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About

The Sofo Spoon is a wedding catering company and luxury private chef experience based in Patchogue, New York. Owner and Executive Chef Danielle Santaniello believes that the absolute best moments in life happen around a table brimming with food. Here, surrounded by friends and family, people make deep connections with each other and form powerful nostalgic associations with their food. Danielle seeks to create these nostalgic moments through fresh, seasonal, and delicious dishes that will wow at your wedding reception.

Services Offered

The Sofo Spoon crafts fully bespoke meals for celebrations of all kinds. From intimate elopements with just a private chef to large receptions with 200 guests and a full catering staff, this company does it all. Working with them begins with a detailed phone call, during which they will discuss your ideas, tastes, and budget. An a la carte menu allows you to pick and choose your dishes and add as little or as much as you'd like. This service is available for your main event, as well as for any pre-wedding showers and the rehearsal dinner. Whatever your needs, the chefs look forward to working with you and exceeding all your expectations.

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Frequently asked questions

What is the average catering price per person for plated service?

$150

What is the average catering price per person for buffet service?

$115

What is the average catering price per person for hors d'oeuvres?

$125

Which of the following are included in the cost of your full service wedding catering?

Set Up
Clean Up
Cake
Cake Cutting
Dessert
Cocktail Reception
Server(s)
Tastings
Chairs
Tables
China
Linens
Flatware
Glassware

What is the starting price per person for bar service?

$10

Which of the following are included in the starting price for bar service?

Bartender(s)

What event services do you provide?

Delivery
Set Up
Clean Up

What catering services do you provide?

Breakfast / Brunch
Buffet
Cake Cutting
Cocktail Reception
Custom Menu
Hors d'oeuvres
Plated
Server(s)
Tastings

What types of cuisine do you cater?

American
French
Italian
Local
Mediterranean
Mexican
Seafood
Spanish

What dietary needs can you accommodate?

Gluten Free
Lactose Free
Halal
Kosher
Nut Free
Organic
Vegan
Vegetarian

What bar services do you provide?

Bartender(s)

Which of the following items can you provide?

Chairs
Tables

Which of the following items can you provide?

Barware
China
Flatware
Glassware
Linens

Reviews of The Sofo Spoon

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Natalia Sent on 01/12/2022
5 out of 5 rating

Best wedding cake ever!!

Chef Danielle and her staff were absolutely amazing! They helped so much with all the preparation and the food and the cake were just delicious! Chef Danielle was super easy and fun to work with. She was very responsive and helpful. Our special day was perfect thanks to The Sofo Spoon. We will hire them again on different occasions for sure in the future! Highly recommended! P.S. try their golden beets/ goat cheese cake! It was the cherry on top at our weeding!
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Renee Sent on 01/04/2022
5 out of 5 rating

Outstanding food and service

We used Danielle and her staff for our 11/13/20 backyard wedding of 41 people. Danielle helped us customize our menu (which we did buffet-style) and completely took care of all tent and equipment rentals for us. She was so great throughout the whole planning process - quick to answer emails and calls, and helped us so much with deciding on the right options for our party. Day of, her and her staff took care of literally everything - my husband and I did not lift a finger and didn't have a single worry the entire party. Everything was delicious, from the charcuterie boards, appetizers, mains, and desserts! I could not recommend the SoFo Spoon enough!!
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Kristen Sent on 12/29/2021
5 out of 5 rating

Highly recommend!!

I could not recommend Danielle and the SoFo spoon more. Danielle prepared both our rehearsal dinner and wedding meals. We had a very small (15 of our closest friends and family) pandemic celebration.

Danielle understood our vision and concerns from day 1. She was responsive, accommodating, respectful and also made us feel like we weren’t compromising for our big day even though we had to change plans 3 times prior to this.

Not only is Danielle amazing to work with, her food in unbelievably tasty. Our guests are still talking about the short ribs she made.

She made our lives easier and fit seamlessly into our intimate affair. If you are looking for an amazing chef that goes above and beyond, she’s your girl.
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The Sofo Spoon frequently asked questions

At The Sofo Spoon, the cost of the full wedding catering service includes:
  • Set Up
  • Clean Up
  • Cake
  • Cake Cutting
  • Dessert
  • Cocktail Reception
  • Server(s)
  • Tastings
  • Chairs
  • Tables
  • China
  • Linens
  • Flatware
  • Glassware
The bar service starting price at The Sofo Spoon includes:
  • Bartender(s)
The Sofo Spoon offers the following event services for weddings:
  • Delivery
  • Set Up
  • Clean Up
The Sofo Spoon offers the following catering services for weddings:
  • Breakfast / Brunch
  • Buffet
  • Cake Cutting
  • Cocktail Reception
  • Custom Menu
  • Hors d'oeuvres
  • Plated
  • Server(s)
  • Tastings
At The Sofo Spoon, you can find the following types of cuisine:
  • American
  • French
  • Italian
  • Local
  • Mediterranean
  • Mexican
  • Seafood
  • Spanish
At The Sofo Spoon, the following dietary needs can be accomodated:
  • Gluten Free
  • Lactose Free
  • Halal
  • Kosher
  • Nut Free
  • Organic
  • Vegan
  • Vegetarian
The Sofo Spoon provides the following bar and beverage services for wedding events:
  • Bartender(s)
To cater to all tastes, The Sofo Spoon offers the following food and beverage items:
  • Barware
  • China
  • Flatware
  • Glassware
  • Linens
The Sofo Spoon is recommended by 100% of couples who have used their services. Their overall rating is 5.0, with the same score awarded for quality of service, flexibility, value, professionalism and average response time.
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