couldn’t have ask more from Mary Ellen (M). She shepherded us through the vow writing process, embraced every ceremony request we asked for, and most of all she helped us stay calm and present throughout the ceremony. M was a constant source of ease and calm every step of the way. She was also communicative and organized regarding process and legal documents. M was a genuine joy to have along side my husband and I as we joined our lives together. We would have zero hesitations recommending her to our own family and friends, and we happily recommend her to you.
Phyl
Phyl Sent on 12/03/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Exactly What We Envisioned!!

Mary Ellen guided us through the process of creating our intimate backyard wedding ceremony very thoughtfully. Less than one week separated our decision to get married and our wedding date. M.E. responded promptly to emails, phone calls and helping us with our vows (as needed). She took special care to understand what we wanted our ceremony to be and shared her wise suggestions, especially concerning things we had not considered. We wouldn't change a thing about our wedding ceremony. Thank you M.E.!!

Professional Network & Endorsements

7 Endorsements
Creative Images of Life Creative Images of Life Wedding Photographers

Mary Ellen is always professional and wonderful to work with. I have worked with her on a few weddings and I like her style and how she engages the couple and guests in the ceremony to make the memories of their beautiful day even more special.

Black Butte Ranch Black Butte Ranch Barn & Farm Weddings

Mary Ellen is wonderful to work with and has preformed many ceremonies at Black Butte Ranch. Couples enjoy her fun approach, and she develops a wonderful relationship with the couples she works with.

Bella Brides Bella Brides Wedding Dresses

Mary Ellen is a true gem! She is a wonderful woman who will give your wedding the time and attention for a truly beautiful ceremony! You'll certainly be in good hands!

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