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Ever After Memories LLC is based in Stratford, Connecticut. Owner, Kathy Vass is a secular Minister of Marriage and Justice of the Peace serving all parts of Connecticut.

Kathy's unique process provides a few different ways to share your story. Interviews are conducted through the use of in-depth questionnaires, audio or even video recording.

Choosing a package with an audio or video recorded interview allows you to be in the moment, remembering all the best parts of your story. The recording helps Kathy add nuance and detail to your ceremony while providing you with a very special time capsule.

On your first year anniversary, you'll receive this recording as a way to remember your story, as told in your own words – for EVER AFTER!

Services Offered

Ever After Memories LLC can officiate weddings of all sizes and styles. As a secular wedding minister, Kathy has experience with people from religious or non-religious backgrounds. To make sure the planning process is stress-free, Kathy offers all couples unlimited phone calls, emails, or texts. She will assist you in choosing the readings and help you with the marriage license process.

Other services couples will enjoy include:

  • Special wedding additions (like a Unity Candle, Sand ceremony, Ring warming or Hand Fasting)
  • Creation of your own special addition
  • Proofread and provide feedback on personal vows
  • Prompt signing and filing of the marriage license
  • Woman-owned

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Ceremony Rehearsal
Vow Renewal

What religious affiliations do you serve?

No Denomination

On average, how long are wedding ceremonies you officiate?

Less than 30 mins.

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Beatrice F. Married on 11/22/2022
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Dear Kathy,
Words cannot express how grateful we are that you performed the most wonderful, heartfelt, tender, and warmly humorous ceremony we could have asked for. Everyone was smiling, laughing, crying and remembering their own weddings hearing your words of love and life moments which brought us together. Thank you again, from our hearts, for making our union an unforgettable moment to remember for all our years to come.
Deandra M. Married on 09/16/2022
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Personable JOP that is forever a part of our lives now!

Where to begin with Kathy - SHE IS AMAZING. It was so relaxing to work with someone who was as organized as I was! She made wedding planning very easy for us and made the ceremony absolutely AMAZING! For rehearsal, Kathy put together an organized cue sheet making it very easy for everyone to know what their respective jobs were. Kathy helped us understand what different traditions are out there - some of which we had no idea about! Everyone loved the ceremony and there was not a dry eye in the crowd!

Kathy loves what she does and it really shows. She cares about each and every one of her clients and takes the time to get to know them as a couple - no one is just another client to her. The first ZOOM meeting was what sold us - easy to talk to, fun, spunky, caring - but most of all... personable. She cared about us and it was not getting another client.

I would 1000/10 recommend Kathy with nothing but the highest respect for what she does! Everyone loved the ceremony and Kathy is FOREVER a part of our lives!
F8Dd167F51E3Fcd2De92028Be7Da0B06C26735D6 Married on 11/06/2021
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Absolutely Phenomenal

Kathy is absolutely phenomenal — I don’t even know where to begin. From the moment we met Kathy she exuded kindness and professionalism and you can tell she LOVES what she does. She truly gets to know you and wants your ceremony to be authentic and special — nothing about what she does is “cookie cutter.” Our guests were blown away by how personal our ceremony was, to the point that they thought Kathy was a friend of ours. You will not regret trusting Kathy with your special day!
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