Bourne Mansion

My husband and I recently had our wedding at Bourne Mansion, and we truly could not have asked for a more perfect experience.

From the very beginning of the planning process, Miriam was absolutely incredible. She was responsive, knowledgeable, patient, and always willing to answer our questions and help bring our vision to life. Planning a wedding can be overwhelming, but Miriam made the entire process feel manageable and stress-free.

On the wedding day itself, Matthew, Sam, and Nico were simply amazing. They went above and beyond to make sure every detail was exactly as we envisioned. Their professionalism, attentiveness, and calm presence allowed us to relax and fully enjoy our day. Everything ran so smoothly, and we always felt like we were in great hands.

Unfortunately, it was too cold for us to take many photos outside, but the venue itself is absolutely stunning. Bourne Mansion is breathtaking both inside and out, and our guests have not stopped talking about how beautiful it was. The mansion provides such an elegant and timeless backdrop that it made our wedding feel truly special.

The food was another highlight. As most brides can probably relate, I didn't get a chance to eat much during the wedding, but our guests certainly did! We received countless compliments about both the cocktail hour and dinner. Everyone left full, happy, and incredibly satisfied. If they're available on the menu, I highly recommend the Short Ribs and the Long Island Duck Breast—our guests absolutely loved them.

Thank you to Miriam, Matthew, Sam, Nico, and the entire Bourne Mansion team for helping create a wedding day that exceeded our expectations. We will always look back on our experience with gratitude and would highly recommend Bourne Mansion to any couple looking for a beautiful venue and an exceptional staff.

Bourne Mansion was the most perfect venue for our timeless and elegant wedding vision. Once you step into the Bourne Mansion you are in awe of all its beauty. The food is out of this world and our guests are still raving about our most special day. Having the mansion all to our selves the day of was amazing. Staff were incredibly helpful and friendly throughout the night! (Miriam and Sam you out did yourselves!!). I cannot wait to get my wedding pictures back to be able to go back to the most beautiful day of my life. I could not recommend this venue enough to anyone looking to have your vision come to life.

My husband and I had a fairytale wedding at Bourne Mansion in January, 2026. We knew the day was going to be amazing, but it was even more beautiful than we could have imagined. The staff worked extremely hard to keep the day running smoothly and to allow the bride and groom to stay in the moment. The bridal attendant, Sam was extremely attentive and anticipated my needs without me having to ask. The maitre d, Reed, was very professional and polite and gave us periodic timeline updates and checked in with us to make sure the event was set up as we desired. The staff at Bourne Mansion did a fantastic job of setting up our decor and working with my maid of honor to tweak the placement of decorations. They also were extremely efficient at packing up all of our belongings at the end of the night. They even sent us home with all of the leftover wedding cake, dessert, and dinners. We did not need to lift a finger. Throughout the process, my husband and I worked with Miriam for planning. She was wonderful to work with and gave her honest opinions and was very helpful. She was more than willing to answer all of my detailed questions so that I could plan the wedding day. Bourne Mansion is a one of a kind, gorgeous venue that will truly amaze your guests. It is beautiful even without any decoration added to it. We had an indoor ceremony in the oak room. It felt extremely classy. We also chose to get the uplighting package, and it was really worth it. It completely set the ambiance of the ballroom and gave it the right amount of lighting so that it did not feel dark. It added a very elegant effect. Our guests have been raving about the food at the cocktail hour and dinner with many of our vegetarian friends telling us the vegetarian dinner option was the best wedding meal they had ever had. We chose to add the Italian Station onto our cocktail hour, which was delicious. I recommend you attend one of the Bourne Mansion showcases to get discounts on the cocktail food add-ons and to try it out in advance. We had selected the chateaubriand with the five peppercorn sauce, Bourbon maple glazed salmon, horseradish crusted chicken with sweet potato risotto, and cauliflower steak for our dinner options. All were fantastic. We are so thrilled to have had our wedding day at Bourne Mansion and cannot recommend it enough! Everything from the venue, to the food, to the staff was amazing.

We had the absolute best day. Could not recommend Bourne enough! The mansion itself is gorgeous but the food, service and staff are amazing as well. Miriam was extremely helpful throughout the entire process!

Our wedding on July 13, 2024, was truly unforgettable, and we can’t say enough good things about the day. We searched all over Long Island for a venue that would stand out from the rest, and that search led us to Bourne Mansion. From the moment we booked in October 2023, everything ran smoothly. If you’re a bride who feels the weight of making sure every detail is perfect, you’re in great hands with Miriam and her team. They guide you through every step of the planning process with frequent check-ins, vendor recommendations, and invaluable advice.

When it came time to select our menu, we were blown away by everything at the tasting and had trouble choosing. Miriam's expert guidance helped us make those big decisions with confidence. Steve, our Maitre D, was exceptional—professional, fun, and on top of every detail. He and Nicolette, our bridal attendant, were always nearby to ensure everything went off without a hitch. The food was delicious, the drinks were flowing, and there was never a line at the bar. Our guests couldn’t stop raving about the day, and we are so grateful we chose Bourne Mansion as our wedding venue. Highly highly recommend this venue!!

I had the wedding of my dreams at the Bourne Mansion. The whole team went above and beyond to make sure we had a perfect day. Miriam was so helpful and responsive leading up to the wedding answering all my questions, Steve orchestrated the whole day like I've never seen before, and Nicolette helped make sure I was always taken care of. The whole Bourne team is absolutely amazing and I cannot thank them enough. My parents, in-laws, and all of our guests were all so impressed with how Steve ran the whole show, the endless delicious food (including cheese wheel, sushi station, martini ice luge, circulating oyster shucker, all the entrees, donut wall, late night snacks and more!), and the just how beautiful the venue is. Our outside ceremony moved seamlessly into a cocktail hour, followed by reception in the ballroom, and then after party throughout the other rooms. I could not recommend the Bourne more and would choose it again over and over! You can trust that you're in amazing hands with this team.

It is hard to overstate how spectacular our experience was at Bourne Mansion. Breathtaking grounds, stunning interiors, sumptuous cuisine, however, the service provided by the dedicated and talented staff is what made the whole more than even the sum of its parts. Kindness, professionalism, and organization every step of the way; including guidance through the planning process by Miriam. Everyone was excellent, but I must mention our maitre d', Jake, who went above and beyond in every way, making us comfortable and attending to our guests. The day went off spectacularly, he has a true talent for managing events and we were beyond delighted. Our guests can't stop talking about the food, service, and beautiful interiors and grounds of this venue.
If we could get married again, we would do it all over just the same way.
We couldn't have dreamed of a better day to celebrate our love.

We had our wedding at the Bourne Mansion, and it was an absolutely stunning venue. The beautiful outdoor ceremony and the grand ballroom for the reception created the perfect setting for our dream wedding. The staff was incredible, and the food was superb. Everyone raved about the many options during the cocktail hour, making it a highlight of the evening.

Miriam, the director of sales, was fantastic. She answered all our questions and provided excellent recommendations. Throughout the months leading up to the wedding, she consistently responded promptly, helping us feel confident and well-prepared.

Steve was the Maitre D’, and he did an outstanding job ensuring everything ran smoothly and timely throughout the day. He took his responsibilities very seriously and worked hard to ensure we had the perfect night. Steve provided helpful advice and helped us resolve any issues that arose, both big and small.

Overall, the Bourne Mansion exceeded our expectations, and we couldn't have asked for a more perfect wedding venue.

I cannot put into words how amazing it was to work with each person at the Bourne mansion. We got married on June 7, 2024 and the day was an absolute dream. From the day we met Miriam, she assured us that our wedding day was going to be spectacular, and it was that and MORE! She was an absolute pleasure to work with throughout the planning process, answering any and all questions. She always led us in the right direction and had the best recommendations! Steve was our Maitre D, and he was absolutely incredible. He ensured that the schedule was followed and assisted each and every step of the way. He was very organized and not a beat was missed! Him and the bridal attendant worked so well with myself, my family, and bridal party so well the night of the wedding, i could not have asked for it to be run any smoother!

Our experience with the Bourne mansion was absolutely incredible, and I wouldn’t change a single thing! From the first day i ever walked into the Bourne mansion for my first appointment with Miriam, to the end of my wedding night, was such a pleasure with the Bourne Mansion team. MY DREAM WEDDING!!!

My new husband and I could not be more happy that we chose Bourne Mansion for our wedding. From our first meeting with Miriam, we knew we were in good hands. She helped us through every step of the planning process and provided such a sense of comfort that everything would go smoothly - she was professional, responsive, and genuinely caring. Our wedding day could not have been more perfect - we lucked out with the weather and our guests were able to enjoy every part of the mansion - everyone was impressed by the grounds, rooms, and especially the food! We were also grateful for Steve, our maitre d the day of who made sure everything went off without a hitch. All in all, the organized and thoughtful team at Bourne can't be beat!