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The Sutherland is a romantic wedding venue in Wake Forest, North Carolina. This location offers luscious gardens, suites for both bridal and groom parties, as well as a variety of spaces to choose from for your special day. With over six acres of ancient oaks and stately magnolias, this venue offers a classic and rustic atmosphere for you and your guests to enjoy. Whether you are having an intimate ceremony or the event of the millennium, they provide various location options on their property to suit your needs. You can book this venue now for an unforgettable wedding event.

Facilities and Capacity

This historic estate offers five event spaces for you to choose from for your wedding day. You may consider getting married under the historic oak trees or potentially in their walled garden. With The Sutherland, the possibilities are endless. Their spaces can accommodate up to a maximum of 400 guests.

Services Offered

As one of the only local venues that offer special event coordination and direction included in your package, they provide pre-ceremony consultations from the time you book your date all the way up to the big day. Detailed timelines and layouts are provided to ensure your vision turns out perfectly. In addition, their representatives are on site the entire day of your event so you can be stress-free. Plus, they offer an exclusive list of vendors who can help you put on the perfect event. They will help create the wedding you have always wanted and make it fit within your budget. Their other wedding event services include the following:
All-inclusive packages to streamline the planning process

  • Get-ready suite for you to prepare and relax
  • Setup and cleanup
  • Event planning with their experienced team of coordinators
  • Event rentals, including tables and chairs
  • Availability to work with outside vendors
  • Wireless internet for you and your guests to use to document the affair

History

The history of The Sutherland dates back to 1786. This is when Colonel Ransom Sutherland, an officer in the Fourth Regiment, North Carolina Continental Line, and a member of the Council of State, bought the property from John Mederais. Since that time, the property has had several owners, and over the years, additions were constructed to complete the final home as it stands today. The present owners have made it their mission to preserve and respect the unique history of the estate. They have blended state-of-the-art modern technology with the old style and charm of the estate to create a pleasurable wedding venue. In addition, this space can be found on the National Registry of Historic Places.

  • Woman-owned
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Frequently asked questions

Do you have a site fee for wedding receptions at your venue?

Yes

What is the starting site fee for wedding receptions during peak season?

$6,500

What is the starting site fee for wedding receptions during off-peak season?

$5,500

Do you have a site fee for wedding ceremonies at your venue?

Yes

Which of the following are included in the starting site fee?

Bridal Suite
Chairs
Clean Up
Event Planning
Parking
Set Up
Tables

Describe your venue:

Garden
Historic Building

What kind of settings are available?

Indoor
Covered Outdoor
Uncovered Outdoor

Which of the following wedding events does your venue service?

Ceremony
Reception
Bridal Shower
Engagement Party
Rehearsal Dinner

What event services do you offer?

Clean Up
Event Planner
Event Rentals
Get Ready Rooms
Outside Vendors
Wifi

What event items are available?

Chairs
Tables

What transportation and access is available?

Parking

What months are included in your peak season?

April
May
June
September
October

What months are included in your off-peak season?

January
February
March
July
August
November
December

Reviews of The Sutherland

H
Haines Sent on 07/18/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Perfection in wake forest

Kind staff, incredible planners, and a large beautiful venue for all kinds of events!
T
Tierney Sent on 12/20/2022
5 out of 5 rating

Always top notch!

As a wedding photographer, it’s always a delight to work at the Sutherland. From the beautifully decorated estate to the expertly manicured gardens, you have a picturesque background to capture all your memories at. Not to mention, the experience you’ll receive from Ashlee, Lena, and Amber is always top-notch! Each one is so easy to work with and truly cares for their couples!
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Kathleen Sent on 08/12/2021
5 out of 5 rating

The best choice

The Sutherland was the first and only venue that we looked at when we got engaged. We knew right away from the charm of the grounds and the care displayed by the staff that this was the place for us. Ashlee was our planner and she did an excellent job making sure everything was executed smoothly on the day of our wedding. It was such a great experience and I'd recommend them to anyone that's looking for a stress-free venue!
Tracy
Tracy Sent on 07/19/2021
5 out of 5 rating

The Sutherland Estate

After 19 years of dating, my husband proposed to me finally. Then the wedding planning began. We had no clue where to begin. We googled “wedding venues near me”. The Sutherland Estate was top of the list. Little did we know, it is only 4 miles from our home. We were surprised we had never heard of it. We scheduled an appointment to visit the venue. We met Ashlee Adams on site. She was down to earth and immediately seemed like a sister. As soon as we walked in the front door of The Sutherland, we were in love with the venue. There was no need to look further. We had found our dream wedding location. Over the following months, Ashlee was always available via phone, text, email, or in person to answer questions, give wedding planning advice, or just to listen. Covid19 happened which meant our wedding had to be postponed until the next year. During this time, Ashlee was still available to us. She is a true professional and a joy to work with. Shannon with Pour Bar Services was also a great leader and advisor to us. Our wedding day was a true fairy tale! These 2 ladies worked tirelessly to make this happen. We are and always will be eternally grateful for Ashlee, Shannon, & all The Sutherland staff for providing a beautiful, romantic setting for our dream come true! Their friendship is a much appreciated added bonus! They will forever remain at the top of our list!
Jessica
Jessica Sent on 03/17/2021
5 out of 5 rating

With the utmost care and professionalism

Everyone from the owners to the staff were extremely help, accommodating, professional, and compassionate when it came to having to change our wedding date, to the planning and actual day.
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Emmalee Sent on 02/11/2020
5 out of 5 rating

Magic and Flexible

Our wedding day was freezing and raining and still so magical. The Sutherland was the perfect venue. Christy, our coordinator, made the move to an inside ceremony so painless and simple. We didn’t have to do anything; the Sutherland staff handled everything. Planning was a dream. Christy walked us through everything to make it as painless as possible. Even wet, the grounds were gorgeous.
David
David Sent on 01/02/2020
5 out of 5 rating

Christy was AWESOME and Detailed!!!

When we first visited the Sutherland as a possible venue, we were greeted by Christy Ethridge who would show us around. The presentation was awesome. Her attention to detail was amazing to say the least.

She guided my daughter and wife through every aspect of the event and provided a level of unparalleled professionalism.

Do things happen throughout planning a wedding? Obviously, do you want someone like Christy by your side when those things pop up? ABSOLUTELY.

Throughout our experience I believe my wife, daughter, son-in-law and I established a very personal relationship with Christy and we now consider her a close friend :-)

Very OUTSTANDING JOB Sutherland!

Regards,

David Farris
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Brittany Sent on 11/08/2019
5 out of 5 rating

The Sutherland is AMAZING!

We chose The Sutherland instantly after looking at a few other vendors in the area. It is an absolutely stunning property and they have been doing weddings for quite a while so have it down to a science. I could not have picked a better venue and Christy our wedding planner was amazing. She went above and beyond on everything that I asked of her. She seriously made the wedding be better than my wildest dreams. If you are looking for a venue that is seamless and has it all, The Sutherland is what you are looking for. They know all the best vendors and know how to pull off a great party for your guests and ensure that you have the best time. And let's not forget that it is the most stunning property in all of Raleigh.
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Anna Sent on 10/31/2019
5 out of 5 rating

Venue of my dreams!

We could not have been happier that we chose to have our wedding reception at The Sutherland!! The venue had the beautiful indoor and outdoor space we were looking for. Christy was our planner and we never doubted for a second that the wedding day would run smoothly with her there and it 100% did! She even contacted all of my vendors to make sure everyone was on the same page on how the day would go. The Sutherland staff were all wonderful! I couldn’t have had the wedding of my dreams if it wasn’t for this fabulous venue and their staff!
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Kyle Sent on 10/14/2019
5 out of 5 rating

My dream wedding at my dream venue!

I had fallen in love with The Sutherland years before I was ever engaged from when my cousin was married there several years ago, so when it came time for my now husband and I to book a venue, I knew right where to start. Not only is it a stunning property, but the customer service we received throughout our whole planning process helped us be sure it was the perfect venue for us. Christy was our wedding planner and she couldn't be more amazing! She was very accommodating with us since we live out of town and had to plan a lot of things remotely. I am also a very detail-oriented person, and even when I was blowing her inbox up with questions or multiple emails at a time, she was always sure to address my every question in a very timely manner which made me feel at ease with the whole planning process. There were even small details on the day of that I hadn't even thought of or expressed how I wanted it to look, but Christy and her team went above and beyond and everything turned out perfectly on our wedding day. I will recommend Christy and this venue over and over again. It really was our dream wedding come to life in the perfect venue!
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Awards

60
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2020 Winner
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2019 Winner
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2016 Winner

Professional Network & Endorsements

21 Endorsements
POUR Bar Services POUR Bar Services Wedding Caterers

Unmatchable class and elegance. The Sutherland is an all-inclusive, "turn-key" dream world to host your perfect wedding day. All details will be taken care of and you will transport into a timeless wedding of fun, luxury and love.

Rocky Top Catering Rocky Top Catering Wedding Caterers

The Sutherland is a magical place! We cater at venues all over the triangle in North Carolina, and this is on the top of our list. Everything is taken care of for you on the day due to the superior service the ladies of The Sutherland provide. We get excited to work with the fantastic couples, and seeing their face in enjoyment when the day arrives and everyone is blown away!

Mitchell•Casteel A Fine Catered Affair Mitchell•Casteel A Fine Catered Affair Wedding Caterers

One of our favorite venues, The Sutherland defines what southern weddings are all about. Warmth, elegance and beauty are a part of the makings of this gorgeous event venue. Your special occasion will go off without a stich of trouble. The staff is great and Ashlee is simply wonderful. You won't regret booking this gem for your occasion!

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The Sutherland frequently asked questions

The Sutherland includes the following items and services for wedding events in its starting site fee:
  • Bridal Suite
  • Chairs
  • Clean Up
  • Event Planning
  • Parking
  • Set Up
  • Tables
The space offered by The Sutherland for wedding events is known for:
  • Garden
  • Historic Building
The Sutherland offers the following indoor/outdoor options for weddings:
  • Indoor
  • Covered Outdoor
  • Uncovered Outdoor
The Sutherland offers the following types of wedding events:
  • Ceremony
  • Reception
  • Bridal Shower
  • Engagement Party
  • Rehearsal Dinner
The Sutherland offers the following services for wedding events:
  • Clean Up
  • Event Planner
  • Event Rentals
  • Get Ready Rooms
  • Outside Vendors
  • Wifi
The Sutherland offers the following furniture and decor items for weddings:
  • Chairs
  • Tables
The Sutherland is recommended by 97% of couples who have used their services. Their overall rating is 4.9 out of 5 with the following breakdown: 4.9 in quality of service, 4.9 in flexibility, 4.9 in professionalism, 4.9 in value and 4.7 in average response time.
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