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Rev. Michael Whalen

English
Interfaith
Civil Union
Non-religious

Why couples loved this vendor

  • Seasoned Professional
  • Officiant
  • Great Planner
Megan
Sophia
Sofia
Courtney
Brianna

Recommended by 100% of couples

What is the story behind Rev. Michael Whalen?

Rev. Michael Whalen is a warm and friendly wedding officiant based out of Neptune and Spring Lake, New Jersey. This minister is non-denominational and offers customized ceremonies to his clients. He is willing to travel to various locations including all venues, churches, homes, restaurants, parks, and more. If his clients wish to have a wedding on the beach at the Jersey Shore, he can easily accommodate. Wherever the nuptials take place, Rev. Michael Whalen works closely with the engaged couple to ensure that their wedding event lives up to their expectations in a professional and timely manner.

Services Offered

Rev. Michael Whalen is able to perform services for weddings, civil unions, vow renewals, and last-minute ceremonies. He always arrives dressed to impress and can perform some parts of his services in Spanish. Curious clients are encouraged to reach out to schedule a consultation should they have further questions about Rev. Whalen’s services

What You'll Love About Rev. Michael Whalen

Working with this professional made couples feel at ease with his warm and friendly demeanor. They especially appreciated his engaging ceremonies, which made guests both laugh and cry. Read through Rev. Michael Whalen's reviews to learn all the ways you'll be grateful to have booked this officiant.

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What does a real wedding with Rev. Michael Whalen look like?

Jennifer & Melvin's wedding
Jennifer & Melvin
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What are Rev. Michael Whalen's coordination packages and rates?

Does starting price include the ceremony rehearsal?

No

What is the starting price for ceremony rehearsals?

$150

What types of weddings and events do you provide services for?

Non-religious
Interfaith
Vow Renewal
Civil Union

What services do you provide?

Bilingual

What religious affiliations do you serve?

Agnostic
Anglican
Baptist
Catholic
Episcopalian
Evangelical
Lutheran
Methodist
No Denomination
Orthodox Christian
Presbyterian

On average, how long are wedding ceremonies you officiate?

Less than 30 mins.

In which states are you licensed?

NJ
NY
PA

What languages do you speak?

English
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Reviewers praised the officiant as professional, warm, organized, and highly responsive, making planning stress-free. He created personalized, heartfelt ceremonies with the right tone and humor, calming nerves and impressing guests. He handled logistics (like the marriage license) smoothly and was flexible with last-minute changes. Overall, couples highly recommend him.

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Reviewers praised the officiant as professional, warm, organized, and highly responsive, making planning stress-free. He created personalized, heartfelt ceremonies with the right tone and humor, calming nerves and impressing guests. He handled logistics (like the marriage license) smoothly and was flexible with last-minute changes. Overall, couples highly recommend him.

Megan
Megan Sent on 08/25/2026
5 out of 5 rating

Wonderful Wedding Officiant

We couldn’t have asked for a better wedding officiant! Michael was warm, professional, and genuinely invested in making our ceremony feel personal and meaningful. He took the time to understand our story and was open to all of our wants/needs/changes to create a ceremony that truly reflected us as a couple. Everything was handled smoothly, and his calm, positive presence helped make our special day even more memorable. We highly recommend Michael to anyone looking for an officiant who truly cares about their couples!
J
Jonathan Sent on 08/19/2026
5 out of 5 rating

Look no further!

Rev Michael Whalen was an amazing officiant for us for our early spring NJ wedding. His meetings up to the date were professional, kind, and easy going as he crafted his words for our ceremony. When it came down to the ceremony, he was well spoken, easy to understand, added a drip of humor, and an all around calm demeanor as he led us through the ceremony. A true professional and a pleasure to work with. We would both highly recommend.
Sophia
Sophia Sent on 08/19/2026
5 out of 5 rating

Absolutely Amazing!

Rev. Michael Whalen was absolutely amazing from start to finish! He took the time to truly get to know my husband and I, which made our ceremony feel so personal and meaningful. His communication was 11/10 throughout the entire wedding planning process. He was always responsive, helpful, and made us feel completely taken care of.

He showed up on time, handled everything beautifully, and made the entire ceremony process feel effortless. He was also incredibly kind and welcoming to both of our families, which meant so much to us.

Planning a wedding can be stressful, but having Rev. Whalen there made everything so much easier. We are beyond grateful that he was such an important part of our wedding day and would 100% recommend him to anyone looking for an officiant! He truly went above and beyond, and we couldn’t have asked for anyone better. ❤️. HIGHLY RECOMMEND!!!!
Sofia
Sofia Sent on 08/02/2026
5 out of 5 rating

Sofia’s wedding

Michael is so responsive from the start of the planning process, he made changes when the bride asked, he met with you on video to clearly describe the process and get to know the couple. He made sure he could pronounce names the right way. He gave wonderful ideas for ceremony. He is such a grey speaker who has the audience in happy tears and laughter. He is awesome!
Courtney
Courtney Sent on 07/16/2026
5 out of 5 rating

Can't recommend enough!

We are so glad we decided to work with Michael for our wedding! From our very first FaceTime call, he was incredibly friendly, warm, and easy to work with. Michael is thorough, organized, and professional. Throughout the planning process, his response times were incredibly quick, and at no point were we ever worried about how the ceremony would go. My husband and I felt completely at ease knowing Michael had absolutely everything under control.

Michael helped us personalize our wedding ceremony by providing many different and beautiful options for readings and unity rituals. This allowed us to build a ceremony that felt like "us." The ceremony itself went off without a hitch! We received so many compliments from our family and friends about how heartfelt and well-done the ceremony was. If you want an officiant who will bring peace of mind, lots of experience, and flawless execution to your wedding, look no further than Michael!
Brianna
Brianna Sent on 05/08/2026
5 out of 5 rating

The Best of the Best!

I cannot say enough wonderful things about our officiant for our wedding 2 weeks ago. From the very beginning, he worked with us throughout the entire year to make sure our ceremony felt personal, meaningful, and exactly like us. He was patient, kind, responsive, and truly cared about bringing my vision to life.

On our wedding day, he helped make our ceremony everything I dreamed it would be. It felt beautiful, heartfelt, and so special. He created such a calm and meaningful presence, and we received so many compliments on how lovely the ceremony was.

I am so grateful for all of the time, effort, and care he put into making our day perfect. He truly helped make my dream come true, and I would recommend him to anyone looking for an officiant who is thoughtful, reliable, and genuinely invested in making your wedding ceremony unforgettable. 10/100000 recommend!!!
Brendan
Brendan Sent on 04/20/2026
5 out of 5 rating

Reverend Michael Whalen a Wedding Hit!

Reverend Michael Whalen was a fantastic fit for our Jersey Shore wedding. We met with him over a zoom call over a year prior to the wedding when we were at our most stressed and he immediately calmed us down with his knowledge and experience. He made the whole affair extremely east, which is exactly what we needed. Well worth the money, Michael Whalen was a 10 out of 10 and we would recommend him to any of our friends and family.
Chris
Chris Sent on 03/03/2026
5 out of 5 rating

Couldn’t Have Asked for a Better Officiant

We can’t recommend Rev. Michael Whalen enough. He was professional, warm, and truly took the time to get to know us. He created a customized ceremony that felt personal and meaningful, with the perfect touch of humor, so many guests told us how much they loved him.

He made the whole process easy and stress-free, and even nailed the little details (including smoothly jumping out of the way for our first kiss so the moment, and photos, were perfect). We’re so grateful he was part of our day. We would recommend him to any future couple considering him!

Chris and Megan
Perona Farms October 2025
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Carly Sent on 01/28/2026
5 out of 5 rating

Highly Recommend Michael!

We cannot say enough great things about Michael! From start to finish, he was extremely organized and always responded promptly to our emails, which made the entire process so easy and stress-free. He wrote our entire ceremony and customized it perfectly to reflect our story and what we wanted to say, even providing different options for certain portions so we could truly make it our own.

On top of that, Michael handled all of the marriage license details with the town after the wedding. All we had to do was pick it up when we got back from our honeymoon. That level of care and professionalism meant so much to us. Truly stress free!

We are so glad we chose Michael as our officiant. He was truly one of the best vendors we had on our wedding day, and we would recommend him without hesitation!
Veronica
Veronica Sent on 01/24/2026
5 out of 5 rating

Rev Michael Whalen is the best!

Our wedding day couldnt have been any more perfect. Rev Michael Whalen made the ceremony just how we would have pictured it, full of love, but not too serious either. He was amazing throughout the entire planning process as well!
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What awards has Rev. Michael Whalen won?

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Jaclyn Duncan Music Jaclyn Duncan Music Wedding Musicians

Michael's friendly and personable manner always makes for a pleasant atmosphere at every ceremony he officiates! I recently worked with Michael (for the second time) on a wedding ceremony at The Rockleigh Country Club in Rockleigh, NJ. Michael's professionalism added to the already classy atmosphere at The Rockleigh. To be sure things ran smoothly, he came by to greet me and my violinist before the ceremony to get all music cues coordinated. The ceremony went on without a glitch and Michael delivered his usual quality work! I would highly recommend him as a wedding officiant and look forward to crossing paths on the job with him again soon!

Bridal Music Bridal Music Wedding Musicians

Dear Brides-to-Be! Reverend Michael Whalen's excellent ease to work with, his professionalism and perfect appearance make Reverend Whalen a pleasure to recommend to our Brides. When you choose Reverend Whalen, you have the confidence, and peace of mind, in knowing that you will have chosen a true professional! Sincerely, Michele, Flutist/Artistic Director, Bridal Music, www.BridalMusic.Org

Branches Catering Branches Catering Banquet Halls

I have had the opportunity of working with Rev. Whalen at several weddings. He is a pleasure to work with. He works with each bride and groom individually to make sure the ceremony is exactly what they want. He has a warm, kind, personality. He is accomodating to work with and right on top of what needs to get done to have a successful wedding ceremony. I look forward to working with him on future weddings. I highly recommend his service to everyone.

The Spring Lake Manor
4.9 out of 5 rating , 96 reviews
· Banquet Halls
Bridal Music
5.0 out of 5 rating , 182 reviews
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