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387E1375C4757D5685Aa3312D2Aee9A2Fb16C628 Sent on 12/06/2023My fairy tail come true
Better than I could have ever dreamed of! Miriam is absolutely amazing and walked me through each process with recommendations and answered my questions any time of day. Steve is beyond words! He was our maître d’ and I was absolutely blown away. We felt like royalty on our wedding day. Anything we needed, our entire timeline, helping with my dress, legitimately anything that could have been a worry was taken care of by Steve or Sam our bridal attendant. We are forever grateful for the entire staff at the Bourne Mansion not only for making our night the best wedding I could have ever imagined but for being able to work with such incredible people that I will never forget in my lifetime. Book your wedding here! -
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Melanie Sent on 02/23/2025Dream day!
We had the absolute best day. Could not recommend Bourne enough! The mansion itself is gorgeous but the food, service and staff are amazing as well. Miriam was extremely helpful throughout the entire process! -
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Aileen Sent on 11/06/2024100% Recommend Bourne Mansion
Bourne Mansion and the team made our day so special. Everything was amazing from the food to the service. The venue itself is so impressive and does not require tons of decor. The team, especially Steve, our event manager, and Samantha, our bridal coordinator were incredible and strive to prioritize the bride and groom. We couldn't have asked for a better experience from beginning to end.
Miriam was also so accommodating with all of our menu and setup requests.
I wouldn't change one thing about my whole experience with Bourne Mansion! -
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Lexie Sent on 10/30/2024A perfect day at the Bourne!!
I had the wedding of my dreams at the Bourne Mansion. The whole team went above and beyond to make sure we had a perfect day. Miriam was so helpful and responsive leading up to the wedding answering all my questions, Steve orchestrated the whole day like I've never seen before, and Nicolette helped make sure I was always taken care of. The whole Bourne team is absolutely amazing and I cannot thank them enough. My parents, in-laws, and all of our guests were all so impressed with how Steve ran the whole show, the endless delicious food (including cheese wheel, sushi station, martini ice luge, circulating oyster shucker, all the entrees, donut wall, late night snacks and more!), and the just how beautiful the venue is. Our outside ceremony moved seamlessly into a cocktail hour, followed by reception in the ballroom, and then after party throughout the other rooms. I could not recommend the Bourne more and would choose it again over and over! You can trust that you're in amazing hands with this team. -
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Erin Sent on 10/16/2024The Day of our Dreams
It is hard to overstate how spectacular our experience was at Bourne Mansion. Breathtaking grounds, stunning interiors, sumptuous cuisine, however, the service provided by the dedicated and talented staff is what made the whole more than even the sum of its parts. Kindness, professionalism, and organization every step of the way; including guidance through the planning process by Miriam. Everyone was excellent, but I must mention our maitre d', Jake, who went above and beyond in every way, making us comfortable and attending to our guests. The day went off spectacularly, he has a true talent for managing events and we were beyond delighted. Our guests can't stop talking about the food, service, and beautiful interiors and grounds of this venue.
If we could get married again, we would do it all over just the same way.
We couldn't have dreamed of a better day to celebrate our love. -
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Tim M. Sent on 07/23/2024Amazing Experience!
We had our wedding at the Bourne Mansion, and it was an absolutely stunning venue. The beautiful outdoor ceremony and the grand ballroom for the reception created the perfect setting for our dream wedding. The staff was incredible, and the food was superb. Everyone raved about the many options during the cocktail hour, making it a highlight of the evening.
Miriam, the director of sales, was fantastic. She answered all our questions and provided excellent recommendations. Throughout the months leading up to the wedding, she consistently responded promptly, helping us feel confident and well-prepared.
Steve was the Maitre D’, and he did an outstanding job ensuring everything ran smoothly and timely throughout the day. He took his responsibilities very seriously and worked hard to ensure we had the perfect night. Steve provided helpful advice and helped us resolve any issues that arose, both big and small.
Overall, the Bourne Mansion exceeded our expectations, and we couldn't have asked for a more perfect wedding venue. -
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Lauren Sent on 07/02/2024My dream wedding day!
I cannot put into words how amazing it was to work with each person at the Bourne mansion. We got married on June 7, 2024 and the day was an absolute dream. From the day we met Miriam, she assured us that our wedding day was going to be spectacular, and it was that and MORE! She was an absolute pleasure to work with throughout the planning process, answering any and all questions. She always led us in the right direction and had the best recommendations! Steve was our Maitre D, and he was absolutely incredible. He ensured that the schedule was followed and assisted each and every step of the way. He was very organized and not a beat was missed! Him and the bridal attendant worked so well with myself, my family, and bridal party so well the night of the wedding, i could not have asked for it to be run any smoother!
Our experience with the Bourne mansion was absolutely incredible, and I wouldn’t change a single thing! From the first day i ever walked into the Bourne mansion for my first appointment with Miriam, to the end of my wedding night, was such a pleasure with the Bourne Mansion team. MY DREAM WEDDING!!! -
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Alanna Sent on 06/03/2024You're in good hands at Bourne!
My new husband and I could not be more happy that we chose Bourne Mansion for our wedding. From our first meeting with Miriam, we knew we were in good hands. She helped us through every step of the planning process and provided such a sense of comfort that everything would go smoothly - she was professional, responsive, and genuinely caring. Our wedding day could not have been more perfect - we lucked out with the weather and our guests were able to enjoy every part of the mansion - everyone was impressed by the grounds, rooms, and especially the food! We were also grateful for Steve, our maitre d the day of who made sure everything went off without a hitch. All in all, the organized and thoughtful team at Bourne can't be beat! -
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Veronica Sent on 04/20/2024Amazing venue
My husband and I got married at Bourne Mansion on 4/13/24 with about 210 guests. I truly cannot say enough on how amazing this venue is—from the first time I emailed Miriam in early 2023 to our wedding day, everything was perfect. Miriam was a dream to work with and she helped us with planning every step of the way and was on top of our wedding timeline perfectly. She responds so quickly too! Steve was our maitre d on the day of our wedding and all I can say is WOW. He managed to keep the night moving perfectly on time despite us having a wedding party of 20+ people. He listened to what we had wanted to do in terms of our entertainment vendors and he made it happen. He took care of my husband and I throughout the entire night as well—I’m pregnant and he would literally find me on the dance floor and hand me a glass of water to drink. Nicolette was my bridal attendant and she was incredible as well!! Our guests were so blown away by the venue, the cocktail hour, the ball room—absolutely everything! It was the most perfect night and much of it was thanks to Bourne and its staff! -
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Daniel Sent on 04/05/2024
The best of Long Island
I've been photographing weddings at Bourne Mansion for almost 10 years, and I can't tell you how much I appreciate the staff at Bourne Mansion. Miriam, Steve and Jake - all wonderful people who wear their heart on their sleeve.
Each wedding has ran smoother than any other wedding venue I've been to. Always on time, and the parting is always jamming! Steve takes all the time to be approachable to his couples, and provides a level of service I haven't seen at other wedding venues. He's a wonderful, big personality that I've come to really enjoy being around, and he's a staple at Bourne Mansion.
Looking forward to many more weddings here at the best wedding venue on Long Island! -
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Robyn Sent on 03/13/2024Absolutely Amazing !
The Bourne Mansion is absolutely incredible ! The old world elegance is timeless . Thanks to the entire staff we had the wedding of our dreams. We are still receiving phone calls about how beautiful the wedding was. Everyone keeps telling us from the food , to the service to every small detail in between that it was the best wedding they have ever been to. Miriam was such a pleasure to work with during the whole booking process. We live in Florida and needed to plan a wedding in two months time. Miriam made that whole process stress free . The day of the wedding Steve made sure everything ran on time and everyone was where they needed to be and when. The entire day ran smoothly. Our wedding day was stress free thanks to Steve and the entire staff at Bourne Mansion . Thanks to their kindness and impressive standard of service we were able to enjoy our wedding day and not worry about a thing. I can’t thank the entire staff at Bourne Mansion enough for helping to make our wedding day absolutely perfect ! -
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John Sent on 03/12/2024
They care about the little details that matter and it showed - highly recommend!
Awesome experience from day one - great advice from Miriam and Steve- helped us have the party of our dreams, guests were blown away by the details and the food, highly recommend! -
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Alexandra Sent on 02/05/2024The best night of our + our guests lives!
The venue, the food, the staff - I don’t even know how to put into words the way Steve, Sam and Miram at the mansion made us feel. And not just the two of us! Family is so incredibly important to us and the fact that they felt like celebrities meant the absolute world to us. We have a very matriarchal family and it was so special to see our grandmothers in particular shine from inside out. It is incredibly hard to get a compliment from them but they had nothing but wonderful things to say, especially regarding how attentive Steve and the staff were to their needs. In addition, the fact that they recognized our parents as an integral part of the evening made the night all the better. We wanted to have fun (and we did) but we wanted everyone we love to have fun even more. Everything went SO smoothly. Steve ran a tight ship and choreographed the staff at Bourne like a well-oiled machine; every time I saw him lean over to talk in his mic/walkie talkie I felt like a literal celebrity lol. Sam was also so sweet and attentive, bustling my gown, getting down on her hands and knees to tie my shoes etc. I am eternally grateful for the both of them.
I was really concerned about the food and can tell you it was absolutely AMAZING. Sam prepared us plates on plates of cocktail hour food for our bridal suite and Steve brought us one of every entrée to taste. The tuna was so so so insane and I was shocked by how great the buddha bowl was. Our guests raved about every single thing they ate from cocktail hour to dessert. I loved the plated service and how the servers were synchronized in presentation. We added the coffee and cordial bar at the end of the night and I loved how they set up the cookies and pastries alongside it to make it seem like a small Viennese hour.
I could quite literally talk about our day forever; the bottom line, Bourne and the staff there have handled THOUSANDS of weddings, but your day will most certainly feel like one of a kind. -
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Michael Sent on 01/09/2024This is The place to get Marry !!!!!!!
Miriam is an amazing person, and a great help to getting to weddign all booked and cordinated, but the man of the hour who makes all your visions come to life is Steve Melita, this man goes above and beyond to make your special day a true dream come to life my wife and i coulndt be happier with everythign he did for us. -
Julia Sent on 11/02/2023
Thank you Steve!
We had an incredible night at Bourne Mansion. So many of our guests said this was the best wedding they have ever been to. The food was delicious and Steve the maitre d' guided us through the whole night, and even saved us a seat on the bus. Thank you for all the staffs hard work. The wedding completely exceeded our expectations.
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Chukwuma Sent on 08/27/2023Picture Perfect Wedding
I just got married at Bourne Mansion and it was beyond anything we could have imagined. The staff had everything from ceremony to cocktail hour to reception running like clockwork. And the venue was gorgeous. From the beautiful outdoor ceremony to the wonderfully lit main hall. The food was delicious and the staff was exceptional! Would enthusiastically recommend without hesitation! -
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Camille Sent on 02/05/2023Absolutely amazing
I just had my wedding at the Bourne Mansion on Friday! Let me tell you, everything was absolutely beautiful!! Steve, Miriam and the whole Bourne Mansion team are so amazing, helpful and professional. Miriam was so incredible and helpful in the planning process and helped address all of my questions or confirming all details. Steve was absolutely amazing the day of and the few days leading up to the wedding. He truly had our back and ensured our day ran so smoothly and that all details of the day were in place. He was amazing to work with and ensured that not only our guests were taken care of but that my husband and I were taken care of and guided to where we needed to be and our wedding party as well.
The whole Bourne Mansion team is truly on point with every little detail and helped provide advice and information before we confirmed decisions about our special day. They made me feel at ease just knowing how professional and organized they are down to the little details.
We can’t get over how beautiful the wedding was there and our guests only had such positive things to say! -
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Nicole Sent on 11/22/2022Dream Come True!
we had 164 guests total and it truly was the perfect amount. The mansion was just stunning and the food was amazing. Our guests are still raving about the food! Our guests loved being able to wander around the various rooms and feel like they’re in the Great Gatsby. Bournes staff and Maitre D were also incredible. They ensured we had a drink in our hands the entire time and just overall made us feel like royalty. The entire booking and planning process was simple and seamless. Bourne mansion made our wedding dreams truly come true. -
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