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Bourne Mansion is a historic wedding venue in Oakdale, New York. This spectacular Vanderbilt mansion is a turn-of-the-century work of art, situated amidst 205 acres of picturesque grounds. The mansion is part of Lessing’s Hospitality Group. They're carrying on a proud tradition of excellence, and they invite you and your guests to enjoy impeccable service and a celebration you'll never forget.

Facilities and Capacity

Bourne Mansion can accommodate up to 1,000 guests. You can exchange your vows on the great lawn overlooking the Great South Bay. Your guests can then sip delicious cocktails on the lovely courtyard patio while you and your spouse pose for those all-important wedding portraits. You and your guests can then make your way to the Grand Ballroom for your reception. This elegant space boasts 40-foot vaulted ceilings, a decorative glass dome, crystal lighting sconces, and gilded plasterwork.

Services Offered

Bourne Mansion hosts no more than one wedding per day, so you can book with confidence, knowing that you and your party will receive all the time and attention that your special day deserves. The mansion's wedding coordinator will work with you one-on-one to ensure that everything is just the way you want it. Whatever your needs, you can count on them to be there for you every step of the way. A maître d', an attendant, and an event captain will also be on hand on the day of your celebration to make sure that your celebration runs smoothly from start to finish. Tables, chairs, and linens are included in their rental fee, along with china, glassware, and flatware. Bourne Mansion's talented in-house culinary team offers an array of mouthwatering menu items to choose from, and they’re happy to accommodate any special dietary requirements you may have.

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FAQ’s

Do you have a site fee for wedding receptions at your venue?

Yes

Do you have a site fee for wedding ceremonies at your venue?

Yes

Which of the following are included in starting site fee?

Bridal Suite
Chairs
China
Clean Up
Flatware
Glassware
Linens
Parking
Set Up
Tables

Which of the following are included in the cost of wedding catering?

Cake Cutting
Dessert
Server(s)

Which of the following are included in the starting price for bar service?

Bartender(s)

How many event spaces or rooms does your venue offer?

1

Describe your venue:

Banquet Hall
Historic Building
Mansion

What kind of settings are available?

Indoor
Covered Outdoor
Uncovered Outdoor

Which of the following wedding events does your venue service?

Ceremony
Reception

What event services do you offer?

Event Rentals

What catering services do you offer?

Buffet
Cocktail Reception
Dessert
Outside Cake
Plated
Server(s)
Stations

What bar services do you provide?

Bartender(s)
Champagne Toast
House Beer
House Liquor
House Wine
Liquor License
Open Bar
Premium Liquor
Signature Drink
Specialty Wine

What event items are available?

Chairs

What food and beverage items are available?

Linens

What transportation and access is available?

Parking
Valet
Wheelchair Access

What months are included in your peak season?

March
April
May
June
July
August
September
October

What months are included in your off-peak season?

January
February
November
December
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Reviews of Bourne Mansion

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4.9 out of 5 rating
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2025 Winner
4.9 out of 5 rating
103 reviews
97% recommend it
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    4.9 out of 5 rating
  • Average response time
    4.8 out of 5 rating
  • Professionalism
    4.9 out of 5 rating
  • Value
    4.9 out of 5 rating
  • Flexibility
    4.8 out of 5 rating
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Bourne Mansion is highly praised for its exceptional service, stunning venue, and delicious food. The team, including Miriam, Steve, and Nicolette, received glowing reviews for their professionalism and attention to detail. Couples highlighted the seamless planning process, beautiful outdoor ceremony, grand ballroom for the reception, and impressive cocktail hour options. Guests raved about the venue's beauty and the attentive staff, making Bourne Mansion a top recommendation for a dream wedding experience.

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Bourne Mansion is highly praised for its exceptional service, stunning venue, and delicious food. The team, including Miriam, Steve, and Nicolette, received glowing reviews for their professionalism and attention to detail. Couples highlighted the seamless planning process, beautiful outdoor ceremony, grand ballroom for the reception, and impressive cocktail hour options. Guests raved about the venue's beauty and the attentive staff, making Bourne Mansion a top recommendation for a dream wedding experience.

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4.9/5 103 reviews
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4.5/5 394 reviews
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387E1375C4757D5685Aa3312D2Aee9A2Fb16C628 Sent on 12/06/2023
5 out of 5 rating

My fairy tail come true

Better than I could have ever dreamed of! Miriam is absolutely amazing and walked me through each process with recommendations and answered my questions any time of day. Steve is beyond words! He was our maître d’ and I was absolutely blown away. We felt like royalty on our wedding day. Anything we needed, our entire timeline, helping with my dress, legitimately anything that could have been a worry was taken care of by Steve or Sam our bridal attendant. We are forever grateful for the entire staff at the Bourne Mansion not only for making our night the best wedding I could have ever imagined but for being able to work with such incredible people that I will never forget in my lifetime. Book your wedding here!
Aileen
Aileen Sent on 11/06/2024
4.8 out of 5 rating

100% Recommend Bourne Mansion

Bourne Mansion and the team made our day so special. Everything was amazing from the food to the service. The venue itself is so impressive and does not require tons of decor. The team, especially Steve, our event manager, and Samantha, our bridal coordinator were incredible and strive to prioritize the bride and groom. We couldn't have asked for a better experience from beginning to end.

Miriam was also so accommodating with all of our menu and setup requests.

I wouldn't change one thing about my whole experience with Bourne Mansion!
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Alex Sent on 10/31/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Can't say enough good things!

Our wedding on July 13, 2024, was truly unforgettable, and we can’t say enough good things about the day. We searched all over Long Island for a venue that would stand out from the rest, and that search led us to Bourne Mansion. From the moment we booked in October 2023, everything ran smoothly. If you’re a bride who feels the weight of making sure every detail is perfect, you’re in great hands with Miriam and her team. They guide you through every step of the planning process with frequent check-ins, vendor recommendations, and invaluable advice.

When it came time to select our menu, we were blown away by everything at the tasting and had trouble choosing. Miriam's expert guidance helped us make those big decisions with confidence. Steve, our Maitre D, was exceptional—professional, fun, and on top of every detail. He and Nicolette, our bridal attendant, were always nearby to ensure everything went off without a hitch. The food was delicious, the drinks were flowing, and there was never a line at the bar. Our guests couldn’t stop raving about the day, and we are so grateful we chose Bourne Mansion as our wedding venue. Highly highly recommend this venue!!
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Bourne Mansion frequently asked questions

Bourne Mansion includes the following items and services for wedding events in its starting site fee:
  • Bridal Suite
  • Chairs
  • China
  • Clean Up
  • Flatware
  • Glassware
  • Linens
  • Parking
  • Set Up
  • Tables
Bourne Mansion includes the following items and services in its wedding catering costs:
  • Cake Cutting
  • Dessert
  • Server(s)
The bar service starting price at Bourne Mansion includes:
  • Bartender(s)
The space offered by Bourne Mansion for wedding events is known for:
  • Banquet Hall
  • Historic Building
  • Mansion
Bourne Mansion offers the following indoor/outdoor options for weddings:
  • Indoor
  • Covered Outdoor
  • Uncovered Outdoor
Bourne Mansion offers the following types of wedding events:
  • Ceremony
  • Reception
Bourne Mansion offers the following services for wedding events:
  • Event Rentals
Bourne Mansion offers the following furniture and decor items for weddings:
  • Chairs
Bourne Mansion is recommended by 97% of couples who have used their services. Their overall rating is 4.9 out of 5 with the following breakdown: 4.9 in quality of service, 4.9 in professionalism, 4.9 in value, 4.8 in average response time and 4.8 in flexibility.

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