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We know what you're thinking.. “What does 'Grace & Grit' mean?”

The answer is simple; when thinking of the necessary qualities needed to cater a memorable event, two words come to mind:

Grace ...under pressure. Hosting off premise celebrations is a very detailed and ornate work of art that can bring one to the brink and back.. It is our policy to face any stress, hiccup or disaster with poise. Our goal is to have already fixed a problem before you ever even know it exists. Which brings us to...

Grit ... to make it all happen! On your special day, we want to deliver your dream come true. In order for all aspects of an event to seamlessly come together, it takes months of planning and preparation for our team to fearlessly take on any changes or challenges that may arise.

When Grace meets Grit, our ideas, values and skills come together to celebrate a day made just for you.

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Frequently asked questions

What is the average catering price per person for plated service?

$100

What is the average catering price per person for buffet service?

$90

What is the average catering price per person for stations?

$90

What is the average catering price per person for hors d'oeuvres?

$75

Which of the following are included in the cost of your full service wedding catering?

Delivery
Set Up
Clean Up
Server(s)
Tastings

What is the starting price per person for bar service?

$35

Which of the following are included in the starting price for bar service?

Open Bar
House Beer
Specialty Beer
House Wine
Specialty Wine
House Liquor
Premium Liquor
Signature Drink

What event services do you provide?

Delivery
Set Up
Clean Up

What catering services do you provide?

Breakfast / Brunch
Buffet
Cake Cutting
Cocktail Reception
Custom Menu
Hors d'oeuvres
Plated
Server(s)
Stations
Tastings

What types of cuisine do you cater?

African
American
Asian
BBQ
Caribbean
French
German
Greek
Indian
Italian
Latin American
Local
Mediterranean
Mexican
Middle Eastern
Seafood
Southern
Spanish

What dietary needs can you accommodate?

Gluten Free
Lactose Free
Kosher
Nut Free
Organic
Vegan
Vegetarian

What bar services do you provide?

Bartender(s)
Open Bar
Champagne Toast
Signature Drink

Which of the following items can you provide?

Chairs
Tables

Which of the following items can you provide?

Barware
China
Flatware
Glassware
Linens
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Reviews of Grace and Grit

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Yujin
Yujin Y. Sent on 09/28/2022
5 out of 5 rating

Unique Menu that WOW-ed Guests !

We worked with Grace & Grit for a Raw Bar, Passed Appetizers and Buffet Style Dinner.
Our guests were so impressed with the unique appetizers (esp the duck wraps) and loved the fresh raw bar. Our event was in the Hamptons (which gets tricky with permits and what is allowed by the town). Grace & Grit helped to navigate our event permits, which was not easy since our venue was semi-new.
They were super easy to work with and helped us plan our dream menu.
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Elizabeth Sent on 10/21/2020
5 out of 5 rating

Exceptional Experience!

We got married in September 2020 at the North Fork, and had the pleasure of working with Samantha Payne-Markel and her team at Grace & Grit. Needless to say, during a pandemic, the stresses of wedding planning are amplified, added on by the changes needed in a relatively short span of time, however, we could not have asked for a more responsive, flexible, reliable, and pleasurable catering experience. And most importantly-- delicious! Samantha and her team were with us from beginning to end, working hand in glove to create the vision we wanted, providing suggestions that met that vision, customizing the menu over the course of our planning, and adapting with us as we needed to scale things back due to the pandemic. Even on the wedding day we felt supported. The team went above and beyond to create the vineyard wedding experience we imagined, despite the changes. Every staff working the event was gracious, hospitable, and flexible throughout. We received numerous comments from our attendees on the high caliber service and the diversity of mouthwatering food. And we agree! We highly recommend Grace & Grit for your dream event. You won't be disappointed!
Terri
Terri Sent on 10/15/2019
5 out of 5 rating

Incredible Food for an Incredible Event

Samantha and her team were on top of every single want and need for the entire wedding weekend. From our very first tasting to packing up leftovers for our trip home after our Goodbye Brunch, Grace & Grit was incredible. The food was amazing, the staff ensured we ate before the ceremony, on our way to photos after the ceremony, and during the reception. They went out of their way to ensure people with allergies did not come in contact with anything that could cause issue. They also made sure to give us extra chicken and waffles because they are the most addicting food item known to man. Highly recommend.
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Grace and Grit frequently asked questions

At Grace and Grit, the cost of the full wedding catering service includes:
  • Delivery
  • Set Up
  • Clean Up
  • Server(s)
  • Tastings
The bar service starting price at Grace and Grit includes:
  • Open Bar
  • House Beer
  • Specialty Beer
  • House Wine
  • Specialty Wine
  • House Liquor
  • Premium Liquor
  • Signature Drink
Grace and Grit offers the following event services for weddings:
  • Delivery
  • Set Up
  • Clean Up
Grace and Grit offers the following catering services for weddings:
  • Breakfast / Brunch
  • Buffet
  • Cake Cutting
  • Cocktail Reception
  • Custom Menu
  • Hors d'oeuvres
  • Plated
  • Server(s)
  • Stations
  • Tastings
At Grace and Grit, you can find the following types of cuisine:
  • African
  • American
  • Asian
  • BBQ
  • Caribbean
  • French
  • German
  • Greek
  • Indian
  • Italian
  • Latin American
  • Local
  • Mediterranean
  • Mexican
  • Middle Eastern
  • Seafood
  • Southern
  • Spanish
At Grace and Grit, the following dietary needs can be accomodated:
  • Gluten Free
  • Lactose Free
  • Kosher
  • Nut Free
  • Organic
  • Vegan
  • Vegetarian
Grace and Grit provides the following bar and beverage services for wedding events:
  • Bartender(s)
  • Open Bar
  • Champagne Toast
  • Signature Drink
To cater to all tastes, Grace and Grit offers the following food and beverage items:
  • Barware
  • China
  • Flatware
  • Glassware
  • Linens
Grace and Grit is recommended by 100% of couples who have used their services. Their overall rating is 5.0, with the same score awarded for quality of service, flexibility, value, professionalism and average response time.

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