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Mary Ellen Deckelmann, MA. Officiant, Celebrant, Day-of-Coordinator - Love Coach

Artist at Heart • Lover of Nature • Evolving Human

Weddings, Elopements, Adventure Elopements - Paper Signings - Paper Signings with Mini Ceremonies, Renewals, Sacred Ceremonies with just the Couple.

I offer Relationship Coaching to ensure you will have many years of a graicious and evolving relationship.

Mary Ellen will add a contemporary, inspiring, and fun feel to your Wedding Ceremony since 1995. She is highly organized and professional ensuring your ceremony will flow with ease and grace.

Being a “Love” and or Relationship Happiness Coach makes it easy for her to connect with you and to find out what is truly important for you in the life you are creating together in Love.

Mary Ellen is dedicated to the magic and the spirit of deep-human-connections and because of this she is able to evoke a feeling of sacredness – love and ritual that is joyful, light-hearted, and friendly.

She brings fresh ideas to communicating your Love-Story in your ceremony – as she is whimsical, soulful, wise, and highly professional.

She honors all paths that lead to love and commitment. She has performed over 1600 plus Weddings throughout the Northwest & Maine which add to her relaxed, creative, kind, and meaningful style.

Mary Ellen grew up in Tanzania, Spain, Turkey, Sri Lanka, and Oregon.

She is a student of human potential, consciousness, and mindfulness – which adds to her expanded world-view and capacity to work graciously with her diverse clientel who are from all-over-the-world.

She loves nature and beauty – and knows so many spectacular locations in nature for your Ceremony or an exquisite venue.

Mary Ellen is so much more than your classic Officiant – she is more of a choreographer of ceremony - a day-of-coordinator – who loves to ensure your ceremony is well organized – flows effortlessly, and touches the hearts of everyone present.

She orchestrates beautiful ceremonies of Love with grace and ease – as the ceremony she creates will be a unique expression of your love and who you are.

www.weddingwithheart.com

maryellen@weddingwithheart.com

Services Offered
Mary Ellen is licensed to practice in the states of California, Hawaii, Maine, Oregon, and Washington. She has experience creating non-religious ceremonies, interfaith ceremonies, vow renewals, civil unions, same-sex unions. ceremonies, , Buddhist, Earth-Based, Non-Denominational, Boho and Pagan ceremonies.

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Frequently asked questions

Which of the following are included in the price of your wedding officiant services?

Ceremony Rehearsal
Premarital Counseling

Does starting price include the ceremony rehearsal?

No

What is the starting price for ceremony rehearsals?

$150

What is the starting price for pre-marital counseling (per session)?

$150

What types of weddings and events do you provide services for?

Non-religious
Interfaith
Ceremony Rehearsal
Vow Renewal
Civil Union

What services do you provide?

Premarital Counseling

What religious affiliations do you serve?

Agnostic
Buddhist
Earth-Based
No Denomination
Pagan

On average, how long are wedding ceremonies you officiate?

Less than 30 mins.

In which states are you licensed?

CA
HI
ME
OR
WA

What languages do you speak?

English

Reviews of Weddings with Heart & Elope Bend

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Mary Ellen, a highly recommended officiant, is praised for her exceptional service and ability to create personalized and meaningful wedding ceremonies. Clients appreciated her warmth, professionalism, and attention to detail in crafting ceremonies that truly reflect the couples' unique styles and relationships. She was commended for going above and beyond, making each ceremony special and memorable, even for simple paper signings, and providing a seamless and stress-free experience from planning to execution. Overall, Mary Ellen's dedication and care in creating magical and intimate ceremonies left a lasting impression on clients, making their special day truly unforgettable.

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Mary Ellen, a highly recommended officiant, is praised for her exceptional service and ability to create personalized and meaningful wedding ceremonies. Clients appreciated her warmth, professionalism, and attention to detail in crafting ceremonies that truly reflect the couples' unique styles and relationships. She was commended for going above and beyond, making each ceremony special and memorable, even for simple paper signings, and providing a seamless and stress-free experience from planning to execution. Overall, Mary Ellen's dedication and care in creating magical and intimate ceremonies left a lasting impression on clients, making their special day truly unforgettable.

Katie
Katie Sent on 12/31/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Wonderful officiant! Helped remove the stress from this part of our wedding.

Mary-Ellen was wonderful to work with. We thought about having a friend do our ceremony, but it just seemed stressful. We are so glad we used her as our officiant! She gave us wonderful guidance on how to organize the ceremony and even helped us with writing vows. She helped day-of with directing things and keeping the day on track. It was one piece of our ever-changing, loose wedding plan that we just didn’t have to worry about. Highly recommended!
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Denise Sent on 12/31/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Beautiful & Seamless!

Maryellen had us at hello!
She picked up on our vision and delivered with so much thought to detail and helped us create the wedding day that just magically flowed
She’s warm, witty and has a intuitive spirit that really helped us with the writing and execution of our vows. Amazing experience!
Lissa
Lissa Sent on 12/31/2025
5 out of 5 rating

BEST OFFICIANT EVER - Communicative, Personalized, and Grounding

Choosing Mary Ellen (ME) as our officiant was one of the best decisions we made for our wedding! From the very beginning, ME was highly communicative and genuinely invested in getting to know us, not just as a couple getting married, but as people. She took the time to talk with us about our lives, our relationship, and what truly mattered to us, and that care showed so clearly in the ceremony she created. ME also encouraged any and all edits/revisions which made our ceremony feel heartfelt, authentic, and uniquely us!

ME had a wonderful way of helping us stay present in the moment. On a day that can go by in a blur, she gently grounded us and reminded us to really be there and take it all in. We received so many compliments from guests about how special it felt. We literally can't recommend her enough!!
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Carmen Sent on 12/30/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Feeling celebrated and welcomed!

Mary Ellen Was wonderful!!!

We requested a paper signing only since our families couldn’t be with us in this special day and she definitely stepped up to help us feel welcomed, celebrated and loved with her super positive energy.
We loved having her be a part of our love celebration!

Carmen and Lalo
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Lauren Sent on 12/18/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Wonderful Service with a Welcoming Smile!

Mary Ellen is a very kind and understanding person. She welcomed us into her home to complete a paper signing for our December marriage. She was able to make a tight turnaround work which is very nice. I appreciate her hardwork and dedication to her craft.
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Kiana Sent on 12/05/2025
5 out of 5 rating

She made it so easy!

Mary Ellen was so helpful and kind. She made the process easy and left me with one less thing to worry about. She customized our ceremony so that it was special and specific to us. Thank you Mary Ellen!!! We would recommend her to anyone and everyone.
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Coby Sent on 11/18/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Wonderful experience!!

Mary Ellen was awesome and made our day special! Highly recommend her!!! Also, she walked us through the process:)
Teri
Teri Sent on 11/15/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Humorous, Heartfelt, and Expertly Delivered

Mary Ellen was absolutely fantastic and helped make our special day truly unforgettable. From our initial meeting to the "I do's," she guided us through the entire process and helped us craft a custom ceremony that was humorous, deeply personal, and perfectly reflected our unique style. We even gave her a very difficult custom poem to deal with, and she nailed it! The warmth and humor she brought was perfect for us.

She was incredibly accommodating to all our requests, seamlessly incorporating all the elements that were important to us, and she really helped us stay on task throughout the planning process.

So many of our friends and family commented on how it was the best wedding ceremony they had ever attended, a sentiment we wholeheartedly agree with. She really made our already special day even more special.

We couldn't be happier with her service and highly recommend Mary Ellen to any couple looking for a genuinely special and engaging ceremony. We loved her!
Kelly
Kelly Sent on 06/03/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Highly recommend for authentic wedding

Mary Ellen was very thoughtful in helping us create a ceremony that was exactly what we wanted. She took the time to nail down every little detail before the ceremony over the phone and via email. She was so helpful at our rehearsal, making sure everyone in the ceremony knew their role, and she was absolutely wonderful on the wedding day! We had a small outdoor ceremony with family and our closest friends, and it felt very authentic to us. She took the time to get to know us, and our ceremony was just perfect. Then, she even handled the paperwork after the ceremony so we didn’t have to worry about that. Highly recommend!
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Eliza Sent on 01/01/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Mary Ellen was an outstanding officiant in so many ways! Her knowledge of the area, guidance, & calm presence made our elopement experience special

Mary Ellen found a remarkable location, specific to our desires. Her easy going nature really helped us relax, and her exquisite choice of words to describe our feelings for one another brought a depth of love for one another we couldn't cultivate on our own. She is amazing. We highly recommend her!
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Awards

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WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2026 Winner
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Professional Network & Endorsements

7 Endorsements
Creative Images of Life Creative Images of Life Wedding Photographers

Mary Ellen is always professional and wonderful to work with. I have worked with her on a few weddings and I like her style and how she engages the couple and guests in the ceremony to make the memories of their beautiful day even more special.

Black Butte Ranch Black Butte Ranch Barn & Farm Weddings

Mary Ellen is wonderful to work with and has preformed many ceremonies at Black Butte Ranch. Couples enjoy her fun approach, and she develops a wonderful relationship with the couples she works with.

Bella Brides Bella Brides Wedding Dresses

Mary Ellen is a true gem! She is a wonderful woman who will give your wedding the time and attention for a truly beautiful ceremony! You'll certainly be in good hands!

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