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REV. MARSHA THOMAS is an ordained minister, Wedding Officiant and Pre-Marriage Coach based out of the south suburbs of Chicago. Rev. Marsha wants your ceremony to completely reflect who you are as a couple, and to make it one that will inspire your guests and create memories that you will cherish for many years to come.

Services Offered

***GREAT NEWS!***

In addition to my popular Wedding Ceremony Packages, I am beyond excited to offer two new services:

1) same-day and next-day appointments for LICENSE SIGNINGS; and

2) VIRTUAL PRE-MARRIAGE AND MARRIAGE COACHING SESSIONS!

Hi, I'm Rev. Marsha Thomas, an ordained United Church of Christ minister. I am a Wedding Officiant, Pre-Marriage Coach, and a Wedding Script Writer performing ceremonies in person in the south and western suburbs of Chicago, as well as providing pre-marriage coaching sessions virtually from - ANYWHERE!

My WEDDING SCRIPT WRITING service is offered remotely for couples who want a special relative, friend, or even another officiant to perform their ceremony. And, if you are a pastor with a very busy schedule, I am happy to write a fresh and inspiring ceremony script for any wedding that you plan to perform.

I love working with couples to create the ceremony of their dreams. I have performed hundreds of weddings, including same-gender loving ceremonies, in a variety of settings including churches, private homes, restaurants, country clubs, mansions, banquet halls, a train station, and on Lake Michigan at the Taste of Chicago.

According to the wishes of the couple, the ceremony I create can be described as non-denominational, religious, spiritual, traditional, or non-traditional, casual, or fun! I also perform multi-cultural and interfaith ceremonies and marriage vow renewals. All the ceremonies I create are personalized, unique, inspiring, and are sure to "touch hearts and change lives!" I offer all my couples a 1/2-hour, no-obligation get-to-know-you meeting because I think it's important that I like them and they like me before we agree to work together!

Throughout the process of planning a ceremony, I value and offer an open mind, great communication, excellent customer service, timely follow up, ideas and suggestions, flexibility, an easy going personality, and a sense of humor. The couples I have most enjoyed working with have shared these values and even though what we were doing was serious, we also had fun along the way.

Your wedding is one of the most important events in your life and I want to help make the planning process and your wedding day as enjoyable and as stress-free as possible. This is YOUR wedding and every aspect of your ceremony should reflect who you are as a couple and should be just as YOU want it to be! It is truly an honor when couples select me as their Wedding Officiant; and such a pleasure when I can share in their excitement and be a part of their Special Day!

CEREMONY PACKAGES: (Free initial 1-hour consultation included with all packages.)

LET'S JUST DO IT! - $150

  • License signing with the I'Do's
  • Please invite 2 guests as witnesses (18 or older)
  • On-the-spot photos taken with your phone or camera
  • Prompt filing of your Marriage License
  • Same-day appointments available

BRONZE CEREMONY- $300

  • Elopement Ceremony
  • 6 Guests including your two witnesses
  • Short, generic ceremony script (religious or non-religious)
  • On-the-spot photos taken with your phone or camera
  • Prompt filing of your Marriage License
  • Same-day appointments available

SILVER CEREMONY - $450

  • Simple, intimate ceremony with exchange of wedding vows and rings.
  • 50+ guests
  • Ceremony at a park, restaurant, or backyard
  • Couple joined by a small gathering of family and friends (limit 20 guests including your two witnesses)
  • Choice of your written vows, repeated vows, or just the "I do's"
  • Choice of religious or non-religious wording
  • Choice of one unity ritual
  • Prompt filing of your Marriage License
  • Length of ceremony approx. 10-15 minutes

GOLD CEREMONY - $550

  • A more elaborate ceremony package that includes two options for vows, ring exchange, prayers or readings, and rituals
  • Unlimited guests
  • Choice of religious or non-religious wording
  • Includes two edits
  • Prompt filing of your Marriage License
  • Length of ceremony approx. 15-20 minutes

PLATINUM CEREMONY- $650 (BEST VALUE & MOST POPULAR)

  • If you want a truly personalized, beautiful, and memorable ceremony that you and your guests will remember for years to come, this package is for you!
  • Unlimited guests
  • I will write a completely customized script for you to review that includes several options for all of your special elements.
  • Choice of all aspects of your ceremony - religious or non-religious wording, traditional or casual, serious or fun, acknowledgment of special people, inclusion of pets, and more!
  • You have unlimited ceremony edits and email communication; and you can share the final script with your coordinator, musician, photographers, and videographer so they will be comfortable with the flow of the ceremony.
  • Length of ceremony approx 20-35 minutes
  • Prompt filing of your Marriage License

VOW RENEWALS follow the fee structure outlined above.

PRE-MARRIAGE COACHING - $125/HOUR (Minimum of two 1-hour sessions)

  • Sessions are based on a coaching rather than a therapeutic model; i.e.; forward movement rather than continually rehashing the past; and supporting the couple's agenda
  • Coaching sessions are personalized and based on issues and challenges that you and your partner have identified
  • After the initial 2 sessions, coach and couple can agree to additional sessions, if needed.

Attendance at your rehearsal is an additional $100.

Please call me at 708.466.9106 or email me at marshathomasweddings@gmail.com to schedule a complimentary consultation. I will provide more detail about all of my services; and will be delighted to answer any questions you have. I can't wait to start working with you to plan your very Special Day!❤️

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Frequently asked questions

Does starting price include the ceremony rehearsal?

No

What is the starting price for ceremony rehearsals?

$100

What is the starting price for pre-marital counseling (per session)?

$75

What types of weddings and events do you provide services for?

Non-religious
Interfaith
Ceremony Rehearsal
Vow Renewal
Civil Union

What services do you provide?

Premarital Counseling

What religious affiliations do you serve?

Baptist
Buddhist
Catholic
Jewish
Lutheran
Methodist
No Denomination
Presbyterian
Unitarian

On average, how long are wedding ceremonies you officiate?

30-60 mins.

In which states are you licensed?

AL
AK
AZ
AR
CA
CO
CT
DE
DC
FL
GA
HI
ID
IL
IN
IA
KS
KY
LA
ME
MD
MA
MI
MN
MS
MO
MT
NE
NV
NH
NJ
NM
NY
NC
ND
OH
OK
OR
PA
RI
SC
SD
TN
TX
UT
VT
VA
WA
WV
WI
WY

What languages do you speak?

English

Reviews of Rev. Marsha Thomas, Wedding Officiant & Pre-Marriage Coach

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Rev. Marsha Thomas is highly recommended by multiple reviewers as a wedding officiant who goes above and beyond to create personalized and meaningful ceremonies. She is praised for being attentive, professional, and guiding couples through the process with warmth and authenticity. Reviewers highlight her punctuality, organizational skills, and ability to make couples feel celebrated and at ease. Additionally, her premarital coaching is commended for strengthening relationships and providing valuable insights. Rev. Marsha's dedication, professionalism, and personalized approach make her a standout choice for couples seeking a memorable and heartfelt wedding experience.

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Rev. Marsha Thomas is highly recommended by multiple reviewers as a wedding officiant who goes above and beyond to create personalized and meaningful ceremonies. She is praised for being attentive, professional, and guiding couples through the process with warmth and authenticity. Reviewers highlight her punctuality, organizational skills, and ability to make couples feel celebrated and at ease. Additionally, her premarital coaching is commended for strengthening relationships and providing valuable insights. Rev. Marsha's dedication, professionalism, and personalized approach make her a standout choice for couples seeking a memorable and heartfelt wedding experience.

Azzie
Azzie Sent on 10/29/2025
5 out of 5 rating

“A Blessing Beyond Words”

We honestly don’t even know where to begin. This past year has been one of the hardest of our lives, and when we found Rev. Marsha Thomas, we had no idea just how much of a blessing she would turn out to be. She was, in every sense, a Godsend.
As a queer couple navigating a Christian wedding and doing so without all of our family present, finding someone who would see us, honor us, and celebrate us for exactly who we are was deeply important. From the very first conversation, she was everything we had hoped for and more: patient, compassionate, professional, and truly guided by love and faith.
She crafted a ceremony that was not only personal and meaningful but sacred in every sense of the word. Every word she spoke felt intentional and full of grace. She made us feel safe, celebrated, and at peace, which is something we will cherish forever.
She was responsive, organized, and went above and beyond to make sure everything was perfect. But beyond all that, it’s her warmth, authenticity, and heart that set her apart.
If you’re looking for an officiant who will meet you exactly where you are, honor your love story, and make your ceremony something you’ll remember for a lifetime, look no further. We can’t recommend her highly enough. She truly was an answer to our prayers. ❤️
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Lee Sent on 07/23/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Look no further

Marsha was amazing. She was punctual, professional, and consistent. She made sure she met all of our needs. Even our guests took notice, noting how smooth the wedding flowed. We are more than pleased with our experience with Marsha.
Fanteema
Fanteema Sent on 10/08/2023
5 out of 5 rating

Wonderful officiant!

From the moment we did a video consult, we knew that Marsha Thomas was the perfect officiant for us. She asked all the right questions to make sure the wedding was tailored to our needs and personalities. She also was well prepared with everything we needed to know about the process and gave us example scripts to get us started, knowing that this experience was new for us. We didn't even need her to be at rehearsal because she gave us everything we needed beforehand. During the wedding, she was sweet, professional, and funny! It was like she was a part of our family. She fit right in! And after the wedding she was the ultimate professional, making sure our marriage license was filed and sending us proof. Her price was very reasonable for the services she provided. From beginning to end, we knew that we were in good hands. You will not go wrong with having Marsha Thomas as your officiant!
Autymn
Autymn Sent on 09/07/2023
5 out of 5 rating

Wedding Officiant & Premarital Coach

We had the privilege of having Rev. Marsha as our wedding officiant, and I couldn't be happier with her services! From the very beginning, she took the time to truly get to know us as a couple, which made our ceremony feel incredibly personal and meaningful.

Rev. Marsha was the epitome of professionalism throughout the entire process. She was punctual, organized, and made sure every detail was in place for our special day. Her warm and kind demeanor put us at ease, which was so important during such a momentous occasion.

During the ceremony itself, Rev. Marsha officiated perfectly. Her words were heartfelt and beautifully crafted, reflecting our love story with sincerity and grace. She managed to strike the perfect balance between emotion and tradition, making our ceremony a truly memorable and moving experience.

We can't express how grateful we are to Rev. Marsha for making our wedding day so special. She exceeded our expectations in every way, and we would highly recommend her to anyone seeking a wedding officiant who goes above and beyond to create a meaningful and personalized ceremony. Thank you, Rev. Marsha, for being a crucial part of our unforgettable day!

Rev. Marsha not only officiated our wedding but also served as our premarital coach, and her guidance was invaluable. She took the time to understand our relationship on a deeper level, helping us navigate important conversations and challenges that arise in any partnership.

Her coaching sessions were not only informative but also incredibly insightful. Rev. Marsha's wisdom and experience shone through as she provided us with tools and advice to strengthen our bond and communication. Her kind and non-judgmental approach made us feel comfortable discussing even the most sensitive topics.

Having Rev. Marsha as our premarital coach not only prepared us for a successful marriage but also enhanced our connection as a couple. Her dual role as coach and officiant made our wedding day even more special, as she had a unique understanding of our journey together.

We are profoundly grateful to Rev. Marsha for her unwavering support and guidance. She played an essential role in shaping the foundation of our marriage, and we can't thank her enough for her kindness, professionalism, and dedication to making our union truly exceptional!
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Amaka Sent on 06/23/2023
5 out of 5 rating

Wedding officiant services

Our entire experience with Rev.Marsha Thomas has been phenomenal. Her attention to detail, punctuality, and level of professionalism are all unmatched! With Rev. Marsha’s assistance, we were able to customize each aspect of our wedding ceremony which was so special to us. She genuinely made every effort to ensure that our wedding ceremony was seamless. And it was!!! We are so thrilled for Rev. Marsha Thomas to have been a part of our special day.
Eric
Eric Sent on 05/30/2023
5 out of 5 rating

Cannot Say Enough About How Great Rev. Marsha Is

Honestly from the first moment my wife and I met Rev. Marsha over zoom we knew that there was no other choice. She helped us craft the wedding ceremony of our dreams and combine our various customs into a cohesive and beautiful ceremony. Our guests never knew that the first time we met Rev. Marsha in person was the day of the ceremony because she was so fantastic to work with, she even was helping us tweak our ceremony up to the day of the wedding. Overall, I cannot say enough about Rev. Marsha. If you are considering having her be your officiant, just meet with her and you will never look back.
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Danielle Sent on 01/21/2023
5 out of 5 rating

Couldn't Ask for Anything More! Just an Amazing Experience!

Rev. Marsha Thomas was amazing to work with during the preparation and execution of my wedding day. She was incredibly professional, detailed, organized, and patient with my husband and me, which was very important considering this was our first time going through this process and getting married. She made us feel comfortable and reassured during our interactions, which involved her walking us through her process, asking us questions regarding our wants and needs, and being transparent with her fees without applying any pressure.

Rev. Marsha was also remarkably warm, gentle, and easy to talk to, which was also helpful considering all of the trials and tribulations my husband and I dealt with with other wedding vendors. We couldn't have asked for anything more from Rev. Marsha.

I highly recommend her to anyone looking for a wedding officiant who wants a smooth, professional, and wonderful experience.
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Sierra Sent on 12/04/2022
5 out of 5 rating

Rev Marsha is one of the best

Rev. Marsha was amazing and helped us curate an amazingly beautiful ceremony. From our first meeting, my husband and I knew that we didn’t have to look any further for an officiant. You can tell that she genuinely loves what she does. She made everything so easy and always made herself available for any needs we may have had. We highly recommend her, and you will not be disappointed.
Patrick
Patrick Sent on 11/11/2022
5 out of 5 rating

Marsha is a 5/5. Wonderful to work with and delivered a beautiful ceremony for our wedding

TL;DR - Marsha is a 5/5. Wonderful to work with and delivered a beautiful ceremony for our wedding

We were a little late to the game in booking an officiant for our wedding. My fiance (now wife) and I spent months procrastinating with the idea that we might have a friend do it, but we weren’t totally sure which one and how we wanted our ceremony to look like. We knew we wanted a secular ceremony that was still meaningful to us and our guests, but other than that, we it was three months out to our wedding date and were at a loss.

We were blessed to find Marsha via the WeddingWire. We reached out online and this led us to a zoom call where she introduced herself, got to know us as people, and then reviewed her services and costs up front and with full transparency, which we greatly appreciated. She made us feel at ease and guided us through how the process would work, which included a questionnaire she would send us, a couple of zoom calls, and a drafting process where we narrowed down across multiple available options for different parts of the ceremony.

Our favorite part of Marsha’s services was the “love story” she helped us craft via the aforementioned questionnaire. This helped us document our relationship in a truly special way, then splice and dice different aspects and anecdotes for sharing wider with our friends and family. Multiple people approached us after the fact and remarked that this aspect of the ceremony made for a truly special event and one of the best they had attended (which is saying something, considering how many weddings folks have attended this year, 2022!).

Overall, we are very happy with how Marsha helped us create a special wedding ceremony for our guests and ourselves. We will be saving our ceremony document, especially the love story, to cherish for the rest of our lives.
Kevin
Kevin Sent on 10/31/2022
5 out of 5 rating

A True Family Experience

We met Marsha over a zoom meeting and we fell in love that same day. She offered great service and walked us through the process with no issues. She treated us as family from the get go! I would highly recommend her for officiant to make your day special.
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Awards

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WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2019 Winner
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2016 Winner
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2015 Winner
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2014 Winner
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2013 Winner

Professional Network & Endorsements

1 Endorsement
Sheryl Youngblood Wedding Singer Sheryl Youngblood Wedding Singer Wedding Bands

A breath of fresh air, the perfect officiant! I've experienced Ms. Marsha Thomas at her passion, which is working with people, she is awesome, she has a warm heart and a caring spirit and is open to everyone she unselfishly lends an open ear and will offer a non judgmental response or can just listen. She's positive and makes your wedding personal, exciting and interesting. With her EVERYONE matters. Your wedding will be warmly felt not just watched. I recommend her services to everyone. Sheryl Youngblood Soloist/Songwriter/Band Leader

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