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About Bourne Mansion

One of a kind!

Bourne Mansion is an elegant wedding venue located in the hamlet of Oakdale on New York’s Long Island. This historic Vanderbilt mansion offers couples a traditional and upscale space to celebrate one of the most unforgettable days of their lives. Nestled just 90 minutes outside of New York City, Bourne Mansion is the ideal venue to host a grandiose wedding in the same place Vanderbilt’s daughter, Consuelo, held her wedding reception to the Duke of Marlborough in 1895.

Facilities and Capacity
Bourne Mansion can accommodate up to 1,000 wedding guests in its indoor and outdoor event spaces. Situated on 205 breathtaking acres, Bourne Mansion’s great lawn overlooks the picturesque Great South Bay and can seat up to 1,000 people for an opulent outdoor wedding ceremony that is sure to be remembered for a lifetime. The venue’s column-trimmed courtyard patio is the perfect setting to host an outdoor cocktail party. Meanwhile, Bourne Mansion’s Grand Ballroom features a 40-foot-tall vaulted ceiling with a decorative glass dome, crystal lighting scones and gilded plasterwork, making it the ideal space to host the grand wedding reception you have always imagined. Bourne Mansion provides chairs, tables and linens at every event they facilitate on their property.

Services Offered
Bourne Mansion is a full-service wedding venue that is available for hosting ceremonies and receptions. The gorgeous estate offers several services to couples planning their nuptials on the heart of Long Island, including in-house catering, event planning, event rentals, and state-of-the-art lighting and sound equipment. Prior to your wedding day, Bourne Mansion will refer you to a list of preferred vendors in the local area that will be available to assist you with all of your wedding needs. A mansion coordinator will be with you throughout every step of the wedding planning process and, on your special day, you and your guests will receive premium service from your personal maitre’d, attendant and event captain.

Categories: Wedding Venue

Regions serviced: Long Island

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The perfect wedding day. The staff at Bourne Mansion went above and beyond to make sure our wedding was unforgettable. Every guest was taken care of and had an amazing time. The food was delicious. The staff was professional and responsive. We loved working with Miriam, Steve, and Jake throughout the process. The venue is breathtaking with so many great locations for scenic photos. Our wedding day was perfect and we are so thankful to the staff at Bourne Mansion for making it happen.

Profile Picture Steffen, 5/27/18, 5 Reviews
Category: Ceremony & Reception Venue

Spectacular! It's the best word to describe our daughter's wedding at Bourne Mansion last weekend. The venue is beyond beautiful, and the wedding planning was perfectly organized by Miriam, who is amazing in every possible way. The wedding day was carefully orchestrated by the most expert and professional team, led by Steve, who will ensure your day is as beautiful as you planned it with Miriam. We wanted the most beautiful, elegant wedding for our daughter and her betrothed, and our dreams came true. I am so happy we chose Bourne Mansion - thank you Miriam and Steve!

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Profile Picture Lori , 5/5/18, 1 Review
Category: Ceremony & Reception Venue

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500 Montauk Highway, Oakdale, NY 11769   See On Map
631-277-7800 (phone)