No one should be surprised that a Catholic church is not very flexible, but having said that, and having gone through all the requirements and preparation for our wedding will prepare us for a long healthy marriage! There were a few hiccups about losing track of the marriage license and some of the required documents but those were resolved fairly quickly. I suggested to Sandy that they implement a checklist for each couple that goes through the process so they know exactly where they are in the process and I hope she implements one.