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A Dream Venue for Kansas City Weddings in Excelsior Springs

Offering beautiful indoor and outdoor event spaces, the historic Elms Hotel and Spa is the perfect setting for your wedding. Let our experienced team turn your vision into a memorable experience that you and your guests will cherish forever.

2026 WEDDING PERKS!
Book your upcoming wedding in one of our few remaining available dates of 2026 and receive the following:
- 20% off of food and beverage.
- Complimentary champagne toast at wedding reception for all guests over the age of 21.

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Frequently asked questions

Do you have a site fee for wedding receptions at your venue?

No

What is the starting site fee for wedding receptions during peak season?

What is the starting site fee for wedding receptions during off-peak season?

Do you have a site fee for wedding ceremonies at your venue?

No

What is the starting site fee for wedding ceremonies during peak season?

What is the starting site fee for wedding ceremonies during off-peak season?

Which of the following are included in the starting site fee?

Bridal Suite
Chairs
China
Clean Up
Event Planning
Flatware
Glassware
Lighting/Sound
Linens
Parking
Set Up
Tables

Which of the following are included in the cost of wedding catering?

Cake Cutting
Dessert
Server(s)
Wedding Cake

What is the starting price per person for bar service?

$45

Which of the following are included in the starting price for bar service?

Bartender(s)
Champagne Toast
House Beer
House Liquor
House Wine
Limited Bar
Open Bar
Premium Liquor
Signature Drink
Specialty Beer
Specialty Wine

What is the minimum number of guests required to book your venue?

25

How many event spaces or rooms does your venue offer?

4

Describe your venue:

Ballroom
Garden
Historic Building
Hotel
Mansion
Resort

What kind of settings are available?

Indoor
Covered Outdoor
Uncovered Outdoor

Which of the following wedding events does your venue service?

Ceremony
Reception
Bridal Shower
Engagement Party
Elopements
Rehearsal Dinner

What event services do you offer?

Accommodations
Bar Services
Catering Services
Clean Up
Event Planner
Event Rentals
Get Ready Rooms
Outside Vendors
Pet Friendly
Wifi

What catering services do you offer?

Buffet
Cocktail Reception
Dessert
Family Style
French Service
Hors d'oeuvres
Outside Cake
Plated
Server(s)
Stations
Tastings

What bar services do you provide?

Bartender(s)
Cash Bar
Champagne Toast
House Beer
House Liquor
House Wine
Limited Bar
Liquor License
Open Bar
Premium Liquor
Signature Drink
Specialty Beer
Specialty Wine

What event items are available?

Altar/Arch
Audio Equipment
Centerpieces
Chairs
Chair Covers
Dance Floor
Decor
Drapery
Furniture
Lighting
Tables

What food and beverage items are available?

Barware
China
Flatware
Glassware
Linens

What transportation and access is available?

Parking
Shuttle
Valet
Wheelchair Access

What months are included in your peak season?

May
June
September
October

What months are included in your off-peak season?

January
February
March
April
May
July
August
November
December

Reviews of The Elms Hotel and Spa

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The Elms is a beautiful, historic full-service hotel and spa that creates seamless, stress-free weddings with attentive, detail-oriented planning staff. Guests praised the elegant ballrooms, scenic grounds, comfortable rooms and abundant amenities, plus great food and thoughtful service. It's ideal for destination weekends and couples who want an all-in-one, memorable experience.

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The Elms is a beautiful, historic full-service hotel and spa that creates seamless, stress-free weddings with attentive, detail-oriented planning staff. Guests praised the elegant ballrooms, scenic grounds, comfortable rooms and abundant amenities, plus great food and thoughtful service. It's ideal for destination weekends and couples who want an all-in-one, memorable experience.

Donna
Donna Sent on 04/26/2026
5 out of 5 rating

Enchantment abounds at The Elms

Enchantment truly abounds at The Elms. My son and new daughter-in-law recently celebrated their wedding weekend there, and from beginning to end it exceeded every expectation.

They wanted a venue that could not only accommodate a large number of out-of-town guests, but also provide an unforgettable weekend experience beyond simply the ceremony and reception. The Elms delivered that and so much more.

The hotel and its amenities are exceptional. The property itself is elegant, charming, and rich with character, yet still feels warm, comfortable, and inviting. Guest rooms were beautifully appointed, and everyone commented on how incredibly comfortable the beds were. Our family and friends fully embraced everything the resort had to offer — from the Spa, Grotto, Tavern, Three Owls restaurant, wine and coffee bar, gym, pool and hot tub, to the outdoor games, scenic grounds, and even the haunted history tour. It truly became a destination weekend rather than just a wedding, and many guests told us it was one of the most memorable wedding experiences they had ever had. Having everything in one place made it effortless and enjoyable for everyone.

Guests who ventured beyond the resort also loved how easy and pleasant it was to walk into town. Several enjoyed the local restaurants, charming shops, and nearby mineral springs museum, which added even more to the overall experience.

As the Mother of the Groom, it was not always easy to sit back and resist inserting myself into every planning detail, but my son and daughter-in-law were in excellent hands with Tori Foster, The Elms’ resident wedding planner. Tori was an absolute joy to work with and guided them through each step with professionalism, warmth, and calm assurance. She created a beautiful, seamless, and stress-free event while also keeping my husband and me informed whenever needed.

The couple chose to host both their ceremony and reception in the Regent Ballroom, which meant the space had to be completely transformed during an extended cocktail hour held on the adjoining patio. I truly cannot say enough about the reveal when guests entered for the reception — it felt like stepping into an entirely new room. It was stunning. The lighting, acoustics, décor, and table settings were all beautifully executed, creating a setting that felt both grand and elegant while still wonderfully intimate for celebrating with close family and friends.

Throughout the weekend, the staff at The Elms were warm, attentive, and welcoming. We especially appreciated the gracious greeting we received from the General Manager upon arrival, which immediately set the tone for the hospitality we would experience all weekend long.

If you are anywhere near the Kansas City area and searching for a wedding venue that offers beauty, convenience, charm, and an unforgettable guest experience, I truly cannot imagine a better choice than The Elms.
L AP
L Ap Sent on 02/04/2026
5 out of 5 rating

So pleased!

We are so pleased with our decision to host our wedding at The Elms. It has been in the KC area for 150 years, so we think it will be around for another 150 years as well and a story and location to share with the grandkids and nieces and nephews. Tori, Lacee, Danielle, Brian, Shay and Jenny paid attention to every detail and assisted in any possible way. We hosted a brunch wedding ~ I highly recommend this as you can enjoy the entire day with your spouse, it is elegant and the guests loved the menu. It's hard to go wrong with breakfast. The chef even recreated one of our family favorite recipes of chocolate gravy for the biscuits.

The Elms allowed us to bring in our own antique china, some of it belonging to our grandparents, to serve the brunch on. They took great care of the pieces and the staff often commented on the idea, so we knew the family heirlooms were in good care.

Roger, one of the shuttle drivers, had a nice conversation with my air force veteran father in-law and even sent a bottle of champagne to his room to thank him for his service.

I assembled my own cake (Two 10" Costco Cakes) and needed some help on the final touches. Danielle, one of the banquet managers, thankfully went to pastry school and was able to jump in and pipe the frosting edge. It was beautiful!

The Elms worked with us on pricing and helped us to get the most for our dollars, which we greatly appreciated. The beauty of hosting your wedding at The Elms, or a similar full service venue, is so much comes with it including the linens, chair covers, centerpieces if you like, full service staff, glassware, dishware and the rooms are already so beautiful, so there is not much need for additional decorating. We are a late in life marry couple and wanted to enjoy our time with the family and guests. Since we did not have to worry about setting up tables, the bar, overseeing catering, and piecing the wedding together, we were able to enjoy the time with those near and dear to us and not wear ourselves out or our family before the big event. I am in the non-profit profession and accustomed to hosting Gala Black Tie events for 900+ people. So I know where to spend the money and where not to. The Elms, and Tori specifically, was exceptional in helping us design a plan to meet this goal and she was constant and responsive with her line of communication.

We were married on 1.31.26. There was snow on the ground which made the property even more beautiful.

We felt the cost was extremely reasonable for all the outstanding service, beautiful and historic surroundings, great meal and drinks provided to our guests. Plus, we received additional Hyatt points which we plan to use for our first anniversary.

The Elms is also very supportive of their surrounding neighboring local businesses and we like to spread the love, so to speak. We hosted our Welcome Supper offsite at Casa Di Vite who also did a fantastic job. A local Mexican food restaurant catered it for us and was quite yummy.

FYI - I think this is the first time I have ever written a review on a product or service. So, I hope that can also attest to the great service we received.

Best wishes in your wedding and marriage journey to all those who may be reading this ~ the ceremony and celebration goes fast! Soak it all in!

LAMP
N
Nat Sent on 12/05/2025
5 out of 5 rating

A lovely wedding venue

We had a great experience with our wedding at the Elms. Tori helped us plan things down to the last minute. It is a beautiful historic venue with two ballrooms to chose from and a gazebo outdoors. It rained on our wedding day but Tori helped us plan around this to make everything go perfect. Thank you to the Elms for the memories we will never forget and making our day go seamlessly.
Cael
Cael Sent on 10/20/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Perfect Wedding Venue!

My husband and I cannot recommend a wedding at The Elms enough! Everything was perfect from start to finish! From the first time we toured their grounds to the days following our wedding, The Elms staff was extremely attentive and conscious of our wedding experience. Tori is simply the best venue coordinator ever! She helped us stay on top of even the smallest details and was extremely organized when it came to planning out our day. She ensured that our wedding day went exactly according to plan and took all of the stress off of my shoulders! We cannot thank her enough for all that she did to make our wedding operate smoothly! Our guests were obsessed with the overall experience, we seriously did not hear a single negative experience from anyone. Overall they offer great food, great prices, beautiful grounds, and wonderful staff! 10/10's all around!
Sam
Sam Sent on 09/08/2025
5 out of 5 rating

A wonderful venue

We had a wonderful experience with The Elms! Not only is it a fabulous venue with multiple amazing locations for ceremony, reception, and photos, but they also handle coordination (both leading up to the wedding and day-of), catering, and hotel blocks for guests. The resort and spa are also beautiful!


Our coordinator, Tori, was terrific to work with and also willing and available to answer any question we had throughout the entire process. She met with us multiple times leading up to the wedding day, and then she and her team worked throughout the wedding weekend to ensure that we had the perfect experience. We couldn't have asked for a better coordinator and were thrilled to have Tori help us throughout the process.

The hotel is beautiful. We had our ceremony in the Gazebo outside and our reception in the Regent Ballroom. Both spaces were exactly what we were looking for.

All-in-all, we had a great experience with The Elms and would recommend it to anyone getting married around Kansas City.

Samantha
Samantha Sent on 09/07/2025
5 out of 5 rating

My Dream Venue

This place was literally a dream. They had everything planned out so well with packets for us to fill out so we could have our perfect wedding. Everything was able to be altered to our specific needs and I never felt like I was getting a wedding that had been done before. I highly highly recommend this venue if you are someone who loves the elegant, timeless look it provides.
Heidi
Heidi Sent on 08/22/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Beautiful historic wedding setting

The Elms was a fantastic venue for a wedding, dinner, and dance! The beauty of the hotel and grounds, to the staff who attended to all our needs throughout the busy wedding weekend…we felt like it was the perfect wedding at the perfect location. Thank you, Tori, for all your help in making the wedding come together flawlessly.
A
Aja H. Sent on 01/08/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Perfect Wedding

Thank you to Tori and thank you to the Elms for the best wedding I could have asked for!
T
Taylor Sent on 12/25/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Definitely the best choice!

Everything was absolutely perfect at The Elms. They helped us plan the entire day perfectly. Even when it looked like the weather wouldn’t cooperate with us, they immediately set up a plan b without even us asking making the day of super low stress.
D
Dajon Sent on 12/22/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Our Wonderful Experience at the Elms

My husband and I decided to celebrate our wedding at the Elms because it was the perfect wedding venue for us. We decided to have our wedding ceremony and reception in the Regent Ball Room because it was the right fit for our guest count and for our out-of-town guests. The Elms Hotel staff were courteous and professional from the day we checked in to the day we checked out. Their staff did an amazing job in setting up for our ceremony and the room flip for our reception. Their servers were very attentive to our needs during our dinner rehearsal and our wedding day. One item that we emphasized was that our food to be severed hot which they’ve achieved with no problem.

Above all, Victoria Foster, the Elms’s event planning manager was amazing to work with. Her expertise in this field made our experience stress-free. For example, Victoria had a checklist over 100 items that she reviewed with us over the span of our meeting sessions. In addition, Victoria was very flexible with scheduling in person meetings and via zoom calls to discuss various topics from vendor selection, dinner selections to room layout.

Based on our experience and satisfaction we highly recommend the Elms Hotel as your wedding venue because they offer full services and everything you need for your dream wedding.
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Awards

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WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2026 Winner
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2025 Winner
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2024 Winner
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2023 Winner
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2022 Winner

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The Elms Hotel and Spa frequently asked questions

The Elms Hotel and Spa includes the following items and services for wedding events in its starting site fee:
  • Bridal Suite
  • Chairs
  • China
  • Clean Up
  • Event Planning
  • Flatware
  • Glassware
  • Lighting/Sound
  • Linens
  • Parking
  • Set Up
  • Tables
The Elms Hotel and Spa includes the following items and services in its wedding catering costs:
  • Cake Cutting
  • Dessert
  • Server(s)
  • Wedding Cake
The bar service starting price at The Elms Hotel and Spa includes:
  • Bartender(s)
  • Champagne Toast
  • House Beer
  • House Liquor
  • House Wine
  • Limited Bar
  • Open Bar
  • Premium Liquor
  • Signature Drink
  • Specialty Beer
  • Specialty Wine
The space offered by The Elms Hotel and Spa for wedding events is known for:
  • Ballroom
  • Garden
  • Historic Building
  • Hotel
  • Mansion
  • Resort
The Elms Hotel and Spa offers the following indoor/outdoor options for weddings:
  • Indoor
  • Covered Outdoor
  • Uncovered Outdoor
The Elms Hotel and Spa offers the following types of wedding events:
  • Ceremony
  • Reception
  • Bridal Shower
  • Engagement Party
  • Elopements
  • Rehearsal Dinner
The Elms Hotel and Spa offers the following services for wedding events:
  • Accommodations
  • Bar Services
  • Catering Services
  • Clean Up
  • Event Planner
  • Event Rentals
  • Get Ready Rooms
  • Outside Vendors
  • Pet Friendly
  • Wifi
The Elms Hotel and Spa offers the following furniture and decor items for weddings:
  • Altar/Arch
  • Audio Equipment
  • Centerpieces
  • Chairs
  • Chair Covers
  • Dance Floor
  • Decor
  • Drapery
  • Furniture
  • Lighting
  • Tables
The Elms Hotel and Spa is recommended by 96% of couples who have used their services. Their overall rating is 4.8 out of 5 with the following breakdown: 4.8 in quality of service, 4.8 in flexibility, 4.8 in professionalism, 4.8 in value and 4.7 in average response time.
The Elms Hotel and Spa currently offers 1 special WeddingWire promotion and 1 offer promotion for wedding services.
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