Lavender Oaks Farm
About
Lavender Oaks Farm is a 60-acre private farm located in Chapel Hill, North Carolina.
Imagine unlimited time with all your favorite people in the most magnificent setting of 60 private acres located less than 5 miles to downtown Chapel Hill, NC, very close to all the hotels, restaurants, and only 30 minutes to RDU Airport. Plus, Uber/Lyft come to our farm as a convenience for your guests!
At Lavender Oaks Farm, we are proud to be preserving a part of American history with our two historic timber frame barns that have been lovingly and meticulously restored. Our Main Barn, circa 1900, is rustic, yet refined, 7,000 sq ft, temperature controlled, and includes our beautiful Bridal Suite, Groom’s Retreat, gourmet kitchen, spacious restrooms, and our Lavender Oaks Farm Shoppe. Walk outside our Main Barn and enjoy our 3,000 outdoor patio with our stone fireplace, wrought iron gazebo, all overlooking our 4,000 lavender plants. We faced our Main Barn east so the outdoor patio gets all the afternoon shade which is the perfect lighting for your event. Our covered outdoor Pavilion Barn is the perfect location for your ceremony, cocktail hour, or as a rain contingency plan. We rent our barns for weddings and special events year-round and include all your Event/Wedding Planning, a Day of Coordinator, quite a lot of decor, tables, chairs, linens, centerpiece items, dried or fresh lavender (seasonally), graphic design services, parking attendant, restroom attendant, and more!
The average wedding budget of our couples is $30,000 including our rental fee, and because we include so much we find that we save our couples from all those added expenses. We only allow one wedding per weekend, so you have the luxury of time to relax on your wedding day, and set the time for your ceremony rehearsal the day before at a time that is convenient for you. We rent our Main Barn and grounds for unlimited time on your wedding day, so you can relax and end the night at your leisure! We invite you to schedule a tour to see all the beautiful items and services we include with your rental fee to make your day spectacular!
Facilities And Capacity
Lavender Oaks Farm accommodates up to 250 guests in our Main Barn, and we offer several areas for your ceremony, cocktail hour all in a timeless and private setting. We allow you to bring in your own alcohol, drop things off a day or two before your wedding, and come back the next day to pick up items. Our 60 acres is surrounded by a majestic forest, and since we are secluded your DJ or Band can play late inside our Main Barn!
Services Offered
Included in the venue rental is unlimited hours on your rental day, all your Wedding Planning, Day of Coordination, all your round tables, plus some farmhouse tables, white Chiavari chairs and cushions, white resin folding chairs, linens (your choice), centerpiece items, bridal suite, groom’s retreat, cake table and pedestals, sweetheart table, assorted lanterns, flameless ivory candles, floating candle vases, we include all your candles, many glass vases, easels, photo frames, apothecary glass jars, rustic wood bars, a “floating table,” wine barrels, and assorted outdoor furniture. There are two log cabins available for rent on the farm.
Other Amenities:
Lavender Oaks Farm include:
- Parking Attendant
- Wheelchair access
- Fireplace attendant
- Hispanic or Latinx-owned
- Woman-owned
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Lavender Oaks Farm frequently asked questions
What items and services are included in the starting site fee at Lavender Oaks Farm?
- Bridal Suite
- Chairs
- Event Planning
- Linens
- Parking
- Tables
What are the most important characteristics of Lavender Oaks Farm in terms of venue type, style and location?
- Barn
- Farm/Ranch
- Historic Building
What kind of indoor/outdoor options are available at Lavender Oaks Farm for wedding events?
- Indoor
- Covered Outdoor
- Uncovered Outdoor
- Scenic Views
What kind of wedding events does Lavender Oaks Farm offer?
- Ceremony
- Reception
- Bridal Shower
- Engagement Party
- Elopements
- Rehearsal Dinner
What services does Lavender Oaks Farm offer for wedding events?
- Accommodations
- Clean Up
- Event Planner
- Event Rentals
- Get Ready Rooms
- Liability Insurance
- Outside Vendors
- Set Up
What furniture and decorations does Lavender Oaks Farm have available for wedding events?
- Aisle Markers
- Altar/Arch
- Centerpieces
- Chairs
- Decor
- Furniture
- Lighting
- Tables
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