We hosted our wedding weekend at Pelham this summer and had the best experience. The staff (everyone from wait staff, hotel staff, bartenders, and event coordinators) is incredible - so kind and so attentive, especially Katie who we worked closely with in planning and got to spend some time with during the weekend – she’s the best! The staff at Pelham is a well-oiled machine and our events went so smoothly thanks to their hard work. The venue is gorgeous, the hotel rooms are lovely and very clean, and having your guests stay on site or in the other Pelham locations is so convenient. We have been to a ton of weddings, and the food at ours was top tier. We also ate at the restaurant during our stay and the food was equally delicious. We are so happy we chose Pelham and would recommend to anyone looking for a Cape wedding venue.

Wow- it’s hard to even put into words what my wedding weekend at Pelham was like. Flawless, dreamy, perfection are the first that come to mind. Starting from check in on Friday, everything was incredible. The team worked really hard to get all the rooms ready early as I had quite a few people who were traveling significant distances to come to the wedding. Not only were the rooms I had requested early check in for ready- everyone’s rooms were ready early. Check in was a breeze and we all checked into spotless rooms. Having done a resort buyout, we all had time to hang by the pool firepits and relax before our rehearsal dinner. Our wedding coordinator (and literal angel on earth) Tara ran a smooth rehearsal and everyone knew their role for the next day. Our rehearsal dinner on the rooftop was delicious and the service was amazing. I was worried that with the rooftop restaurant open during our dinner that it would be noisy, but it wasn’t at all and we didn’t even notice anyone else was there. We moved right into our welcome party in the lobby and pool deck and it was perfect. Attentive, friendly bartenders kept our guests happy all night long.
From start to finish, the wedding day was perfect. Everyone at Pelham was friendly, attentive, and more than willing to help in any way they could. Someone was constantly checking in with us- whatever we needed it wasn’t hard to find someone to help immediately. There was a team there from the moment we started getting ready (8:30am) until the after party ended at midnight. My guests had nothing but good things to say about the food, drinks, and service. We hosted a Sunday brunch the next day in the ballroom. The team turned that room around so fast and it looked like a completely different space for breakfast, I loved it.
If you’re a bride planning to get married at Pelham House and wondering if you need a wedding planner- you don’t! Upon booking at Pelham I was connected with my wedding coordinator, Tara. She was nothing short of amazing from start to finish. She had a quick, thoughtful response for whatever frenzied email I sent her and she eased any anxieties or worries I had. On my wedding day she was always accessible and consistently 3 steps ahead of me, anticipating things I might need. I had a bag of ice in the bridal suite that had leaked on the floor- I felt horrible, not wanting to make a mess for anyone else to clean and quickly tried to gather paper towels etc. to clean it up myself. Before I even had a chance to go back into the room after enlisting help from a few of my bridesmaids, Tara had already cleaned it up. Just one small example of how she’s always right on top of everything.
If you’re thinking about having your wedding at Pelham House- stop thinking and do it. We got married on a cold, misty day and I truly don’t think a 60-degree, sunny day would have made our wedding day any more fun than it was!

If you want your guests to say that this was the best wedding they've ever been to, then you need to book Pelham House Resort! The amount of our guests who came up to us after our wedding to tell us this compliment was overwhelming, yet so rewarding after all of the planning.

The food at Pelham was absolutely incredible and one of the things my husband and I cared about most when selecting our wedding venue! We were not disappointed. So many of our guests commented that this was the best food they have ever had at a wedding! Everyone also loved the presentation and professionalism of the meal courses too. It is so nice how the team presents everything so that everyone at the table can eat at once. It also just shows how organized/well-run everything is here. Their Pelham on the Rise Bakery created the treats for our dessert bar and our cake, which were also delicious and a huge hit!

We did the wedding buyout of the resort and it was truly an experience ourselves and our guests will NEVER forget! Weddings are so expensive for a few hours of an experience, however doing the buyout allowed us to have multiple events on property for ourselves and guests to make it all worth it! The buyout let us cherish each moment and event we had here with our guests a lot more than we would've been able to with a regular wedding.

We caught a stunning sunset during our rehearsal dinner on property, had a gorgeous welcome party by the pool with some local vendors to make the event even more special, a rooftop after party, and a grab-and-go breakfast the morning after. Guests enjoyed lunch by the heated pool (some even went swimming), strolled on the private beach, and explored the area. We had guests trying to book a trip to come back to PHR this summer mid-wedding weekend, that's how much they loved their stay!

This was an absolute DREAM wedding and weekend thanks to the Pelham team! Kelsey, our coordinator went above and beyond throughout the entire process to make sure we had answers to all of our questions and made the entire wedding weekend run SO smoothly! Even despite windy weather, we were so lucky the team was tracking everything and squeezed the ceremony in outdoors before it started raining a couple of hours later. They managed all of this themselves and I never once knew the weather was swifting. They make it easy, are so calm, beyond friendly, and super professional! Everyone I met working at Pelham was so kind and helped to make the experience what it was.

I cannot recommend this venue enough and the experience we had during our wedding weekend with our guests was truly worth all of the planning. This venue is PERFECT and I wouldn't have changed a single thing about our wedding weekend at Pelham! My husband and I can't wait to visit again soon and have a meal at the rooftop restaurant and always be able to come back to celebrate and visit our Pelham fam! Thank you all for everything. We will never forget this experience during the happiest day of our lives!