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Lavender Oaks Farm

Lavender Oaks Farm

Chapel Hill, NC
5.0 out of 5 rating, 16 Reviews
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    Morgan M. Sent on 07/26/2023
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    Simply THE best!

    Karen and the team at Lavender Oaks are phenomenal! They took such good care of us and brought our dream wedding to life. This venue is fabulous because it includes many of the things you need for your special day in the venue fee. In addition, they have a great, comprehensive list of suggested vendors, which helps make the planning process so much easier. The venue itself is absolutely gorgeous. Lastly, Karen is such a joy to work with. She truly loves each and every one of her couples and her expertise will make you feel constantly at ease. I could not recommend this place enough! 10 out of 10!

    Lavender Oaks Farm's reply:

    Beautiful Morgan,
    This is so AMAZING! It was so fantastic to help you plan your big day and we love you both so much! Thank you for this wonderful review and you truly are in our hearts forever! Come visit often as this is your place forever! Much Love, Karen
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    Maureen D. Sent on 07/06/2022
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    Wonderful Experience!

    We had such a wonderful experience working with Karen and her team at Lavender Oaks! The venue is so beautiful, and all of our guests talked about how much they loved it. The lavender was blooming, and I swear during our ceremony birds were chirping and butterflies were floating around the pavilion barn!
    Working with Karen was such a dream-- from our very first meeting she helped us plan, staying organized, sticking to a planning timeline, and helping us with decisions we didn't know how to make (or didn't know we needed to make!). She also introduced us to the most fantastic vendors, who were so kind and amazing to work with, and she helped us find vendors that helped us stay within our budget. In the weeks leading up to the venue, she quickly answered texts, calls, and emails-- helping me sort through the bumps in the road that inevitably come up in those last few weeks. We had the perfect day-- from getting ready in the cabin and bridal suites, to seeing Karen and Jen and the nicest vendors setting up our wedding, to the ceremony and reception itself-- we had so much fun and we will be forever grateful! I would recommend Lavender Oaks to anyone looking for an idyllic wedding venue!
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    Blair C. Sent on 04/01/2020
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    Great Venue, Exceptional Staff

    Lavender Oaks Farm was the perfect venue for us! Karen, the venue owner, worked closely with us throughout the whole process. She went above and beyond to make our day and all the details prior fit our wants and needs. There were several issues with our vendors on our day (to clarify: outside of Lavender Oaks and not their from their list of recommendations), but Karen handled them so well, that we didn't even know until the next day. Karen took the vision we had for our wedding and made it come to life. Her and her staff helped my family enjoy the planning process and the wedding because we knew we could trust Karen to take care of the details.

    The venue was designed with you and your guests in mind. Lavender Oaks considered every detail, not limited to: guest flow through the space, entertainment activities during cocktail hour and the reception, snacks for the day of and rehearsal, even down to a replacing a slightly dim lightbulb behind the head table.

    Truly, words cannot recommend this venue and team enough. We were highly satisfied with our experience. Karen and her team treat you like their own family. We are so glad we chose them for our venue.
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    Lisa W. Sent on 08/19/2021
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    August 2021 Wedding at Lavender Oaks Farm

    Karen at Lavender Oaks Farm did a fantastic job for our daughter's wedding! Such a beautiful venue and Karen goes above and beyond for her couples. We received so many compliments on the beautiful venue!
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    Haley G. Sent on 06/22/2020
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    Love in the time of quarantine

    Words cannot express how wonderful Karen and her team is at Lavender Oaks Farm. From the second we set foot on her beautiful property, we felt welcomed, taken care of and listened to. Karen is warm, thoughtful, beyond talented and walks you and your partner through the ENTIRE wedding process in a non stressful way. The venue has endless options for ceremony and reception options. Karen offers her talents in graphic design and planning, she meets with you at regular intervals to make sure planning, budgets and decisions are on track. Not to mention she feeds you delicious snacks, and will never let you leave empty handed (lots of lavender goodies from the gift shop!) On top of how amazing she is under regular circumstances, when our wedding date was compromised due to COVID, she reached out to us multiple times to help us make tough decisions. She supported us unconditionally and helped us have a small ceremony and dinner at the venue on our original date AND reschedule our planned wedding celebration for the following year for no extra cost. She even put together a small bouquet/boutonnière, table decorations, and had her daughter bake us the best chocolate cake I have ever had for our dessert. Talk about going above and beyond for her clients. We were speechless, and so grateful. My husband and I feel like part of her family and we cannot WAIT to celebrate next year. This venue and Karen are well worth the price! I would recommend Lavender Oaks Farm to anyone and everyone considering!!
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    Burcu B. Sent on 08/09/2020
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    Mr. & Mrs. Lavender are gems!

    Working with Karen at Lavender Oaks Farm was one of the best decisions we made in our wedding planning process. That was so incredibly clear that we kept saying it to each other in the months leading up to the wedding. She and her husband are incredibly hard-working, thoughtful, and just great people to work with. The first day we toured the farm Karen pronounced my wife’s Turkish name correctly. She had taken the time in advance of meeting us to ask a Turkish friend how to pronounce it in order to get it right. This is something that no other wedding vendor we worked with did.

    From there onwards, Karen made us feel so well taken care of. She replied to emails promptly, patiently walked us through the various steps of wedding planning (many of which were news to us!) and went out of her way to help us execute our vision for our wedding weekend.

    In addition to Karen and her husband, the venue itself is a joy and a beauty. We had our ceremony outside facing the fireplace mantel and the lovely tall trees behind it. The lavender fields are gorgeous, the barn is warm and inviting and scented with lavender, and the outdoor shelter makes for an extra special place for a cocktail hour after the ceremony. Unlike at other venues, we had access to the entire venue for the entirety of the weekend. We were able to drop things off during the week before the wedding, set up decor and have the rehearsal there on Friday, and pick things up on Sunday rather than trying to do it all the day of the wedding. This flexibility was so worthwhile and allowed us to actually enjoy the weekend.

    We can’t recommend Lavender Oaks enough as a wedding venue. Unfortunately, a family emergency prevented Karen from being there in person the day of our wedding. While we were so sad at the time because Karen was such a big part of why we chose the venue, she more than made up for it by hiring us (free of charge) a very talented day-of-coordinator, Jessica, who had experience working at Lavender Oaks. She also worked with our other vendors to ensure they took care of us extra well on our big day. Plus her husband, Mr. Lavender, was there to keep everything running smoothly on the farm the day of. We can’t imagine having gotten married anywhere else other than Lavender Oaks!

    Lavender Oaks Farm's reply:

    Our hearts are so full of love for you two, and we’re so grateful for this beautiful review! We wish you a lifetime of love and happiness, and hope you’ll visit our farm often! Much love always, Karen & Robert aka Mr & Mrs Lavender!
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    Rebecca Sent on 11/19/2019
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    Beautiful farm and venue

    Lavender Oaks is a wonderful place to have a wedding. It has so many options for where you want to have a ceremony, cocktail hour and seating. Karen, the owner, is so kind and will go out of her way to make sure your wedding day is so special. She includes so many things when you book her barn and it won't disappoint you or your guests. They have a full kitchen which your catering staff will love and the bridal suite is wonderful to hangout in with all your friends before it all gets real!
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    Ashley Sent on 04/03/2020
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    LOVED getting married at Lavender Oaks!

    Our wedding at Lavender oaks was a dream! Karen was great to work with, and the detail and decorations her and her team put together were wonderful. The barn + lavender farm makes for an incredibly beautiful venue that neither we nor our guests will forget!
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    Brooke Sent on 06/17/2019
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    Amazing!

    Lavender Oaks Farm is a gorgeous venue - every detail so well thought out. There is not one thing that I would change! But, even better than the perfect venue is Karen and Robert - they are the owners who designed and built the venue and are the nicest couple you will ever meet. They were so wonderful to us. They helped to make our daughter's wedding a dream come true for her. We are so grateful to have met them. I cannot say enough about how fabulous they are.
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    Jennifer Sent on 08/24/2019
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    Incredible Wedding Venue

    Getting married at Lavender Oaks Farm was one of the easiest and best decisions we made during the wedding planning process. It is an absolutely gorgeous place -- beautiful historic barns set back from the road on a peaceful lavender farm.

    In addition to the beautiful venue, we felt so supported during the entire wedding planning process. Karen and Robert are truly wonderful. We were also very lucky to have had Karen as our day-of coordinator -- and things couldn't have gone smoother!

    We are incredibly grateful to have gotten married at Lavender Oaks Farm, and to have been able to share this farm with our family and friends. Everyone still tells us how much they loved the location of our wedding! Being on a lavender farm definitely provides a unique aspect that guests really love. Highly recommend!
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    Zoe S. Sent on 04/13/2020
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    Individualized & Thoughtful Venue Experience!

    Just at a glance, Lavender Oaks Farm is a breathtaking, relaxing sight with rows upon rows of lavender, historic barns, cabins, and ponds. But, when you actually spend time in the barns and in the fields, noticing all of the details and history behind the entire venue, you are sure to fall head over heels--just like we did! The owners are an absolute pleasure to work with. They not only have a passion for weddings/special events and lavender, but they also have an exuding passion for making sure the special day is just how you want it. Karen, the owner and all-things-events guru, is so professional and detail-oriented that the process, a usually stressful one, seems to be effortless. She provides you with so many recommendations, pictures/swatches for inspiration, and is always open for visits, emails, and meetings to discuss the day. Because this venue doesn't require you to have certain vendors, you're free to do your own research and choose who you want to be a part of the special day! But, if you need help, Karen provides direction! When you book a wedding at Lavender Oaks, you get so much more than a place to say "I do," you get all the little things you may not think of right away--the tables, chairs, some centerpiece pieces, linens, a lovely bridal suite, and more! Karen is also a talented graphic designer--just another hidden, valuable part of the entire experience!
    The day-of: Karen was so helpful the day-of making sure all was running smoothly. I had no worries or doubts that things wouldn't be in the right spot. It was a magical day. All my guests raved about how beautiful and unique the venue was. This place is what dreams are made of! I couldn't recommend Lavender Oaks more!
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    Rebecca Sent on 02/28/2019
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    Our Dream Wedding

    Lavender Oaks Farm is a rustic barn, thoughtfully restored to its natural beauty with elegant and modern touches throughout. The farm is well equipped with a bridal suite, groomsmen cabin, and multiple ceremony locations. The property is beautiful and gives the opportunity for many different back drops for your photos. You are sure to find everything you need here at Lavender Oaks Farm.

    What sets this venue apart from the others are the amazing owners, Karen and Robert. They will make you feel like family from the moment you enter the barn; greeting you with warm smiles and their signature lavender lemonade. Karen is the most kind and caring person I have ever met. My expectations were surpassed again and again throughout the planning process. She is extremely detail oriented and truly an expert at her craft.

    Due to Hurricane Florence, my husband and I were forced to relocate our wedding a week out from our scheduled date. Luckily, Lavender Oaks Farm had a change in schedule and was able to accommodate our last-minute request. Karen and Robert helped us plan our dream wedding in six days. (Yes, that’s right- SIX DAYS!) There’s no way we could have pulled this off without Lavender Oaks Farm and their dedication to our special day. They are a pillar in the Chapel Hill community, evident by their ability to pull together various vendors we needed last minute. The venue was beautifully decorated with a combination of our personal decorations and the inventory of decorations they keep on site for brides. Karen has great taste and it was comforting to know I could count on her to bring our dream to life.

    It’s hard to give this review the justice Lavender Oaks Farm deserves. There is such a special place in our hearts for this amazing family and we have nothing but wonderful things to say. We look back at our wedding photos with such fond memories, all thanks to Lavender Oaks Farm. Without their dedication and willingness to go above and beyond, our wedding would not have happened on schedule. Please do yourself a favor and book Lavender Oaks Farm for your wedding- you will not be disappointed!
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    Sarah Sent on 02/14/2018
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    Reserving Lavender Oaks Farm for our wedding ceremony and reception was the best decision my husband and I made in our year long wedding planning process. The site is incredibly beautiful with its elegant rustic charm both inside and out. There are many lovely spots around the barn and surrounding lavender fields for incredible photographs and the unique space allowed us to host multiple events throughout our wedding wèekend. What makes this venue so very special are the owners, Karen and Robert. They are dedicated to making their farm, your farm, for your friends and family to enjoy and make lifelong memories. From the moment we began planning they were exceptionally warm, enthusiastic, and accommodating to all of our ideas for our dream wedding. The plan for our winter wedding was to be married on the stone patio in front of their iron gazebo overlooking the lavender fields, but eight inches of snow fell on Wednesday night. Panic could have ensued but Karen and Robert assured us all would be fine, and it was! Our weekend exceeded all of our dreams! We began our weekend with the rehearsal dinner and band for our one hundred guests to dance to. The roaring fire outside and s'mores bar created by Karen drew our guests outside to enjoy a rare Carolina snowscape. My husband stayed with his best man in one of the rustic cabins, overlooking a beautiful pond onsite, allowing him some personal guy time before our big day. Our wedding day arrived with the ground covered in snow and ice. Karen and Robert did not flinch as they moved our wedding ceremony inside. My nine bridesmaids and I arrived by ten Saturday morning to spend the day in the absolutely gorgeous bridal suite. We were pampered, we danced, we partied until it was time to walk down the isle. I was awed by the transition of the barn to a magical place that had only existed in my dreams. Karen and Robert took all of my personal ideas and dreams and made them a reality. Our wedding was truly a dream come true!
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    Mackenzie R. Sent on 08/30/2022
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    Fantastic "rustic elegance" venue!

    We absolutely loved Lavender Oaks, Karen, Jen, and the entire team there!! Perfect place for our “rustic elegance” August wedding. Karen was so helpful in the planning: she helped us find reliable vendors, calmed my nerves time after time, and did some fantastic graphic design for us. I love how much is included in the Lavender Oaks package (graphic design + some printing, decor, tables and chairs, linens, etc). The wedding weekend went very smoothly. Drop off and pick up of our alcohol and supplies was very easy, and everything went so smoothly on the day of. The entire venue itself is gorgeous, and the barn looks so elegant when it’s lit up at night. There were so many great outdoor spots to take photos, and our guests loved all of the different available spaces to hang out as the night went on. The proximity to the airport and downtown Chapel Hill is a huge plus, but the farm is so peaceful and tucked away that you’d never know you’re that close to it all. We truly could not have asked for a better location or team to host our wedding- they made our vision come to life!
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    Angelina Sent on 06/17/2020
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    Magical and unique venue: a dream come true!

    My mom & I had looked all over the Raleigh area and this was our last chance to find a unique venue that fit the number of guests. Living on the other side of the world I was also concerned when it came to working with a venue to set everything up. They were so accommodating with a 6 hour time difference, attended venue meetings, and added little details the day of! All our vendors were so full of love and passionate for what they do, and it all started with Lavender Oaks. I hope to have a reason to have another even at Lavender Oaks!

    Lavender Oaks Farm's reply:

    Thank you so much Angelina! Your wedding was so amazing! Please let us know how we could have done better on “quality of service” and “responsiveness.” We really try to go above and beyond for our couples and always try to respond within 24-48 hrs. Sending you lots of love! ❤️
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