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So Smitten Special Events is a full-service wedding planning company operating out of Lakewood, California. Founder Marni Farmer and her award-winning team of expert event coordinators make it their mission to bring every one-of-a-kind wedding vision to life. With a passion for planning, a love of creativity, and a keen eye for detail, they craft unforgettable celebrations full of fun, flair, and festivity. Their work has been featured in numerous esteemed publications including Martha Stewart Weddings, The Hollywood Reporter, and The Offbeat Bride.

Services Offered

So Smitten Special Events is available to coordinate weddings throughout Long Beach, Orange County, Los Angeles, and beyond. Client satisfaction is Marni’s top priority and she and her team are dedicated to providing you with above-and-beyond service from consultation to cleanup. They know that every wedding is unique and will help you choose the perfect planning package to fit your distinct needs, desires, and budget. Offering full planning, partial planning, and day-of coordination, they will take care of every detail for a seamless and stress-free coordination experience.

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Frequently asked questions

What is the starting price for day-of wedding coordination?

$1,999

What is the starting price for partial wedding planning?

$4,999

What is the starting price for full wedding planning?

$6,999

Do you offer an hourly rate?

Yes

What is the hourly rate?

$100

What wedding events do you provide services for?

Ceremony
Reception
Rehearsal Dinner

What wedding planning services do you offer?

Day-of Coordination
Full Planning
Partial Planning

What weddings do you have experience planning?

Civil
Destination
Double Weddings
Eco-Friendly
Military

Reviews of So Smitten Special Events

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Ally Sent on 01/06/2025
5 out of 5 rating

HIGHLY Recommend for LA couples!

We worked with Melanie at So Smitten for our October 2024 wedding and cannot say enough positive things! We went with the Darling Design Silver package (design + day-of coordination) and Melanie was thoughtful, creative, and a joy to work with! The spreadsheets helped us stay organized and sane and Melanie came to each design meeting bursting with ideas (while being a great listener to our ideas as well).

Her generosity, professionalism, and enthusiasm made the planning process stress-free and our wedding day truly memorable. Even with a small hiccup with our videography day-of, our wedding day was PERFECT because Melanie handled everything like a pro (and we did not even know anything went wrong until the next day). I cannot think of a better compliment than this!
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James Sent on 07/27/2024
5 out of 5 rating

So Smitten, well worth it

This past May, my wife and I had the pleasure of working with Gris from So Smitten as our wedding coordinator. Having a day-of coordinator took a huge weight off our shoulders and allowed us to really enjoy our wedding day. Gris was professional and prompt throughout the process and we recommend couples looking into So Smitten for their weddings.
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Harriet Sent on 06/06/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Truly Unforgettable - Thank You Marni!

We had the absolute pleasure of working with Marni and her incredible team for our 3-day Indian wedding, and we couldn't be more grateful for their dedication and expertise. Our overall experience with Marni was fantastic. Despite the complexities and a few hiccups along the way, she managed to pull together a truly magical and unforgettable weekend that we will treasure forever.

From the very beginning, Marni and her team were prompt in their communication and always approachable, helping us seamlessly integrate a lot of spontaneous ideas and requests from our parents into a cohesive, bright, bold, and fun weekend. If anything, she had to chase us on occasion (sorry Marni!), but she always maintained a calm and supportive attitude. To be honest, Marni was more than just a planner; she was a true friend throughout the entire process and that truly meant so much to me.

Everyone on her team exhibited the utmost professionalism. From the administrative side to the execution of events, they truly took care of everything, ensuring that we and our families could fully enjoy the celebrations. A BIG SHOUTOUT to that wedding planning spreadsheet - it was fabulous! It covered all the bases and ensured that everyone (including us!) knew exactly what to do and where to be. Marni's attention to detail, thoughtfulness, and creativity were evident in every aspect of the planning, from the little touches to the overall design vision of multiple events - she took care of it all!

There were a few minor mishaps, but anything that did come up got resolved quickly and without question. When the stress of the weekend started to get to us, Marni was there as a genuine friend and supporter, even suggesting a mobile IV vitamin drip, which I really wish I had taken her up on! Some things you just cannot plan for, but the team were always on top of everything. Everything was handled with such grace, pulling all the strings together to make everything work out. Marni definitely prevented us from getting lost among all the ideas, vendors, and plans for multiple events!

Our wedding weekend was beautiful, filled with love and laughter. Friends and family from across the globe joined us to celebrate our marriage, and Marni and her team made that possible. We know it was hard work, and we are incredibly grateful beyond words. It may sound clichéd, but it's so true - none of it would have been possible without Marni and her team. She was our fairy godmother throughout the whole process from start to finish. We would wholeheartedly recommend Marni and her incredible team to everyone. Not only are they amazing at what they do, but they are also the kindest, most thoughtful people out there. Words cannot describe how grateful we are, and we're very sorry that this review is so long overdue!

Thank you from the bottom of our hearts to Marni, Shaunte, Michael, Megan, Melanie, and everyone at So Smitten and F/8 Studios, for everything. You truly made our wedding dreams come true.
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Sydney Sent on 11/16/2023
5 out of 5 rating

A Wedding Coordinator Extraordinaire!

I recently had the pleasure of working with Chantelle for my wedding, and I cannot express how grateful I am for her exceptional service. From the initial consultation to the last dance, Chantelle went above and beyond to make our special day absolutely perfect.

Chantelle is incredibly organized, detail-oriented, and had a wealth of knowledge about all aspects of wedding coordination. It was evident that she is passionate about her work and genuinely cared about making our day memorable.

Communication is key when planning a wedding, and Chantelle excelled in this area. She was always prompt in responding to emails and phone calls, and kept us informed every step of the way. Even when she didn't need to call me, she did just to check in on me because we had a few bumps in the road with our vendors.

Chantelle not only met but exceeded our expectations. Whether it was coordinating with vendors, handling last-minute changes, or offering creative solutions to unexpected challenges, Chantelle was there every step of the way. Her dedication to making our day perfect was truly remarkable.

Thank you to Chantelle and So Smitten for making our day truly magical!
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Victoria Sent on 04/18/2022
5 out of 5 rating

The most organized and kind wedding event planners

There are so many good things that my spouse and I have to say about So Smitten, it's hard to know where to begin. They have many packages available that make it easy to scale up or down how much involvement you want from them. However, we want to in particular speak to the remarkable work that our wedding coordinator Shaunte did. Throughout the planning process, Shaunte was our rock, a great sounding board when it comes to logistics, aesthetics, and the practicality of how we wanted our wedding to be. She always reassured us in our decisions and she always came with thoughtful suggestions when we were stumped. She never steered us wrong in any part of the process. On our wedding day, Shaunte was incredibly organized and calm in the face of some unexpected delays and surprises caused by our guests. She was always on top of things and quick on her feet to make sure our day went smoothly. After our wedding, we faced some difficulties with our venue with unexpected billing that we were not prepared for. Even though their duties were over, Shaunte and So Smitten stuck with us to help us communicate with the venue about resolving the issue. My spouse and I were truly in awe about their integrity, kindness, and their absolute desire to help their clients. I honestly have no idea how we would have handled our wedding day without them.
Alyssa
Alyssa Sent on 10/21/2021
5 out of 5 rating

Could not have done it without them!

I could not possibly be happier that we hired So Smitten for our destination wedding in Palm Springs. Sabrina was amazing and with the DIY package she was able to execute my vision exactly as I dreamed. I had a very specific aesthetic I wanted and I was floored when I saw how she brought it all together. Truly amazing.

Everyone in the family and wedding party was impressed with Sabrina, both on the day and leading up as she communicated the timeline and then kept it on track. She always answered my emails right away and was so helpful every time which gave me a lot of peace of mind. During our venue walk through she asked so many questions I never would have thought of. During the wedding itself she managed all of those details and the vendors so well, I was never approached with any issues myself so everything felt perfectly smooth as the bride. Plus she handled wedding crashers more than once!

I highly recommend So Smitten, I can't imagine our day without Sabrina. Both my husband and I agree booking her team was the best money spent.
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Emily Sent on 11/15/2019
5 out of 5 rating

The Best! Seriously!

So Smitten is seriously amazing! I worked with Marni and Sabrina. They were both wonderful and so helpful throughout the wedding planning process and in the months leading up to the wedding. They are professional, friendly, and organized. They are simply amazing at what they do. Our wedding day went so smooth and on time! I cannot recommend enough.
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Shanan Sent on 10/03/2019
5 out of 5 rating

Do your self a favor and book right away!!

We are so thankful for Marni and Sabrina!! Our wedding day, pre wedding, planning and just a helpful group when we had questions. We kept saying “we just don’t know what we don’t know” and both Marni and Sabrina are beyond helpful, quick to respond and super knowledgeable. We are so thankful we had Sabrina at our wedding and know we wouldn’t of been able to pull off our dream wedding with out her.

For real, if you’re on the fence - make the leap. Every penny is well worth it. Hands down the BEST and our wedding was magical because of So Smitten!!
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David Sent on 05/11/2019
5 out of 5 rating

They handled everything!

Groom review: I wasn't involved when selecting So Smitten, and honestly wasn't sure what to expect throughout the process. In meeting with Marni to go over the details of the day, I was blown away by how organized she was. She had the wedding day planned to the minute and knew all the right questions to ask when speaking with the person managing the venue. On our wedding day, Marni and her team of coordinators made sure everything was perfect! We didn't have to worry about anything. They were so communicative to the wedding party that none of our friends and family had any excuse not to know where they should be and when. There were only a few minor hiccups and So Smitten handled them flawlessly. For instance, our venue made sure we picked how our napkins should be folded. We wouldn't have cared but after they made us choose, we designed an insert specific to the napkins describing the meal and with the names of the wedding party, etc. Unfortunately, all the napkins were wrong when we first looked at the room. We wouldn't have cared but they made a big deal of having us select a style. We mentioned it to Marni and she took care of the whole situation. They started to say that this is what we choose and Marni knew exactly where in the contract it listed the napkin fold and showed it to them. Marni and the team's attention to detail was fantastic. They were making sure my bride and I were happy the whole day and had to worry about as little as possible. I can't recommend them enough!!!
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Arie Sent on 11/10/2018
5 out of 5 rating

The Best There Is!

We couldn't be more pleased with our experience! Marni is not only a consummate professional, but a fantastic person, to boot. For every question or problem we ran into throughout our planning process, she had a solution. She knows her business so well, and has excellent relationships with all of the best vendors in the area. Everyone loves Marni, and it shows!

On the day of our ceremony, she and her team were invaluable. Everything went so smoothly for us; we were able to relax and enjoy our reception knowing that everything was in Marni's capable hands. She is, simply put, the best at what she does.
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