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Your wedding at Bluestem farm

Originally a dairy barn, this 100 year old barn has been transformed to a classic and elegant wedding and event barn with many modern amenities you and your guests expect for your wedding. We hold only one wedding per weekend with wedding coordination. This personalizes each wedding experience, creating the wedding of your dreams!

Amenities

You can have everything you have ever dreamed for your rustic wedding. Here is a full list of amenities that are offered at Bluestem Farm's De Graslanden Barn:

  • Indoor Restrooms

  • Air Conditioning/ Heat

  • Rustic Bar and whiskey barrel cocktail tables

  • Outdoor Patio

  • Indoor or Outdoor ceremony space

  • Capacity of 180

  • Tables and Chairs for reception and ceremony

  • Pergola for ceremony

  • Elegant lighting

  • Full day rental

  • Elevator

  • Out buildings for bridal party use

  • Day-of vendor coordination

  • 3 acres of lawn for your guests to spread out and enjoy

  • 140 acres of prairie for that peaceful setting




  • Woman-owned
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Frequently asked questions

Do you have a site fee for wedding receptions at your venue?

Yes

What is the starting site fee for wedding receptions during peak season?

$5,000

What is the starting site fee for wedding receptions during off-peak season?

$5,000

Do you have a site fee for wedding ceremonies at your venue?

No

Which of the following are included in starting site fee?

Bridal Suite
Chairs
Clean Up
Event Planning
Parking
Set Up
Tables

What is the minimum number of guests required to book your venue?

1

How many event spaces or rooms does your venue offer?

2

Describe your venue:

Barn
Farm/Ranch
Garden
Historic Building

What kind of settings are available?

Indoor
Uncovered Outdoor

Which of the following wedding events does your venue service?

Ceremony
Reception
Bridal Shower
Engagement Party
Elopements

What event services do you offer?

Accommodations
Clean Up
Event Planner
Get Ready Rooms
Liability Insurance
Outside Vendors
Pet Friendly
Wifi

What bar services do you provide?

Outside Alcohol

What event items are available?

Altar/Arch
Chairs
Decor
Furniture
Lighting
Tables

What food and beverage items are available?

Linens

What transportation and access is available?

Parking
Shuttle
Wheelchair Access

What months are included in your peak season?

September
October

What months are included in your off-peak season?

May
June
July
August

Reviews of Bluestem Farm & Events

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WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2025 Winner
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69 reviews
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Bluestem Farm and Events is highly praised by multiple couples for its beautiful rustic barn venue, well-maintained grounds, and exceptional service provided by Kelly, the venue owner. Couples appreciate Kelly's attentiveness, flexibility, and seamless coordination throughout the planning process and on the wedding day. The venue's picturesque setting, string lights, chandeliers, and indoor/outdoor options make it a perfect choice for weddings, and the bridal and groom suites are well-equipped and accommodating. From efficient clean-up to helpful communication, Bluestem Farm receives high recommendations for weddings in the northern IL/southeastern WI areas.

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This AI-generated summary gives you a snapshot of the overall ratings and feedback from the reviews this vendor has received.

Bluestem Farm and Events is highly praised by multiple couples for its beautiful rustic barn venue, well-maintained grounds, and exceptional service provided by Kelly, the venue owner. Couples appreciate Kelly's attentiveness, flexibility, and seamless coordination throughout the planning process and on the wedding day. The venue's picturesque setting, string lights, chandeliers, and indoor/outdoor options make it a perfect choice for weddings, and the bridal and groom suites are well-equipped and accommodating. From efficient clean-up to helpful communication, Bluestem Farm receives high recommendations for weddings in the northern IL/southeastern WI areas.

Kayla
Kayla Sent on 10/01/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Our June 15th wedding of 2024

We had our wedding 6/15/24 at the blue stem farms and events. When I say this venue is breathtaking, it has everything you’re looking for in a rustic style barn. From the beautiful property to the barn this will make your wedding day even more special. Have to give a huge shot out to Kelly the owner, she is the sweetest lady you will meet. She made sure during the whole planning process to be by our sides. If you need to speak to her, she’s right there for you. On our wedding day she made sure everything ran smoothly. I cannot think of one thing that went wrong. She did a fabulous job ensuring everything was set up properly with the vendors. Highly recommend!
Denise
Denise Sent on 09/30/2023
5 out of 5 rating

Amazing Place to have your whole wedding

Kelly and her staff were so kind since the moment we walked in to the day of the wedding. She made sure all my questions were answered and everything was set up just as we asked. I couldnt have been more pleased with the entire venue. Highly recomment having your next wedding/event here.
Caitlin
Caitlin Sent on 09/13/2023
5 out of 5 rating

Everything I Dreamed Of And More

My husband and I viewed Bluestem Farms during the big wedding boom! Kelly was excellent, she answered all of our questions told us what season is her favorite at the venue and how things will work for the day of. We ended up putting our downpayment later that day for our wedding day.

Kelly was really flexible. She let us do a payment plan which made our wedding so much more possible. There was even a month that I was a couple days late on the money getting to her because of the mail and all that, but I communicated it all to Kelly and she was very understanding.

We had an option to do a rehearsal at the venue but it was the Thursday before the wedding. Although this was a nice option for us, we already planned our rehearsal dinner for the Friday before the wedding. I know in 2024 it will be different as when you book the venue, it will be for the entire weekend instead of just the day.

The day of the wedding was perfect! Kelly was there all day with us. She was around helping us make the venue into our dream venue. We rented the China and she placed them all on the tables while we were getting ready. Our wedding day was really windy, windier than expected. Kelly helped us figure out how we will have our ceremony decor outside without it being blown away or broken!

I cannot recommend this venue enough!

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