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On WeddingWire since 2011

The Mansion at Oyster Bay is a wedding venue located in Woodbury, New York. A member of the Lessing’s Hospitality Group, this 120-acre estate belongs to the affluent Gold Coast community. The Gold Coast community flourished in Long Island’s North Shore at the turn of the 20th century. Now widely recognized for its connection with F. Scott Fitzgerald’s novel, The Great Gatsby, the Gold Coast retains much of its original splendor. The estate’s proprietors invite you and your guests to be part of the magnificence. Enjoy modern amenities as you experience the best that the youthful 20th century had to offer.

Facilities and Capacity

The Mansion at Oyster Bay features French doors, black and white marble flooring, a beautiful winding staircase, and a number of exquisite candelabra-style wall sconces. The ballroom is accented with rich, dark wood. In the evening, the space is illuminated by a collection of radiant chandeliers. The venue is able to accommodate up to 600 guests. The Mansion offers indoor and outdoor reception areas. Get-ready rooms, a terrace, and a dance floor are also available for use. The venue does not include facilities for overnight accommodation.

Services Offered

The Mansion at Oyster Bay offers a number of premium wedding packages. Packages include a range of drinks and dining options, a custom-designed wedding cake, tea and coffee service, a choice of linen colors, and place cards. A wedding coordinator is also available to help you plan your reception. For your pleasure and convenience, food and liquor are supplied by the venue’s in-house catering team. The Mansion maintains a list of preferred vendors.

Cuisine

The venue’s extensive wedding menu promises to delight even the most discerning palate. It includes options for hot and cold hors d'oeuvres, cocktail stations, a carving station, a steak house carvery, dinner entrées, and dessert plates. You and your guests can enjoy raspberry brie en croute, ravioli puttanesca, grilled swordfish, and a host of other wonderful dining options. Vegetarian and kosher entrées are also available.

Frequently Asked Questions

Do you have a site fee for wedding receptions at your venue?

No

Do you have a site fee for wedding ceremonies at your venue?

No

What is the starting site fee for wedding ceremonies during peak season?

$500

Which of the following are included in starting site fee?

Bridal Suite
Chairs
China
Clean Up
Event Planning
Flatware
Glassware
Linens
Parking
Set Up
Tables
Transportation

Which of the following are included in the cost of wedding catering?

Cake Cutting
Dessert
Server(s)
Wedding Cake

Which of the following are included in the starting price for bar service?

Bartender(s)
Champagne Toast
House Liquor
House Wine
Open Bar
Premium Liquor
Signature Drink

How many event spaces or rooms does your venue offer?

5

Describe your venue:

Country/Golf Club
Historic Building
Mansion

What kind of settings are available?

Indoor
Uncovered Outdoor

Which of the following wedding events does your venue service?

Ceremony
Reception
Bridal Shower
Engagement Party

What event services do you offer?

Clean Up
Event Planner
Event Rentals
Get Ready Rooms

What event items are available?

Chairs
Dance Floor
Decor
Furniture
Lighting
Tables

What food and beverage items are available?

Barware
China
Chocolate Fountain
Flatware
Glassware
Linens

What transportation and access is available?

Parking
Shuttle
Valet
Wheelchair Access
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4.6 out of 5 rating
88 Reviews
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  • Value
    4.7 out of 5 rating
  • Flexibility
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92% Recommended by couples

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Mara L. Married on 09/09/2022
5 out of 5 rating

Highly Recommend!

My wedding was an absolute dream, and it would not have been possible without the staff at The Mansion at Oyster Bay. Steve, Skylar, Mike and Natalie were absolutely amazing to work with and helped to make our day perfect and run so smoothly. The venue itself was beautiful--it has so much charm and character, making it such a unique place to get married. Our guests have now mentioned to us several times that this was some of the best food they have ever had at a wedding. I can honestly say that there is nothing that I would change or do differently. Highly recommend!
Melanie
Melanie S. Married on 11/12/2023
5 out of 5 rating

Beyond perfect!

This was my dream venue. If you’re looking for a charming old mansion with a lot of character, this is your place. Pictures truly don’t do it justice. Staff is super responsive and accommodating. Everything ran smoothly without me needing to lift a finger.

Also, if you have someone in your bridal party with a physical disability, this place is super accessible. My mother doesn’t walk very well so I loved that the aisle wasn’t very long and didn’t have grass, and that everything we needed including the bridal suite was all on one floor. if you do choose to use the second floor they have an elevator to help you get up there.

They also only do one wedding/ event at a time which was a big plus for me! The mansion was ours from the time we arrived at 7:30 in the morning to when we left at 9:30 at night. I couldn’t recommend this venue more.
Nicolina
Nicolina B. Married on 11/25/2022
5 out of 5 rating

The most beautiful wedding day

Lessings is a wonderful company to work with when planning your wedding, & we looked at a few of their venues before we fell in love with & decided on the Mansion at Oyster Bay. The ambiance, the food, the professionalism & attentiveness exceeded our expectations & made our wedding absolutely perfect. We will forever cherish the experience we had with them! Thank you Estee & Mike!! They were wonderful :)
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WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2022 Winner
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Elena & Stephen
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Professional Network & Endorsements

3 Endorsements
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Fantastic Food - Gorgeous picture landscape - great customer service

Lancelot Limousine Services Lancelot Limousine Services Wedding Limos

Beauty, elegance, and an ambiance that is exquisite. The Woodlands at Woodbury is one of the finest wedding venues on Long Island. The staff is professional and committed to excellence. We are honored to be recommended by this wonderful venue.

LUXE & CO. LUXE & CO. Wedding Hair & Makeup

I am so thankful to have chosen The Woodlands as the place for my husband and I to join our families. Elegance, class, wonderful food, atmosphere, and the most incredible staff... what more can I say. We used The Drawing Room for the ceremony. The dark wood, dimmed lighting and fireplace made the most romantic setting. Since getting married almost 1 year ago this month, I am so happy to know that I will be coming back here again in January. The Woodlands will be hosting our daughter's Sweet 16 and we are doing a Masquerade Ball as the theme... so fitting for a beautiful mansion. And to make things even better.. I have made such wonderful friends and I am also so thrilled to have become a vendor here at The Woodlands as their Makeup Artist. What a wonderful journey this has been. I hope you too add this beautiful place and "family" to your lives!

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The Mansion at Oyster Bay frequently asked questions

The Mansion at Oyster Bay includes the following items and services for wedding events in its starting site fee:
  • Bridal Suite
  • Chairs
  • China
  • Clean Up
  • Event Planning
  • Flatware
  • Glassware
  • Linens
  • Parking
  • Set Up
  • Tables
  • Transportation
The Mansion at Oyster Bay includes the following items and services in its wedding catering costs:
  • Cake Cutting
  • Dessert
  • Server(s)
  • Wedding Cake
The bar service starting price at The Mansion at Oyster Bay includes:
  • Bartender(s)
  • Champagne Toast
  • House Liquor
  • House Wine
  • Open Bar
  • Premium Liquor
  • Signature Drink
The space offered by The Mansion at Oyster Bay for wedding events is known for:
  • Country/Golf Club
  • Historic Building
  • Mansion
The Mansion at Oyster Bay offers the following indoor/outdoor options for weddings:
  • Indoor
  • Uncovered Outdoor
The Mansion at Oyster Bay offers the following types of wedding events:
  • Ceremony
  • Reception
  • Bridal Shower
  • Engagement Party
The Mansion at Oyster Bay offers the following services for wedding events:
  • Clean Up
  • Event Planner
  • Event Rentals
  • Get Ready Rooms
The Mansion at Oyster Bay offers the following furniture and decor items for weddings:
  • Chairs
  • Dance Floor
  • Decor
  • Furniture
  • Lighting
  • Tables
The Mansion at Oyster Bay is recommended by 92% of couples who have used their services. Their overall rating is 4.6 out of 5 with the following breakdown: 4.7 in value, 4.6 in quality of service, 4.6 in flexibility, 4.6 in professionalism and 4.5 in average response time.

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